| 8/23/2007 9:40:55 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Why do some guys idealize their ex's to make them seem soooo much better than anyone else. I dated a guy once who acted like his ex hung the moon, even though they were no longer together and it never worked when they would get together!! I dont like his ex and made a comment once about not being a good idea of putting us in the same room together because someone would get hurt and his response was not her... WTF
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| 8/23/2007 9:43:48 AM |
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mkvgti
Medina, OH
age: 34
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My ex was a royal pain in the ass...wouldn't have to worry about me talking about her
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| 8/23/2007 9:45:54 AM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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maybe they still have feelings 4 them... i personally dont continue relationships with ex'es...... repo anything last night?
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| 8/23/2007 9:55:51 AM |
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kirota
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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I don't worship my ex or anything, but he is a really good man that set somewhat of a good standard for what I am looking for. He just became that person too late after he realized what he lost.
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| 8/23/2007 10:00:30 AM |
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qbned
La Puente, CA
age: 32
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I dont worship any of my ex's. But if you really think about it, we were with them for a reason. Some of the things that made us start the relationship in the first place must have been what we may have ideally been looking for. Eventually we may have found things that were more negative than those possitives.
Sound like he was still into her repo.
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| 8/23/2007 10:52:13 AM |
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ironranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
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he was in denial.... how did you feel any kind of connection with him repo??? just curious.
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| 8/23/2007 10:55:12 AM |
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johnnybeads
Cincinnati, OH
age: 36
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Hahahaha, they still worship me. I'm the ex that you're talking about.
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| 8/23/2007 12:27:06 PM |
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ben1man
Harrisburg, PA
age: 38
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Women often think that men have no feelings but in fact we do and those who maintain that connection to there exes really are not ready to move on. The nice part of this if your man falls into this category is that he is devoted. You really have two choices in dealing with this kind of guy.
1) Move on because it will take time and work to get him over her and to see you for the delight that you are.
2) Stick around and know that someday you will be the apple of his eye but if you decide to stick it out you will be fighting a ghost.
Women also do this to men and the hardest one to beat is the deceased lover.
Moving on means taking acceptance that the relationship is over no matter what the reason if you look for the past in your future you will always loose but when your ready to move on you can lay down the past as someone significant and look forward to the future.
Personally I chose to have a period of time between the last girlfriend and the new one. This allows me to work through why we split or at least allows me to get over them. Its not fair to compare any of your past lovers to the future or present one. When I come upon a woman who has not gotten over the last guy I explain to her that Its not fair for her to judge me against him and in some cases them. I also tell her that she will loose me if she cannot let go of her past. I will leave a woman for this because it’s a form of physiological abuse. No one should have to live up to another human and if your being asked to you cannot be yourself.
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| 8/23/2007 4:12:10 PM |
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rayhey111
Buffalo, NY
age: 59
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Seldom are the replies this good . Great Job Ben
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| 8/23/2007 4:36:59 PM |
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waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 33
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well my exes are pretty cool, i wouldnt have dated them if they werent, but if im with u im smart enuuf to take your side even if im thinkin somethihn else,
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| 8/23/2007 5:07:54 PM |
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firechick
Hope Mills, NC
age: 26
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I have to say it is not just men it is women also. My ex has some to do with whom I date. I just don't want to repeat the same mistake you know. Don't get me wronge he is a good guy and all. He still comes to see our little girl we just kinda grew apart thats all.
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| 8/23/2007 5:13:39 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I don't say my ex is the best or i'd still be with him lol, But, I will say he was a good man once and maybe he will find peace and happiness. and yea, He was great to me for along time and ppl will have to measure up to that to an extent..jmo, Peaches.
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| 8/23/2007 6:26:23 PM |
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rods1heart
East Moline, IL
age: 48
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some ppl
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| 8/23/2007 6:28:44 PM |
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rods1heart
East Moline, IL
age: 48
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"why do guys"....
(why do women?)
oh,lets "bash" sex's again,(wow,get over it!)
"why do guys"....
MAN! i HATE when sex's "bash" ea.other.................
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| 8/23/2007 6:37:49 PM |
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angelkissedu
Martinsburg, WV
age: 48
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after 2 1/2 years from divorce, me and my ex are talking again, he's been through worse times then when we were together, He is a wonderful man I just didn't realize it then
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