2/2/2014 10:46:26 PM |
Do you still think of your first love? |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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Do you still think of your first love? If so, how long has it been? How often do you think of them? and do you think that goes away?
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2/2/2014 10:47:32 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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All the time, but she's happily married and I leave it at that.
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2/2/2014 10:54:22 PM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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All the time, but she's happily married and I leave it at that.
Mine too. Think of him often. Sometimes its annoying. Been 20 yrs! How long for you?
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2/2/2014 11:03:33 PM |
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wurthit
Chicago, IL
37, joined Oct. 2013
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I think about him, almost daily now that I've started back dating. It ebbs and flows from time to time. E.g. for the first 2 yrs after, i thought about him literally every 10-15 mins. Then 1-2xs a yr. Then I pumped into him in 2009 and it's been on again ever since.
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2/2/2014 11:12:15 PM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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I think about him, almost daily now that I've started back dating. It ebbs and flows from time to time. E.g. for the first 2 yrs after, i thought about him literally every 10-15 mins. Then 1-2xs a yr. Then I pumped into him in 2009 and it's been on again ever since.
I hear ya. I bumped into mine in 2010. Kinda stirs up some thoughts again.
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2/2/2014 11:54:36 PM |
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wild_fireball
Ocala, FL
52, joined Jan. 2013
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Every now and then, but out of sadness...she was eventually diagnosed with manic depressive schizophrenia
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2/2/2014 11:59:56 PM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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No looking back he was a complete Idiot
That makes it easy not to!
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2/3/2014 12:02:27 AM |
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bubblyblond4u
Crestline, CA
56, joined Jan. 2013
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I do, but there were enough issues that the thoughts aren't always positive. A couple times a year...maybe. Doesn't matter one way or another if they go away. Indifferent at this point.
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2/3/2014 12:03:58 AM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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Do you still think of your first love?
Only when someone brings it up. Like a forum question.
Then I have to think who was the first.
Otherwise, no, never comes up.
how long has it been?
A couple of decades give or take.
How often do you think of them?
I don't, unless someone gets all sappy and wants to emotionally masturbate so starts asking other people about it.
do you think that goes away?
It does if you want it to.
But if you want to romanticize and wallow in the past, then no, no it doesn't.
I don't want to wallow in the past. He moved away to college so it feels unfinished. that's all. Its quite annoying. so far the few family and friends ive asked all think of them. Say its a normal thing.
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2/3/2014 8:17:12 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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Only if my significant other and I happen to be discussing past relationships.
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2/3/2014 8:34:53 AM |
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arm67
Penns Grove, NJ
48, joined Jan. 2009
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Yes I do. She was married for years and was recently widowed. I am debating about trying to rekindle the old flame. It was blazing way back then....
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2/3/2014 9:12:40 AM |
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cheatk
Urbandale, IA
46, joined Jun. 2013
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Yup..
And sometimes the thinking causes him to pop up every now and then.
He did last night
But told him this was not happening.
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2/3/2014 9:26:32 AM |
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ladysgentleman1
Burlington Flats, NY
56, joined Jun. 2011
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Yep
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2/3/2014 11:08:11 AM |
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bubblyblond4u
Crestline, CA
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Yes I do. She was married for years and was recently widowed. I am debating about trying to rekindle the old flame. It was blazing way back then....
You should go for it arm, you only live once, and if you don't you may wonder for the rest of your life. You already have had a connection. So there is some comfort there.
Besides, what's the worst thing that could happen? It doesn't work out.
As the Great Nat King Cole once sang. "The Greatest Thing you'll ever learn, is just to love and be loved in return"
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2/3/2014 11:14:48 AM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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Yes I do. She was married for years and was recently widowed. I am debating about trying to rekindle the old flame. It was blazing way back then....
Go for it! Nothing to lose!
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2/3/2014 11:15:04 AM |
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chestnutflava
Syracuse, NY
37, joined Nov. 2011
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Not really once in a blue she will cross my mind but not for long
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2/3/2014 11:51:12 AM |
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just4forums2
Barcelona
Spain
48, joined Oct. 2013
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Do you still think of your first love? If so, how long has it been? How often do you think of them? and do you think that goes away?
