8/13/2008 5:58:26 PM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
47, joined Jan. 2008
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LOVE IT!!!!!!!! I mean, I am OK with it.
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8/13/2008 6:04:53 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
95, joined Jul. 2008
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All my life Ive been pursued, lately Ive been thinking of turning that around, tell me fellas is it a good idea for the lady to ask a man out? How do men feel about that, be honest please.
It's a spectacular feeling to be asked out by a female, especially because of the fact that it rarely ever happens.
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8/13/2008 6:09:58 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
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I always feel so scared when faced with a good looking man. I've never asked a guy out. I'd like to but I feel like I'm not pretty enough and maybe hell laugh in my face. I'm such a punk
Just show you tits. It's that simple. You do that, it should give you confidence to ask him out. He won't say no if he like what he sees.
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8/13/2008 9:01:57 PM |
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livenow62
Knoxville, TN
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Ask, Then Ask again, from reading the replies from men it is a nice change of pace.
Or could it be that fear of Rejection that the men feel, that really keeps women from asking.
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8/15/2008 3:41:36 PM |
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planome
Plano, TX
58, joined Jan. 2007
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I wished I had the nerve to ask a man out but I am scared of rejection. I know
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8/15/2008 3:42:33 PM |
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stalling4time
Troy, MI
42, joined Aug. 2008
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if the norm was that a woman would ask a man out, I might actually go out on a date..
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8/15/2008 3:53:07 PM |
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foxfire72
Hortonville, WI
43, joined May. 2008
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Is she paying too, or does the guy still have to pay?
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8/15/2008 8:04:00 PM |
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joe61160
Lodi, NJ
55, joined Jul. 2008
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I am impressed by the assertiveness. It shows me that she knows what she wants. I respect that.
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8/15/2008 8:18:30 PM |
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mooncruiser
Florahome, FL
62, joined Jul. 2008
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God knows, I wish I could give an answer.
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8/15/2008 8:18:37 PM |
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jesse01201
Pittsfield, MA
39, joined Aug. 2008
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i think it is a big ego boost to be the persued...as long as you dont go all fatal attraction on the guy!!!
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8/15/2008 8:30:06 PM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
57, joined Jun. 2008
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I wished I had the nerve to ask a man out but I am scared of rejection. I know
Same here Does this work for Winks also- should I wink first if I am interested???
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8/15/2008 8:31:19 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
49, joined May. 2008
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What about traveling? Should the woman be the one to make the first trip to meet?
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8/15/2008 8:38:11 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
95, joined Jul. 2008
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I wished I had the nerve to ask a man out but I am scared of rejection. I know
Just show you cleavage. It's that simple. You do that, it should give you confidence to ask him out. He won't say no if he like what he sees.
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8/16/2008 4:07:30 AM |
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arisingmercury
Brandon, FL
53, joined Aug. 2008
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I wished I had the nerve to ask a man out but I am scared of rejection. I know
Im not afraid of rejection, Im afraid I might come across as soliciting sex
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8/16/2008 5:07:19 AM |
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rebel1957
Beckim Settlement, NB
57, joined Nov. 2007
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Men love it!
Yes barbaraajo , THIS man would surely love to be asked out but I just don't see that happening anytime soon
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8/16/2008 5:20:35 AM |
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bunnyfastard
Fort Morgan, CO
56, joined Jun. 2008
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I'm nervous as hell. I prefer to wink first. That way I can just be ignored instead of rejected.
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8/16/2008 5:25:06 AM |
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bandit176
Big Spring, TX
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There is nothing more attractive to me, than a woman that turns around and chases me. Im addicted to those women. I love the thrill of the chase, but when she hunts me...there is something very fun about that...unless its borderline stalkerish..then..im in love..lolol.
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8/16/2008 5:26:34 AM |
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ylekiot
Minden, NV
59, joined Sep. 2007
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Nothing at all wrong with that. If I was asked, I'd be pretty damn flattered!
