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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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Hi I'm 19, and honestly I'm looking for a good looking guy who is in his 40's and 50's. I've always been attracted to men like this.
How do I really find the ones who are interested in dating a young girl like me? Is there anywhere I should go or anything I should do? I need help, please.
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8/7/2014 7:38:01 AM |
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uncawked
Houston, TX
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Send me some naked photos for the answer.
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8/7/2014 7:40:38 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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Think I'd get a lot more back than the answer. But uh thanks, your services have been noted and denied. Have a nice day.
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8/7/2014 7:41:37 AM |
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uncawked
Houston, TX
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Mistake #1 in trying to bag an older guy...denying naked pics.
..you try to help people out and see what happens
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8/7/2014 7:43:24 AM |
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soulfullaussie
Victoria
Australia
50, joined May. 2014
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Why do you want a guy so much older than you Op ??
In your profile you state quite a lot he really has to be good looking it just made me laugh is all
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8/7/2014 7:46:01 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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It's just what I'm attracted to sexually and intellectually. They attract me much more than anyone my age, and after dating a couple guys in their 30's I'm done with that pool. It's just pure and simple attraction. Yeah I put a lot of emphasis on good looking, but there are good looking older men out there. Lol Got close to one but he lives all the way out in Canada.
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8/7/2014 7:47:25 AM |
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muzaclvr67
Del Rio, TX
48, joined Nov. 2009
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Good luck
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8/7/2014 7:48:59 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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Thanks
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8/7/2014 8:49:11 AM |
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forgetwhat
Fort Lauderdale, FL
41, joined Nov. 2011
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Move out of the double o.
They all come to Florida to retire.
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8/7/2014 8:57:46 AM |
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yatame1
Buffalo, NY
21, joined Jun. 2014
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I heard they hang around steak houses
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8/7/2014 9:05:32 AM |
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stephisicated
Teaneck, NJ
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Jasmine what is the true reason you would want someone twice your age knowing they will die sooner, looks will decline at a more rapid rate as the years go on etc?
If you want to deal with older men I would say use th is simple math formula. It's called the half plus 7 rule for older guys to date younger women and not be total out of touch with relating to them. In your case the formula would be a little complicated because of the reverse math but the oldest you should deal with is 24. They are out college at that time they are starting their careers and most likely won't have any baggage.
If you just want their money I'll understand why you want the older guys. Be mindful they know the game and might use you as a play thing.
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8/7/2014 9:07:15 AM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
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I wouldn't recommend it, but if you are set on the idea....start going to events that attract the type of guy you desire. Take up golf, etc.
No offense meant, you seem genuine..... but not many decent guys in that age bracket are going to want and LTR w/ somebody your age.
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8/7/2014 9:13:06 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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Jasmine what is the true reason you would want someone twice your age knowing they will die sooner, looks will decline at a more rapid rate as the years go on etc?
If you want to deal with older men I would say use th is simple math formula. It's called the half plus 7 rule for older guys to date younger women and not be total out of touch with relating to them. In your case the formula would be a little complicated because of the reverse math but the oldest you should deal with is 24. They are out college at that time they are starting their careers and most likely won't have any baggage.
If you just want their money I'll understand why you want the older guys. Be mindful they know the game and might use you as a play thing.
You know I don't want money I guess I just want the fantasy. It's all I'm attracted to right now because I've never had it probably. It's possibility for me to push the envelope and experience something that I've always wanted. I've never been attracted to guys around my age or a few years olser. My last serious relationship my boyfriend was 30. I've casually dated others in their 30's I'm bored and I need somethig new I suppose.
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8/7/2014 9:13:31 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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I wouldn't recommend it, but if you are set on the idea....start going to events that attract the type of guy you desire. Take up golf, etc.
No offense meant, you seem genuine..... but not many decent guys in that age bracket are going to want and LTR w/ somebody your age.
Thanks for the honesty.
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8/7/2014 9:39:46 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
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I know some of you young girl don't want to be stuck with immature 20-24 yr old little boys who sits around playing video games, but then again you don't need someone old enough to be your father.
How do you find them? Well most of that age are married with kids. You want to be his mistress? Most older mens fantasy is to be with a young gal of your age. But really you will only be his temporary plaything for a bit.
Go find a mature guy your age (or a bit older) and be a serious gf.
Maybe you need a therapist to find out why you feel you need a daddy for a bf.
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8/7/2014 11:30:04 AM |
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pool_shark123
Maple Heights, OH
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I think it's funny that so many people think there is something wrong with dating with an age gap.
Stop watching Dr. Phil people.
There are many young women that simply feel that many of the men their own age are too immature.
Lots of young men are more interested in conquering new women, video games, and weekend drinking binges with their friends, while many of the women their age are going for college degrees, and looking to start careers sooner rather than later.
Of course there are many mature goal oriented young men as well.
I think too many people make a big deal about age.
