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11/1/2014 10:08:46 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,420)
Washington, DC
41, joined Aug. 2014


A woman named Soshana had a secret camera follow her around Manhattan. She says men cat call at women too much. She wants men trying to cat call at women to stop. They put her on all the tv shows to explain this.

But I noticed during her walk through Manhattan, she had on tight fitting pants and shirt that showed every curve on her body.

Why do women or men dress provocatively?

And then complain about lust, cat calls, being undressed with eyes, or being sexually assaulted?

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11/1/2014 10:10:08 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
thunderfuk
Beverly Hills, CA
43, joined Oct. 2014


Because a lot of women basically are stupid

11/1/2014 10:13:07 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,849)
Pearland, TX
50, joined Jan. 2013







these gals say it best.

11/1/2014 10:15:30 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
thunderfuk
Beverly Hills, CA
43, joined Oct. 2014


Yea it's easy to demonstrate in public isn't it? Now tell her to walk down an unlit street at night with no protection

Like I said . stupid

11/1/2014 10:15:57 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
sdgncalix3
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,787)
Las Vegas, NV
41, joined Dec. 2012


Because they can

11/1/2014 10:18:47 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
thunderfuk
Beverly Hills, CA
43, joined Oct. 2014


I enjoy the fat lesbian with the sign though thanks

11/1/2014 10:20:06 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,849)
Pearland, TX
50, joined Jan. 2013


^^you're not wearing protective head gear...so does that give me the invitation to smash your skull in with a hammer? I mean you asked for it..not wearing a helmet.

same LOGIC.

11/1/2014 10:20:18 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

mr_imperfect
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,929)
Philadelphia, PA
52, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from dr_know:
A woman named Soshana had a secret camera follow her around Manhattan. She says men cat call at women too much. She wants men trying to cat call at women to stop. They put her on all the tv shows to explain this.

But I noticed during her walk through Manhattan, she had on tight fitting pants and shirt that showed every curve on her body.

Why do women or men dress provocatively?

And then complain about lust, cat calls, being undressed with eyes, or being sexually assaulted?


First off I didn't see many men giving her cat calls. The majority complimented her on how beautiful they thought she was. This is nothing more than a case of a stuck up b*tch thinking she is way hotter than she really is getting pissed because a bunch of guys she apparently didn't find attractive at all had the balls to try and talk to her. How dare they think they were good enough for her.

11/1/2014 10:20:27 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

bubblezgopopz
Las Vegas, NV
23, joined Nov. 2013
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Quote from dr_know:
A woman named Soshana had a secret camera follow her around Manhattan. She says men cat call at women too much. She wants men trying to cat call at women to stop. They put her on all the tv shows to explain this.

But I noticed during her walk through Manhattan, she had on tight fitting pants and shirt that showed every curve on her body.

Why do women or men dress provocatively?

And then complain about lust, cat calls, being undressed with eyes, or being sexually assaulted?

Good point...

11/1/2014 10:21:20 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
thunderfuk
Beverly Hills, CA
43, joined Oct. 2014


I'm not wearing a cup either rose smash my nuts instead

11/1/2014 10:23:58 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

happytobeme17
Vineland, NJ
60, joined Feb. 2014


Quote from txrose64:
^^you're not wearing protective head gear...so does that give me the invitation to smash your skull in with a hammer? I mean you asked for it..not wearing a helmet.

same LOGIC.


11/1/2014 10:26:11 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

micou4u
Brooklyn, NY
40, joined Oct. 2014
online now!




11/1/2014 10:28:44 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,849)
Pearland, TX
50, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from thunderfuk:
I'm not wearing a cup either rose smash my nuts instead


you and that guy that digs that should get together


Don't tempt me Mister

11/1/2014 10:29:14 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

mr_imperfect
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,929)
Philadelphia, PA
52, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from txrose64:
^^you're not wearing protective head gear...so does that give me the invitation to smash your skull in with a hammer? I mean you asked for it..not wearing a helmet.

same LOGIC.


Rose I agree that how a woman dresses is not an invite to disrespect her and treat her like some sex toy but I watched the video. Except for a handful of creeps most of the men did nothing more than compliment her on her looks. Since When Has Telling a random stranger they're beautiful become harassment?

It's a simple f**king compliment. she should accept it as such and stop reading so much more into it



[Edited 11/1/2014 10:31:20 AM ]

11/1/2014 10:30:29 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
teeheehee_
Over 2,000 Posts (2,185)
Montreal, QC
33, joined Jun. 2014


What I find surprising is that many guys think she was dressed sexy- jeans and a high neck tshirt.

11/1/2014 10:33:15 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,849)
Pearland, TX
50, joined Jan. 2013


^^it doesn't matter what she was wearing...it'd still happen.

We should just all wear Burka's and stay in the home..why bother getting an education when it's our duty to service and please our men

why want more?

11/1/2014 10:39:58 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
jakebearr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,139)
Simi Valley, CA
51, joined Sep. 2013


Really who cares how they dress as long as there's sex involved with these women i'm good to go....Js ...