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8/16/2008 5:59:49 AM |
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bunnyfastard
Fort Morgan, CO
56, joined Jun. 2008
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I'm nervous as hell. I prefer to wink first. That way I can just be ignored instead of rejected.
Sorry. I misread the question. Its too early in the morning. My answer is, "I would love it." I would be flattered.
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8/17/2008 6:54:03 PM |
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cece123
Warren, MI
54, joined Feb. 2008
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I got tired of asking..... so I stopped.
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8/18/2008 1:56:49 AM |
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snowflowers
Ft Mitchell, KY
49, joined May. 2008
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Equality states you women should be asking as much as men do.
hey evileddy..how about a date?
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8/18/2008 2:14:43 AM |
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bullsnit
Oneida, KY
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I find it totally flattering also. But,,,,when asked more than once by the same woman you've delcined more than once. It gets a bit creepy. Seriously though, it is flattering, but I rather do the askin instead. Cause I know how it feels to be turned down, and don't wish that punch in the stomach on anyone. Besides,,it's embarassing having to tell them a lie like ,,,i'm taken!!When they're fuggly.
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8/18/2008 2:21:24 AM |
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winston4
Northampton, PA
56, joined Aug. 2008
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It's ok. Can't worry about rejection or you'll be found dead in front of your computer some day!
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8/18/2008 2:53:45 AM |
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jbnoosaheads
Queensland
Australia
62, joined Jan. 2008
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i would love to be asked out on computer,or on line,hasent happen yet, when i go out clubing i get picked up heaps , im not much good on here, i dont even know where to start. .
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8/18/2008 8:01:24 AM |
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snowflowers
Ft Mitchell, KY
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i would love to be asked out on computer,or on line,hasent happen yet, when i go out clubing i get picked up heaps , im not much good on here, i dont even know where to start. . you have to do a little flirting first babe
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8/18/2008 5:17:45 PM |
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jbnoosaheads
Queensland
Australia
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snowflowers thanks babe,flirting ha,no i want to win a womans heart being my self without small talks, i can wait. thanks sweethart for your sugestion.
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8/18/2008 5:37:16 PM |
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blkbagger
McHenry, IL
54, joined Jun. 2008
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I think it feels great to be asked out by a lady... Shows that she knows what she wants, and it's very sexy to show that kind of confidence... Very sexy!!!
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8/18/2008 5:57:40 PM |
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round124
Jamestown, ND
45, joined Jun. 2008
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Go ahead and ask. Do you want my number to?
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8/18/2008 6:21:09 PM |
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snowflowers
Ft Mitchell, KY
49, joined May. 2008
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snowflowers thanks babe,flirting ha,no i want to win a womans heart being my self without small talks, i can wait. thanks sweethart for your sugestion. yes,but thats the begining of it sweetie
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8/18/2008 6:28:29 PM |
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jbnoosaheads
Queensland
Australia
62, joined Jan. 2008
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SNOWFLOWERS yes without a doubt, but i want a person to know me how i am,from bigining, because the flirting stops after you get to know each other,and then the woman cant understand what happen to that men i met, he has changed, dont find me atractive he doesent love me, and it just goes on and on, to me its more fun to tell the woman i love you as we get stronger than flirt. i dont know if this makes any sence, it does to me, but then thats me.
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8/18/2008 6:32:28 PM |
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not4thecrowd
Murrieta, CA
30, joined Jun. 2008
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That would be off the chain! Cause a girl that would have guts to come up and do what us guys have to do all the time would be worth my time any day.
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8/19/2008 3:19:20 PM |
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snowflowers
Ft Mitchell, KY
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SNOWFLOWERS yes without a doubt, but i want a person to know me how i am,from bigining, because the flirting stops after you get to know each other,and then the woman cant understand what happen to that men i met, he has changed, dont find me atractive he doesent love me, and it just goes on and on, to me its more fun to tell the woman i love you as we get stronger than flirt. i dont know if this makes any sence, it does to me, but then thats me. Yes i flirt,but i keep my conversation positive.I sincerity compliment them.I dont flirt with men if im not interested,dont want to risk of leading them on.I want to make sure that hes the right man for me and what he likes about me.I want to make sure that hes worth it and not just the body.And if he interested in me,we can start hanging out,and become friends,slowly become best friends,until we become even more.
