| 1/26/2012 7:53:20 AM |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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Congrats, he's a loser if he had an affair. You're better off finding someone who won't.
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| 1/26/2012 11:40:23 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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74bkn
Cartersville, GA
41, joined Jan. 2012
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She wanted drugs and more than just 1 man
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| 1/26/2012 12:25:45 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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echo5710
Citrus Heights, CA
58, joined Jan. 2012
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she cheats and i have to pay her
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| 1/26/2012 3:55:59 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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It sure seems unfair, but the state (in the "no fault" system) doesn't care who cheats or not -- the kids have to be supported.
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| 1/26/2012 6:28:51 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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echo5710
Citrus Heights, CA
58, joined Jan. 2012
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no kids but still have to pay her support because i earn more! have to pay for half the lenght of marriage 23/2=11years x300 a month =$40k
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| 1/26/2012 8:55:44 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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Did she work?
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| 1/26/2012 9:38:33 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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echo5710
Citrus Heights, CA
58, joined Jan. 2012
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She still works for the state for 37 years now 55 1/2 she could retire right now with full medical!
[Edited 1/26/2012 9:39:42 PM ]
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| 1/26/2012 9:44:58 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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ddd20
Douglasville, GA
59, joined Jan. 2012
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She left my for a woman. 
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| 1/26/2012 10:44:34 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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katiejeanm
Bedford, IN
47, joined Nov. 2011
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My divorce was a very long time coming. He cheated, drugs, abusive, and basically very negative individual. It was for the best that it finally happened. Anyone who gets a divorce should just b happy they are not in that situation anymore. That person was not their true love. I can honestly say now I never really loved my x. I am far more happy now. Yeah, soo what I walked away and gave him everything I ever worked for. But I am free atleast.
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| 1/27/2012 3:05:23 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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pupsrbest
Snow Hill, MD
58, joined Jan. 2012
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He cheated on me. Starting hanging out this friends 20 years younger and partying like a 20 year old. He is 57.
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| 1/27/2012 7:37:07 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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Pathetic, isn't it? Probably the mystical, crappy "mid life crisis" so many men seem to go through. Sow some wild oats while they still have some time. No matter who it hurts, the faithful spouse, the children, extended family and friends. What a waste.
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| 1/27/2012 9:06:44 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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valais_ch
Fort Lauderdale, FL
60, joined Jan. 2012
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1.time: not compatible and I felt I was cheated over her past life story. duration 7 years -> lot of troubles and still now after 25 years.
2.time: she found somebody better. 3 years together, -> very easy, same lawyer, in 1 hour at the court.
3.time: was for a residency paper in Switzerland, messy and money interested. I just walked away from the country for 10 years. So she had to do by herself the divorce. No cost for me.
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| 1/27/2012 9:13:25 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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michelleranee
Hillsdale, MI
45, joined Nov. 2011
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I was beat physically and mentally tore apart then he cheated with a married woman was just done. But the laugh was on him because she (his true love) went back to her husband and now he is alone. Ha Ha Karma is a b*tch.
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| 1/28/2012 6:45:38 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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| 1/28/2012 8:05:44 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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bridunc
Menasha, WI
37, joined Jan. 2012
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My ex was a cheating lying wh*re. So low she even had our oldest kid babysit so she could go on a date while I was at work. Oh not to mention crazy her and her mother took this dowsing class and thought it gave them powers to answer questions about the past, present, and future.
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| 1/28/2012 9:03:44 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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kar1sma
Clifton, NJ
38, joined Nov. 2010
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I was beat physically and mentally tore apart then he cheated with a married woman was just done. But the laugh was on him because she (his true love) went back to her husband and now he is alone. Ha Ha Karma is a b*tch.
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| 1/28/2012 9:32:47 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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stitches75
Phoenix, AZ
40, joined Dec. 2011
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I try another 5 yrs after she cheated ..was never the same ..i had to move on..