Everytime I see my kids. My son resembles him a lot. Even though we aren't together. I have the best part of him.
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2/3/2014 1:12:05 PM |
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bob347
Battle Creek, MI
29, joined Aug. 2013
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Yeah they say you always remember you're first love.they also say you never forget you're first time...there are things i wish i could forget but my first love is not one of them there is a country song that says "i haven't seen you in forever i sometimes find myself wondering were you are" and i find that to be true with me.i lost touch with her back in 2009 she is like 20 yrs old now.i also wonder if i ever cross her mind but im sure she long forgot about me.i remember ppl but they don't me oh well
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2/3/2014 3:21:53 PM |
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pechangakid
San Diego, CA
28, joined Apr. 2012
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I sure hope so i was with mine for thirteen years im 27 now and trying to cope with all that ontop of a new schoo . And new people its just so much harder then they ever say if you truly loved them. What keeps me going is if you love some thing then yoir supose . To set it free
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2/3/2014 3:25:20 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
38, joined Sep. 2013
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yes i do..Amy Smith,she was taller than me and her birthday was october 31..she had the biggest blue eyes! never seen her again after we moved away,Ilooked with no luck,such a common name
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2/3/2014 4:46:06 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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Do you still think of your first love? If so, how long has it been? How often do you think of them? and do you think that goes away?
nope! Not unless I run in to him somewhere or someone brings him up in conversation or something reminds me of him. He is okay and we have remained "cordial" over the years but he was a real loser. He still is unemployed, smokes pot, AND lives at home with his parents and he's going on 50 years old this year. This has always been his life since I met him as a teenager.
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2/3/2014 4:50:50 PM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
46, joined Jan. 2014
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I was very fortunate that I was happily married to my first love for 20 years. He was a brilliant, kind, funny, sarcastic man. The only person I felt truly got me and my sense of humor aside from my best friend. He passed away just over a year ago. And I find myself here of all places now trying to re enter the dating world.
As for the question.... I think we all keep memories of our first love and the lessons learned.
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2/3/2014 5:27:46 PM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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I was very fortunate that I was happily married to my first love for 20 years. He was a brilliant, kind, funny, sarcastic man. The only person I felt truly got me and my sense of humor aside from my best friend. He passed away just over a year ago. And I find myself here of all places now trying to re enter the dating world.
As for the question.... I think we all keep memories of our first love and the lessons learned.
Bless your heart!
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2/3/2014 6:09:55 PM |
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beautifulmoore
Bellevue, NE
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Im waiting for my first true love.lol
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2/3/2014 6:15:22 PM |
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sandu469
Phoenix, AZ
33, joined Sep. 2013
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Songs bring the memories... some songs instant skip others I'll just enjoy the good memories... celebrating 3 years. Greatful for all I've learned and endured and just enjoying life now.
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2/3/2014 6:16:53 PM |
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petitekitten72
Portland, MI
42, joined Apr. 2012
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the first boy I thought I loved? he was my "boyfriend" from 2nd grade through 8th grade... he is a friend of mine on facebook, so I still track his life a bit. but no, I wouldn't have any interest in him outside of that.
the first ROMANTIC (physical) love? NO, he REALLY burnt his bridge... I wouldn't even go to his funeral if he were to die!
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2/3/2014 6:23:26 PM |
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scmills
De Forest, WI
51, joined Mar. 2010
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I still see her all the time,we agreed in high school we couldn't keep dating,but our family's are close to this day
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2/3/2014 6:55:00 PM |
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elprimo41
Paterson, NJ
47, joined Jan. 2010
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What ever is past tense doesn't benefit me now or my future, so no.
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2/3/2014 7:35:49 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
36, joined Mar. 2013
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No. In fact, I don't believe in "love". It is a figment of the imagination.
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2/3/2014 7:41:20 PM |
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hni1970
New York, NY
44, joined Feb. 2013
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Hard to forget her but life must go on
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2/3/2014 7:55:49 PM |
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truckerdaddy80
Beardsley, MN
46, joined May. 2013
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Yes I do. She was married for years and was recently widowed. I am debating about trying to rekindle the old flame. It was blazing way back then....
