| 8/12/2008 10:02:20 AM |
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lady_loca
Des Plaines, IL
age: 37
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How many people are you currently dating?
How do you feel about people dating multiple people at the same time?
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| 8/12/2008 10:03:54 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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How many people are you currently dating?
How do you feel about people dating multiple people at the same time?
None
What do you mean by dating? Dating to me means sex.. so no.. that's not cool to have sex with more than one person at a time.. too many fluids mixing.
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| 8/12/2008 10:03:56 AM |
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immabluefish
Orlando, FL
age: 44
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Its fine as long as its just dating and not sexual...As long as you're not exclusive
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| 8/12/2008 10:05:54 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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As long as the person is up front that he/she is dating other people, there isn't anything wrong with that.
THe problem is that most people keep that part as a secret and pretend that the person they are out with and or talking to for the week, is the only one they are seeing. 
Being open and honest about dating other people - nothing wrong with that. The person that's told that then has the option to date or not date the person. Better to know up front than have the person mislead and pretend he/she is the only one, yet dating others and even or sleeping around. That's called playing games, playing with one's feelings and emotions.
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| 8/12/2008 10:06:02 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Its fine as long as its just dating and not sexual...As long as you're not exclusive
How is dating not sexual?
If yer not kissing or holding hands or hugging or having sex.. then it's not a date.. yer just out with a friend.
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| 8/12/2008 10:06:30 AM |
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lady_loca
Des Plaines, IL
age: 37
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How many people are you currently dating?
How do you feel about people dating multiple people at the same time?
None
What do you mean by dating? Dating to me means sex.. so no.. that's not cool to have sex with more than one person at a time.. too many fluids mixing.
Dating means different things to different people. I think of it as getting to know someone, but I don't like having sex with more then one person at a time.
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| 8/12/2008 10:07:42 AM |
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sweetlmama
Macomb, MO
age: 38
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I think that dating....just dating multiple people is sometimes good.....I mean men love competition and it means your a little harder to catch which usually is a good thing....as long as you haven't had the exclusivity talk...and the other person believes they are the one and only. So as long as your a free agent have fun.
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| 8/12/2008 10:08:19 AM |
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immabluefish
Orlando, FL
age: 44
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Dating is NOT exclusive unless ya'll have made that distinction
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| 8/12/2008 10:09:14 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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How many people are you currently dating?
How do you feel about people dating multiple people at the same time?
None
What do you mean by dating? Dating to me means sex.. so no.. that's not cool to have sex with more than one person at a time.. too many fluids mixing.
Dating means different things to different people. I think of it as getting to know someone, but I don't like having sex with more then one person at a time.
Best way to get to know someone is sex.
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| 8/12/2008 10:12:31 AM |
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lady_loca
Des Plaines, IL
age: 37
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Its fine as long as its just dating and not sexual...As long as you're not exclusive
How is dating not sexual?
If yer not kissing or holding hands or hugging or having sex.. then it's not a date.. yer just out with a friend.
What's wrong with starting out as friends? I mean there can be some affection, but I'd rather get to know someone before sexing it up with them.
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| 8/12/2008 10:15:09 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Its fine as long as its just dating and not sexual...As long as you're not exclusive
How is dating not sexual?
If yer not kissing or holding hands or hugging or having sex.. then it's not a date.. yer just out with a friend.
What's wrong with starting out as friends? I mean there can be some affection, but I'd rather get to know someone before sexing it up with them.
LOL
You women have a funny way of defining what friends you will bang.. and what ones you won't.
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| 8/12/2008 10:18:00 AM |
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lady_loca
Des Plaines, IL
age: 37
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Its fine as long as its just dating and not sexual...As long as you're not exclusive
How is dating not sexual?
If yer not kissing or holding hands or hugging or having sex.. then it's not a date.. yer just out with a friend.
What's wrong with starting out as friends? I mean there can be some affection, but I'd rather get to know someone before sexing it up with them.
LOL
You women have a funny way of defining what friends you will bang.. and what ones you won't.
Why do we have to bang every person we go out on a date with?
Do you bang every chic you meet? Or even want too?? sheesh...
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| 8/12/2008 10:22:17 AM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 49
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If there are no agreements on monogamy, then I feel you are still free to date others. It is not quite my style, since I can only handle one man at a time, but I would not judge anyone who preferred to do so.
To truly get to know someone, I find it difficult to get to know 3-4 men at one time.Just my preference and my goal is only ONE Man. Personally, I would think twice when taking a man seriously if he was playing the field while hitting me up. I don't share and nor do I like to share myself with many.For me, it is a respect issue because I am upfront in what I want.
I guess it depends on your style and your goals in dating.When looking for long term, I can't spread myself around...to confusing and I'd wear down quickly. To many choices can lead to a bad decisions.
JMO...."Z" is a one man woman in Mayberry!
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| 8/12/2008 10:40:25 AM |
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ll53
Three Rivers, MI
age: 55
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Dating at one time varies... this time of the year, most of the time I do not date, just not much free time in the summer with work and travel for family reasons.
Dating and being intimate two different things to me . I can only be intimate and date only that person at that time, just in my make up.
I really have to get to know someone first and concentrate only on getting to know her without the hassle of other people.
I would expect the same from her before getting to that stage.
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| 8/12/2008 10:48:58 AM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 41
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I agree that without a commitment by both people there is no exclusivity rule in play. However; Me personally, I don't have the time or energy for more than one person at a time, of course I would love to even have one person (lady) to worry about.
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