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8/19/2008 3:22:04 PM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
51, joined Jul. 2008
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Yes absolutely go for it.
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8/19/2008 8:54:59 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
95, joined Jul. 2008
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All my life Ive been pursued, lately Ive been thinking of turning that around, tell me fellas is it a good idea for the lady to ask a man out? How do men feel about that, be honest please.
It would be nice to ba asked out. Makes me feel valuable.
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8/19/2008 11:11:04 PM |
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bonesly
Chino Valley, AZ
46, joined Aug. 2008
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I always feel so scared when faced with a good looking man. I've never asked a guy out. I'd like to but I feel like I'm not pretty enough and maybe hell laugh in my face. I'm such a punk
Quit thinking like that. I've asked a few guys out in a round about way, and I still feel odd, especially if they don't respond. But we have to keep trying. And everyone looks at a person in a different way, so don't worry about not being 'pretty' enough.
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8/19/2008 11:35:47 PM |
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tony6464
West Palm Beach, FL
50, joined May. 2008
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I think its sexy
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9/2/2008 6:39:22 PM |
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passionate8
Gibsonton, FL
58, joined May. 2008
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I think it is exciting!! Very kool
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9/2/2008 7:00:02 PM |
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discerning1
Los Angeles, CA
41, joined Nov. 2007
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All my life Ive been pursued, lately Ive been thinking of turning that around, tell me fellas is it a good idea for the lady to ask a man out? How do men feel about that, be honest please.
Yes it is a good idea arisingmercury.
Sometimes of us guys don't know what the hell we are doing half the time.
Even some guys are gunshy, we don't even know if you ladies are interested.
Speaking for guys it gets tiresome always being the hunter.
It would be nice to be the prey at times.
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9/2/2008 8:23:11 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
62, joined Aug. 2008
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Equality states you women should be asking as much as men do.
And changing the oil on the car too.
Or re-starting an engine by opining the butterfly with a scrwdriver.
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9/2/2008 8:24:27 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
42, joined Jan. 2008
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It feels awesome!
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9/2/2008 8:25:52 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
62, joined Aug. 2008
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All my life Ive been pursued, lately Ive been thinking of turning that around, tell me fellas is it a good idea for the lady to ask a man out? How do men feel about that, be honest please.
In many parties, dances... the ladies are told to invite the gentlemen to dance. Well, I have not done so ever....no even of the gent. besides me was my father / brother.
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9/2/2008 8:28:02 PM |
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tichobar
Sarasota, FL
40, joined Jul. 2008
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It's great if she's pretty.
If she's ugly, just tell her to piss-off.
I think it's fun.
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9/2/2008 8:28:55 PM |
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lord_anubis
Howell, NJ
45, joined Aug. 2008
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I would have no problem with that.
I have to be honest, it would be harrrrrrrrrrd not to do the pursuing since i am very agressive ( I pounce, lol. ) when it comes to things like that!
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9/2/2008 9:33:57 PM |
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kb12008
Mount Jackson, VA
39, joined Aug. 2008
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It would definitely be a breath of fresh air. I wish more women would do it? It would be such a nice break from what is so conventional.
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9/2/2008 9:37:19 PM |
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bubbaman61
Westminster, MD
53, joined Jul. 2008
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It would be awsome if that were to happen to me. Although then her vision might come into question.....
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9/2/2008 10:09:01 PM |
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zzjonze
Springfield, MO
61, joined Nov. 2007
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I find it flattering
ZZ
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9/3/2008 2:16:33 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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Most of the gentlemen that answered say "It would be flattering, a breack of what's conventional, is sexy...." but none of them said "I will not have to deal with rejection."
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