Wht the hell ya waiting for
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2/3/2014 8:07:43 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jun. 2013
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yes ............and i still have a copy of the restraining order
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2/3/2014 8:11:05 PM |
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rainydaze26
Columbus, OH
50, joined Nov. 2013
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awe... 3rd grade & I even still have the ring he gave me!
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2/3/2014 8:31:17 PM |
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truckerdaddy80
Beardsley, MN
46, joined May. 2013
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Nope she a dumb b*tch that cheated on me with my best friend
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2/3/2014 9:31:48 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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A high school sweetheart. We are still friends. I don't think about him in a romantic way. But I still think he does. . His marriage sucks.
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2/3/2014 9:34:03 PM |
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halodude88
Santa Ana, CA
27, joined Nov. 2008
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Hasn't happened yet and probably never will
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2/3/2014 9:40:30 PM |
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stresscase
Ridgecrest, CA
55, joined Feb. 2013
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we first met in Jr High School 1973, went steady most of 1974, and broke-up December 13, 1974 at 5:25 PM behind the town library.
and i only think of Karen when someone asks "Do you still think of your first love?"
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2/4/2014 3:33:59 AM |
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vanir
Victoria
Australia
45, joined Mar. 2008
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No, just the last one, y'know, 'til I get some
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2/4/2014 4:19:16 AM |
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hadassah169
Dhaneswargati
Bangladesh
80, joined Dec. 2012
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Everyday, I was three and I read my first book "Green Eggs and Ham" by myself...been in love with myself ever since.
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2/4/2014 5:42:39 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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Nope, why would I worry about something that happened so long ago. Besides unrequited love is nothing to pine about.
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2/4/2014 6:49:42 PM |
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halodude88
Santa Ana, CA
27, joined Nov. 2008
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Never will have one
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2/4/2014 6:55:35 PM |
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wickedrider
Madison, WI
95, joined Mar. 2009
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That was six centuries ago. Yes, for a while... then came Ginevra Di Benci..... we made love in a horizontal rain thunderstorm on her husband's grave... over and over and over..... damn i miss her...
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2/5/2014 2:20:33 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
52, joined Dec. 2007
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Every now and then. Daphne...we were 17.
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2/5/2014 3:24:32 PM |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
47, joined Oct. 2011
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Yes. It's been 20 years. Wish I could feel that way again.
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2/5/2014 4:44:41 PM |
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ladypat81
Baltimore, MD
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Nope.
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2/5/2014 6:06:57 PM |
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soflwill
West Palm Beach, FL
54, joined Jan. 2012
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Every once in awhile I'll think about her, maybe once every couple of months. Her name is Karen tried looking her up once but no luck.
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2/5/2014 7:54:55 PM |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
47, joined Oct. 2011
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Every once in awhile I'll think about her, maybe once every couple of months. Her name is Karen tried looking her up once but no luck.
Try zabasearch.com
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2/5/2014 8:04:47 PM |
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lostinthread
Climax, MI
30, joined Aug. 2013
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I don't think I've ever truly been in love
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2/5/2014 11:17:59 PM |
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shychey1
Austell, GA
38, joined Jan. 2011
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I think when you truly love someone the love doesn't go away.
that being said, I was 16 and he was 18. He went to college 3000 miles away. We tried for 6 mo. And couldn't deal. He contacted me 4 years ago and is married. Have always thought about him. Wondered if its something everyone does because its a first lovE. that's all!
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2/6/2014 12:22:50 AM |
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ymia_dikhed
Gresham, OR
41, joined Dec. 2011
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Sure I do once in a while. Found her on facebook and wished her happy holidays a few days before Christmas.
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2/6/2014 3:22:33 AM |
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hbguy311
Huntington Beach, CA
34, joined Aug. 2010
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I don't have one to think about.
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2/6/2014 5:01:53 AM |
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ms2tweet2
Travelers Rest, SC
46, joined Aug. 2013
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Yes, he will always have a special place in my heart. It's not love anymore but I still care, we were young high school sweethearts and that was special.
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