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| 1/28/2012 4:59:52 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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katiejeanm
Bedford, IN
47, joined Nov. 2011
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ur are better off with out her. I believe u should never cheat on someone even if u HATE THEM. U need to have enough respect for urself and for what u once had to break it off before u do. Most people dont feel that way but that is how I was brought up and still live by that code. It is hard to do but It is the best for all parties envolved. MY x cheated with both sexs and that about destroyed me. But I got over it and NOW it is a funny story and yes freaky as hell
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| 1/28/2012 8:46:13 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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notrick58
Miami, FL
57, joined Jan. 2012
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She got bored sitting at home everyday while I worked. After I found out about the 15 guys she was cheating on me with.15 not kidding. Upstairs neighbor, next door neighbor, friend of a neighbor and all the others. Wanted to know why I didn't want to work on our marriage, what marriage. I told her I didn't want her anymore, no more then I would want to use someone else's toilet paper after they were done with it.
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| 1/28/2012 8:46:31 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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imaceltic
Salem, OR
63, joined Nov. 2011
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A person can only take verbal abuse so long.
After 30 yrs. of trying to keep it together, I started to lose who I was.
And believed what lies he was saying about me...
I had to get out.
I second that, plus he is an alcoholic when he told me I could not attend ALON because I was just trying to create problems I knew it was time to get out of an abusive marriage.
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| 1/28/2012 9:18:37 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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Wow, your stories are all so incredible. It's no wonder it's so hard to trust another person again after the other spouse cheats.
15 men? Unbelievable. I like your analogy to the toilet paper. She must be a walking minefield of VD. 
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| 1/29/2012 4:50:24 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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texasrose1980
Lexington, KY
34, joined Jan. 2012
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he cheated on me and i was not putting up with it.i wanted my son kevin to learn a lesson from it u do not cheat on someone u love if u do u really never loved them.
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| 1/29/2012 9:48:07 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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barbc48
Boise, ID
51, joined Jan. 2012
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After 25 years of marriage we both wanted diffrent things. We grew apart.
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| 2/3/2012 9:04:14 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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littleluck84
Naylor, MO
31, joined Jan. 2012
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I got tired of a sexless marriage, being fourth on his list of priority church, his family, his teenage boyfriends, then me. I was married as virgin and I was still a virgin when I started the divorce process. I have been divorced longer than I was married.
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| 2/3/2012 10:58:00 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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looking4love6
Belleville, IL
53, joined Jan. 2012
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Well in the process. Wife walked out on me.
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| 2/3/2012 11:26:34 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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september12
Webster, TX
53, joined Nov. 2010
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My husband cheated on me and beat me senseless for nine years! When he hit my son and gave him a bloody lip, I tossed him out with the rest of the trash! Enough was enough~!
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| 2/13/2012 4:16:36 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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j058
Sarasota, FL
51, joined Jan. 2012
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Work engulfed me and I did not see it. It drove us apart. We were married for 23yrs, almost to the day...talk about an awkward aniversary dinner.
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| 2/13/2012 6:59:57 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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mugster40
Staples, MN
47, joined Dec. 2011
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both cheated that all folks
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| 2/13/2012 7:08:32 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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So many cheaters. Don't care if they are male or female, they are ALL scum. You want to end a marriage? Do it in as decent and compassionate way as possible. That NEVER includes cheating.
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| 2/13/2012 7:27:15 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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carrieh73
Cushing, OK
42, joined Feb. 2012
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My ex physically and mentally abused me for 10 years. The finally straw was he cheated with my bestfriend and got her pregnant. We were together for 22 years. Probably the best thing anyone could have done for me. I would never have left.
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| 2/13/2012 11:08:36 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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Yes. Better to abandon ship. The majority of people stayed on the Titanic when it was sinking and look what happened to them.
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| 2/15/2012 9:18:02 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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new_adventure37
Tolland, CT
42, joined Jan. 2011
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She did it. Same old story. I worked to much she didn't work at all. She got bored so she cheated. And still the courts see it fit for me to support her. Amazing how it can hurt to support someone who only treats you like crap.
