| 9/14/2008 9:44:38 AM |
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daytonishere
Marathon, NY
age: 30 online now!
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I am begining to think that nice guys do finish last. I havew been out looking and I have noticed that women (well in this area) dont want nice guys. I always thought that u treated someone nice then u would get that in return but that is not the case some of them take kindness for a weakness, dont get me wrong I know that there are guys out there that are the same. I dont really know what people think and ladies I am not judging everyone just because of that but if u get one bad apple it kind of leaves a bad taste in ur mouth for the rest of the bunch.
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| 9/14/2008 4:10:28 PM |
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pats012
Newburgh, NY
age: 18
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ya u r right no girls want a nice, caring sweet sensitive guy, im so tired of it! f-ing jerks always get the girls
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| 9/14/2008 6:09:37 PM |
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justacountrygal
Maspeth, NY
age: 37
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It seems that you younger guys have the right mindset, however, at your ages, most girls are still not looking for the right kind of guy.
Unfortunately, while I have been looking for the nice guy to come around, I have met only a**holes... at least in the long run.
I wish there were more nice guys in my age bracket.
Keep the faith guys, you will meet the one who will appreciate who you are, and then you can have the last laugh on all the bad boyz.
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| 9/15/2008 9:46:45 AM |
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extremevocal
Rochester, NY
age: 23
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Been single for 7 years now.
Only one REAL gf.
Ive been walked on time and time again.
Ive given up LONG ago.
I have a music career I am focusing on now.
No woman is worth the stress and aggravations.
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| 9/15/2008 10:14:27 AM |
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qweensgambit
Poughkeepsie, NY
age: 46
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What I Want
When I was young, I was attracted to "bad boys"......
Now that I am in my forties, I am attracted to bad MEN.
Hahahaha! Just teasing.....I do want a nice guy! In addition to being nice, he has to be attractive, well groomed, intelligent, funny, witty, charming, confident, educated, (self educated is fine too), successful, patient, and forgiving. He should also be just a little bit bad, when it is appropriete to be.
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| 9/15/2008 10:56:45 PM |
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musicismyporn
Bay Shore, NY
age: 20
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honestly, i'll admit if a person is too nice for some reason it tends to bother me..i wish i could figure it out because then id be able to explain why it may be that females go towards guys that treat them horribly. Ive been with some guys before that are so nice, they appear somewhat weak to me..arent vocal with how they feel..and baby. Just seems like a guy like that cant handle me.
But dont think that us females dont want a guy who will treat them nicely! (sometimes we're just not used to how it feels )
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| 9/16/2008 6:52:57 AM |
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daytonishere
Marathon, NY
age: 30 online now!
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How can a guy be too nice? I mean if it is the right nice that means u r probably getting everything u want and need. See that is another thing women(not all ) tend to take niceness or kindness as a weakness then they tend to treat u like a door mat.
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| 9/16/2008 8:00:52 AM |
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washingtonbound
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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Sometimes the perfect one for you is passed up with out even a second glance....I know what Im looking for..and its not someone who will treat me like shit..
respect is earned not givin..some people never grow up....
There are alot of us that would like a nice guy..NO not to use or walk over but to love and to treat as our best friend...maybe someday we will find that..then again who knows..
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| 9/16/2008 4:38:33 PM |
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betsaces
Ilion, NY
age: 62
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Don't mean nothin; nice guy personality will soon be bred out of the gene pool. Have fun having fun with the bad boys..cause changing your mind later will soon be too late! Un-natural selection..Mom nature is an unforgiving mistress.
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| 9/16/2008 5:33:11 PM |
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onlyareallady
Mohawk, NY
age: 65
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might suggest that you keep ooking, there ae lots of nice girls, but at the same time you need to be a nice guy!Would you even consider someone who wanted a "bad boy"
[Edited 9/16/2008 5:34:01 PM]
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| 9/16/2008 11:36:09 PM |
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caser
Canastota, NY
age: 25
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i noticed this as gotten a lot of posts and ive been going thru them and i gather from it that i should be more of an a@@hole and not be clingy which i will agree w/ but and its the girl asking you to do stuff for her and stick up for her and sometimes lie for her, kinda messing w/ the mind and it still does a lil bit. ne wayz i know what most of you all gonna say im being used! i know that i hate it but i am glad to know that some women don't want the bad boy type. well ill type that different no girl wants a a@@hole. just remember nice guy can be bad boys in a good way
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| 9/17/2008 5:02:05 AM |
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onlyareallady
Mohawk, NY
age: 65
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caser...
just be who you are, if you are nice guy than be proud of it, there are not that many of you around. It might take longer to find that special lady, but when you do she will be worth it and more!
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| 9/17/2008 5:37:32 AM |
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daytonishere
Marathon, NY
age: 30 online now!
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Caser Wrote i noticed this as gotten a lot of posts and ive been going thru them and i gather from it that i should be more of an a@@hole and not be clingy which i will agree w/ but and its the girl asking you to do stuff for her and stick up for her and sometimes lie for her, kinda messing w/ the mind and it still does a lil bit. ne wayz i know what most of you all gonna say im being used! i know that i hate it but i am glad to know that some women don't want the bad boy type. well ill type that different no girl wants a a@@hole. just remember nice guy can be bad boys in a good way.
I am begining to think this too that mayber nice guys do finish last
"just remember nice guy can be bad boys in a good way" and I am liking this line as well
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| 9/17/2008 12:34:01 PM |
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onlyareallady
Mohawk, NY
age: 65
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being a lot older than most of you, let me say "bad boys" get boring very quickly.
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| 9/17/2008 3:20:55 PM |
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janjam
Woodside, NY
age: 33
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Im sorry but I do have to interject---->only because its not about bein nice or a women who wants a bad guy,,no no no my darlin the problem is that a relationship takes more then just two weeks, it take year to build u could be with that person for years and still not quite know the person....we as humans change an we arent all the same...there is were we get to now each other ways and ends of things...Certain women have bein use to bein treated as meat and not as a person....so when they get involve with a man who treats her bad her instint r to react to that way.....Men today look upon women as throphy who has the biggest breast who physically looks better or who gives sex first..instead of takin their time and gettin to know the other...in the mental or emotional level...corney right but if we sat back an took time to wonder, im goin to date for a few month like 3 months instead of 3 days an got to know the person better maybe just maybe things will be different instead of she a mess an I dont want to clean her up...beneither under all of a bad wperson or vise versa theirs a good person after all...Chanllege yourself to be n not to be.....Well I personal dont like bad guys but I attract bad boys why..good girl attract bad guys vise versa...
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