As for you OP, you can meet older men just about anywhere, you just have to let them know you're interested as they may assume you aren't do to the same age bias I spoke of earlier.
Be careful though because some of those older men will be looking to control you thinking that you're young and stupid, again, age bias.
There are also many older men who would truly appreciate having a young women in their lives and still treat you as an equal.
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8/7/2014 12:07:16 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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Go to bingo nights at the VFW?
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8/7/2014 12:16:10 PM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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I think it's funny that so many people think there is something wrong with dating with an age gap.
Stop watching Dr. Phil people.
There are many young women that simply feel that many of the men their own age are too immature.
Lots of young men are more interested in conquering new women, video games, and weekend drinking binges with their friends, while many of the women their age are going for college degrees, and looking to start careers sooner rather than later.
Of course there are many mature goal oriented young men as well.
I think too many people make a big deal about age.
As for you OP, you can meet older men just about anywhere, you just have to let them know you're interested as they may assume you aren't do to the same age bias I spoke of earlier.
Be careful though because some of those older men will be looking to control you thinking that you're young and stupid, again, age bias.
There are also many older men who would truly appreciate having a young women in their lives and still treat you as an equal.
May I just say that I love you for this post lol. Very well said and thanks for the advice.
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8/7/2014 12:23:03 PM |
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lovetodoit
Buffalo, MO
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Post a picture u will get some responses. I am not training new talent at this moment . UNLESS UR SMOKIN HOT.
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8/7/2014 12:28:22 PM |
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thatchic82
Lansing, MI
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I'm also attracted to older men because young men...even my age...play to damn much. Try Sugardaddyfinder. Good luck by the way.
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8/7/2014 12:30:40 PM |
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mei_bankai
Middletown, OH
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eharmony
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8/7/2014 12:37:39 PM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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I'm also attracted to older men because young men...even my age...play to damn much. Try Sugardaddyfinder. Good luck by the way.
Thanks
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8/7/2014 6:11:32 PM |
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wkw1957
Enterprise, AL
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I prefer younger women but I still want to keep it over 30 or 35. I just don't have much in common with most women my age, and I look and act younger than most guys my age. But I would be wary of dating too young. First, I do not want any kids and most young women do (unless I met one who is truly "child-free"). It also wouldn't be fair to her when I get too old to do anything and she is still healthy and active. So I try to keep it within 20 or 25 years. The youngest I actually dated so far was only 11 years younger than me. But it does happen. I dated a woman a few years ago who told me her 27 yr old daughter married a 65 yr old.... She worries about her becoming a widow in her 40s. You may want to try and keep it under 40 or 45.
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8/7/2014 6:13:08 PM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
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Hi I'm 19, and honestly I'm looking for a good looking guy who is in his 40's and 50's. I've always been attracted to men like this.
How do I really find the ones who are interested in dating a young girl like me? Is there anywhere I should go or anything I should do? I need help, please. divorced men
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8/7/2014 6:31:40 PM |
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srv63
Baytown, TX
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Go to bingo nights at the VFW?
I think the age bracket she wants and your suggestion are two completely different things.
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8/7/2014 6:36:39 PM |
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srv63
Baytown, TX
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At the same time op, keep in mind there are lots of guys in the age bracket you seek and lots of them will be wiser than yourself and use you then throw you away like yesterdays garbage.Good luck
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8/7/2014 6:51:18 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Good luck, in finding your older man op just be careful
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8/7/2014 6:56:33 PM |
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
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You should check your local nursing homes for men who are looking for someone with daddy issues.
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8/7/2014 7:05:42 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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I think the age bracket she wants and your suggestion are two completely different things.
You forget all the Afghanistan war vets who frequent the DFW now. Some of those guys ARE indeed in her age range. In my area at least bingo night at the VFW is actually a pretty rowdy yet fun affair with people of many age ranges.
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8/7/2014 7:09:54 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
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^^^ goes to bingo night at the old folks home........cleans up tha house
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8/7/2014 7:10:30 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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Only because I can stay up past their bedtimes
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8/7/2014 7:13:50 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
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no fair stealing dentures so they cant yell BINGO
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8/7/2014 7:14:53 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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Don't need to. Just wait for the BLACKOUT round to win the jackpot. They usually do that after 10PM. Grandpas already fallen asleep in his ice cream and grandmas whipped her wig off and is snoring with drool dribbling out her mouth.
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8/7/2014 7:16:06 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
47, joined Jun. 2013
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grandma took her meds and passed out in her hoveround
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8/7/2014 7:24:33 PM |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
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Why would u want a geezer
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8/7/2014 7:24:53 PM |
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riderdragon8
Phoenix, AZ
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How is your relationship with your father?
*lowers head and shakes... thank the gods i had boys.