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| 2/16/2012 12:11:21 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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bklynangel62x
Brooklyn, NY
52, joined Feb. 2012
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Got bored ... The love just was not there anymore after 17 years 
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| 2/16/2012 12:31:53 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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lctx36
League City, TX
39, joined Dec. 2011
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I have multiple reason
1) He cheated
2) He was mentally & emotionally abusing me
3) On our 2nd family vacation he told me in a drunken state that he didn't love me & didn't know if he ever could love anyone.
4) He told me he did not want to be married.
5) Asshole gave me an STD.
I think all in all those are good reasons to get a divorce.
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| 2/16/2012 5:10:13 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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All those are good reasons for getting divorced. Growing bored is not, esp. if you are going to hurt children in the process. There are ways to rekindle the romance when boredom sets in.
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| 2/17/2012 4:14:20 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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michael964
Buffalo, NY
40, joined Feb. 2012
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She cheated with two of her coworkers
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| 2/17/2012 10:31:21 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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tubalcain1492
Alabaster, AL
32, joined Feb. 2012
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We both just grew apart. Like my anatomy professor once said. Opposites attract but they never,ever,stay together. 
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| 2/17/2012 6:18:53 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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bigdaddyishere
Las Vegas, NV
35, joined Mar. 2011
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gag reflex
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| 2/18/2012 8:51:49 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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bray78
Visalia, CA
37, joined Feb. 2012
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People change
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| 2/18/2012 11:52:49 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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codi_t
Cheyenne, WY
24, joined Jan. 2012
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It was his choice to get divorced, but he cheated on me while I was 2000 miles away, laying in a hospital bed after a heart attack. I came home and his parents told me that his daughter's mom had been staying at our house while I was gone. I chose to forgive (but didn't forget). Four months later I came home from work and he told me I had 2 days to get out of the house because he was divorcing me. Our divorce was finalized 2 months later and then 2 months after that we got back together. I found out that he was taking my car when I was at work and going to see his ex again. He left me right after I found out, but not before putting my face through the wall.
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| 2/19/2012 12:44:37 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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The stress of living with this hell of a "man" probably gave you the heart attack, and at such an early age too. You poor thing. 
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| 2/19/2012 1:38:37 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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arlen886
Snellville, GA
95, joined Feb. 2012
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He was a Narcissist Religious Jim Jones sorta guy... who wanted to lay down the law finally when my boys were old enough I got free after 30 years of marriage and 8 years as room mates many times with me sleeping on the floor, I just got tired of wishing and hoping it was going to get better and I could learn to live how he wanted me to.
Basically I did it to save my life which at this moment might still be in danger but I am trusting in God and moving on.
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| 2/19/2012 7:41:12 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
66, joined Mar. 2009
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she didn't like me any more so i left. never did much like me now that i think back on it. first rule: gotsta like ME. that's the ME that i am, not the ME she'd like me to be.
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| 2/19/2012 10:10:35 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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taichigirl
Melbourne, FL
57, joined Sep. 2010
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He was a Narcissist Religious Jim Jones sorta guy... who wanted to lay down the law finally when my boys were old enough I got free after 30 years of marriage and 8 years as room mates many times with me sleeping on the floor, I just got tired of wishing and hoping it was going to get better and I could learn to live how he wanted me to.
Basically I did it to save my life which at this moment might still be in danger but I am trusting in God and moving on.
God does not want you living with a toxic man, no matter what religious guise he is draping over himself.
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| 3/7/2012 3:38:41 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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friendshipbring
Alpharetta, GA
37, joined Jun. 2010
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And now you are a better woman for it. Noone should EVER be used. A marriage is about BOTH individuals giving and taking.
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| 3/9/2012 10:31:45 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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trevorn31
Struthers, OH
37, joined Mar. 2010
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She cheated and ran out with my kids and said that I was dead to them.
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| 3/9/2012 10:34:24 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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trevorn31
Struthers, OH
37, joined Mar. 2010
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Because she cheated on me and ran off with my kids and said that I was dead to them.
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| 3/9/2012 8:41:46 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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treyhunter
Lumberton, TX
45, joined Jan. 2012
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our marraige grew cold and we became distant and then she cheated while i was at work
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| 3/9/2012 10:37:56 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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donnalynn
Whitehouse, TX
34, joined Dec. 2007
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He was abusive!
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| 3/10/2012 2:20:00 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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darry3575
Tarboro, NC
39, joined Jul. 2011
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My wife had an affair with my cousin and a friend of mine, and then she let my cousin (now her husband) molest my daughter. I won custody, and trying to get over that patch in my life.
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| 3/10/2012 3:46:39 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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belugafin
Flemington, NJ
47, joined Nov. 2011
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My wife of 21 years slept with everyone, paid for their drugs, let my car get repossessed while I was deployed to Iraq. Believe it or not, 5 years later, I'm glad it happened.
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| 3/10/2012 8:18:57 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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my1andonly1
Tulsa, OK
54, joined Feb. 2012
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Not fair when other partner moved-on in life made me stay behind for him to enjoy new life with new partner and still married.
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| 3/10/2012 8:42:28 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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nicegal1960
Auburn, IN
54, joined Mar. 2012
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He chose drugs and stealing and theifs over me
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| 3/11/2012 8:19:19 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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samhill420
Sullivan, MO
55, joined Mar. 2012
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mine, chose her job, over me. she was always at work, i hardly ever seen her, our love just faded to nothing, we're still friends, but that's it.Well, she did cheat on me, but i had forgiven her, for that.
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| 3/12/2012 9:00:09 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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donnalynn
Whitehouse, TX
34, joined Dec. 2007
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My wife of 21 years slept with everyone, paid for their drugs, let my car get repossessed while I was deployed to Iraq. Believe it or not, 5 years later, I'm glad it happened.
Even being glad , I'm sorry, a woman should never do that especially when her man is over fighting for our freedom or for the rights of others!!! Thanks for your service, woman like that are just repulsive to me!
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| 3/13/2012 10:44:53 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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care33bear
Minneapolis, MN
37, joined Jan. 2011
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He decided to have an affair with another woman and got her pregnant. Then decided it was better to be with her and her 7 kids from her broken up marriage was better than dealing with things with his wife and being with his biological kids with me.
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| 3/16/2012 3:05:44 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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hippomono
Mims, FL
72, joined Nov. 2009
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she let her son from her first marriage use her credit card and he ran up a large debit against her and she wanted me to pay it ...i refushed so she said i could go my way and she would go hers ..she left after 31 yr .and i got a divorce..so now i'm looking ...
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| 3/17/2012 6:45:15 AM |
Melbourne, FL |
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truelove090377
Lehigh Acres, FL
38, joined Mar. 2012
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she was cheating on me and had a baby and tried saying that it was mine when the baby was born it looked nothing like me
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| 3/19/2012 7:44:15 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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looking4love6
Belleville, IL
53, joined Jan. 2012
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Well the wife walked out the day after Christmas. Then she cheated. The topper was she lied. over and over again. So the day of the divorce I was ready for it.
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| 3/19/2012 10:29:37 PM |
Melbourne, FL |
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ohmalley
La Salle, IL
36, joined Feb. 2012
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He was emotionally retarded. I'm not being mean;I'm serious. He could not muster up more than an "I dunno" when asked simple questions about his feelings and thought that my asking was an intrusion like he was a damn serial killer or something. How can you not know your own brain? Do you never examine your own thoughts? And he required my presence less than 3 hours a day. Got to be just people living in the same house.
and I asked him why he left and all he said was "I dunno". Guess he figured it worked well enough the other 20000 times he said it.
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