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8/7/2014 7:35:06 PM |
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ladypat81
Baltimore, MD
35, joined Jun. 2013
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I like the older guys too, nothing wrong with liking what you like. Older guys treat you better so go for it. As to were try some kind of club golf, country, yacht ,old car shows,
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8/7/2014 7:38:10 PM |
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josfsd06
Sioux Falls, SD
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You're 19 and would date someone my age? Darlin' my children are older than you. You're looking for pedophiles.
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8/7/2014 7:43:23 PM |
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
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I like the older guys too, nothing wrong with liking what you like. Older guys treat you better so go for it. As to were try some kind of club golf, country, yacht ,old car shows,
The op is talking about someone 20- 30+ yrs older than her. So in keeping with that you'd wanna be with someone up to the age of about 65, nice.
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8/7/2014 7:45:52 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
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Biggest problems are the common assumptions people make.
The guys in your target age range, will include a lot of guys who will assume things such as...
...that you are after their money, however much or little they have;
...that there's something wrong with you psychologically, that drives your desire, not them;
...that you are just going through a short phase, and will dump them in short order and go back to your own age range (i.e. not worth the emotional risk);
...that you aren't actually interested in them as males, at all (i.e. they think your interest is in a big brother or father figure only, they aren't even aware you are interested in more);
...and of course the predators, who are looking forward to playing you for a fool, and will pretend to think of you as a rare pearl, while thinking of and using you like a Gas Station restroom.
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8/7/2014 7:54:01 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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offer them sex and if they can get it up, he is the winner. you are young op. lol, but most of these guys would f**k a knot in a tree.
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8/7/2014 7:55:53 PM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
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There is this hot older guy at work... He's in his 50s a silver fox. And wow. Anyway pretty sure he has a wife it's a moot point... I don't think he's hot because he's older... He just is hot and happens to be older...
Why are you looking specifically for older?
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8/7/2014 10:49:33 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Learn to cook.
Have a BIG screen TV.
Sex helps with most guys.
Buy the beer.
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8/7/2014 11:06:32 PM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
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Probably the Best way would be to post a Topic...entitled...:
'How does a young girl find an older man?"
You're Welcome..!!
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8/7/2014 11:06:52 PM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
28, joined Dec. 2013
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Mistake #1 in trying to bag an older guy...denying naked pics.
..you try to help people out and see what happens
lol
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8/7/2014 11:18:16 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
48, joined Sep. 2010
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I dunno..this might sound odd..but they use the search and define an older age range...shoot me if im wrong...
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8/7/2014 11:25:47 PM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
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I dunno..this might sound odd..but they use the search and define an older age range...shoot me if im wrong...
That's what I was gonna say , originally...but didn't want to make it 'Complicated'...!!!
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8/7/2014 11:29:29 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
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Welllll i know...i was iffy whether to post it or not myself...i didnt wanna confuse things too much...
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8/8/2014 12:35:11 AM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
49, joined Jan. 2012
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HMMMMMM, I smell entrapment here.
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8/8/2014 1:00:36 AM |
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doompops
Montgomery, AL
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8/8/2014 1:16:27 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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You should check your local nursing homes for men who are looking for someone with daddy issues.
Wow look how insightful you are. I have a dad, I don't want another one.
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8/8/2014 1:19:27 AM |
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lifeactsouts
Creston, OH
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Welllll i know...i was iffy whether to post it or not myself...i didnt wanna confuse things too much...
Thanks for the obvious, cause I haven't already done that. I think the circumstances are a little more confusing than your comment.
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8/8/2014 1:21:26 AM |
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
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Wow look how insightful you are. I have a dad, I don't want another one.
NP, glad I could help!
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8/8/2014 1:24:38 AM |
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starr_so_happy
Perry, IA
32, joined Jun. 2014
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Jasmine what is the true reason you would want someone twice your age knowing they will die sooner, looks will decline at a more rapid rate as the years go on etc?
If you want to deal with older men I would say use th is simple math formula. It's called the half plus 7 rule for older guys to date younger women and not be total out of touch with relating to them. In your case the formula would be a little complicated because of the reverse math but the oldest you should deal with is 24. They are out college at that time they are starting their careers and most likely won't have any baggage.
If you just want their money I'll understand why you want the older guys. Be mindful they know the game and might use you as a play thing.
Just talked about this earlier. ..she's got daddy issues. ..
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8/8/2014 1:29:43 AM |
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
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Starr she claims to not be looking for daddy. Lmao
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8/8/2014 2:08:55 AM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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At 19 a man in his 40's or 50's to me...resembled grandpa....why,why,why.
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8/8/2014 2:19:25 AM |
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starr_so_happy
Perry, IA
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Starr she claims to not be looking for daddy. Lmao
Yeah ok
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8/8/2014 2:44:18 AM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
40, joined Jul. 2011
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I have sugar cookies
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8/8/2014 3:28:27 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
53, joined May. 2011
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She's not looking for a daddy, she's looking for a grandpa.
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8/8/2014 4:43:57 AM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
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lol @ athletic.....get a job !
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