11/1/2014 10:45:09 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
anywenchway
Over 2,000 Posts (2,852)
Macon, GA
38, joined Jul. 2014


For the men who dress provacative




11/1/2014 10:45:41 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

blackgirls_rock
Pompano Beach, FL
30, joined Feb. 2014


The truth is as a woman you can and will get cat calls and even harassed wear a baggy t-shirt and sweatpants. So the problem isn't her attire it's the mentality of most men nowadays.

Also, the problem with your logic is that men can do or say what they want and as women it's our fault. This IMO is why rape is rampant in this country.

11/1/2014 11:30:35 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
dr_know
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Washington, DC
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11/1/2014 11:42:23 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

soulflight
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,225)
Dayton, OH
52, joined Apr. 2014


Why is it that we always get so many threads about the same topic?

This has been done to death in the last few days...

11/1/2014 11:50:51 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  

blackgirls_rock
Pompano Beach, FL
30, joined Feb. 2014


Maybe a better question is why do most men feel like women are constantly seeking their validation?

11/1/2014 11:57:46 AM Why Dress Provocatively?  
starr_so_happy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,846)
Perry, IA
30, joined Jun. 2014


I get more attention walking to work in scrubs than I do tight jeans

11/1/2014 12:04:52 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
leggsalloverr
Over 1,000 Posts (1,484)
Beverly Hills, CA
56, joined May. 2014


I know why some women dress provocatively. It's because most men have zero imagination. Women need to help the dead as much as possable yanno

11/1/2014 12:04:55 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

bitsybon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,778)
Jacksonville, FL
56, joined Jan. 2010


How do men dress provocatively?


(I wanna try it)

11/1/2014 12:08:58 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
starr_so_happy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,846)
Perry, IA
30, joined Jun. 2014




Sluts

11/1/2014 1:07:40 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
24milkduds
Over 2,000 Posts (3,517)
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012


Truly op you have no ideal...it doesn't matter "how" a woman dress...some and I do mean only "some" men don't recognize what a woman wears..you can't judge unless You've walked our shoes!

11/1/2014 1:11:39 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

bitsybon
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,778)
Jacksonville, FL
56, joined Jan. 2010


But milkduds,

your shoes hurt my feet.

11/1/2014 1:17:24 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
24milkduds
Over 2,000 Posts (3,517)
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012


Quote from bitsybon:
But milkduds,

your shoes hurt my feet.



^^^^ trust me, mine hurt too!

11/1/2014 1:20:41 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,845)
Saint Louis, MO
60, joined Jun. 2007


I'd like to see a guy in very revealing shorts and no shirt with six pack abs walking through a bunch of women.

I'd bet money you'd get the same results...and probably worse with at least one of the women feeling free to put her hands on the man.

Any takers?

11/1/2014 1:42:26 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
24milkduds
Over 2,000 Posts (3,517)
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012


Quote from stl1:
I'd like to see a guy in very revealing shorts and no shirt with six pack abs walking through a bunch of women.

I'd bet money you'd get the same results...and probably worse with at least one of the women feeling free to put her hands on the man.

Any takers?



^^^very few men my age don't have 6 pack abs

11/1/2014 1:45:23 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,420)
Washington, DC
41, joined Aug. 2014


Quote from stl1:
I'd like to see a guy in very revealing shorts and no shirt with six pack abs walking through a bunch of women.

I'd bet money you'd get the same results...and probably worse with at least one of the women feeling free to put her hands on the man.

Any takers?


Interesting question. And don't let him be on a beach walking to his convertible Ferrari.



11/1/2014 1:45:51 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,420)
Washington, DC
41, joined Aug. 2014


Quote from 24milkduds:
^^^very few men my age don't have 6 pack abs


We don't know your age.

11/1/2014 1:55:22 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
24milkduds
Over 2,000 Posts (3,517)
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012


Quote from dr_know:
We don't know your age.


^^^^right, I'm invisible...but da old timers on here should

P.S. Way older then you



[Edited 11/1/2014 1:56:20 PM ]

11/1/2014 1:57:11 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
mercedes01
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (77,364)
New South Wales
Australia
95, joined Jan. 2010


If I had big tits I would.

11/1/2014 1:57:48 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,158)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012


Quote from txrose64:





these gals say it best.


This !

The days of blaming women for the weaknesses of men ?

Are coming to an end....

11/1/2014 2:01:10 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

playingindirt
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,535)
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014


men that do that still do it even if she doesn't dress provocatively..

what do you know? nada..

11/1/2014 2:03:00 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
24milkduds
Over 2,000 Posts (3,517)
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012


Quote from playingindirt:
men that do that still do it even if she doesn't dress provocatively..

what do you know? nada..



*^^

11/1/2014 2:04:36 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,158)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012


Amen Ann

11/1/2014 2:04:44 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

esmeraldar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,636)
Toms River, NJ
66, joined Jan. 2009


I was once young. Yes, I know that's hard to believe. I'm not Dolly Parton, Jane Russell, or Jessica Simpson but certain types of bodies appear provocative whenever your wear something that was not designed by Omar the Tent Maker. I did sometimes dress provocatively for dates but did not do so for everyday life. Still I heard men making comments about my body. When I was young this upset me very much. I guess when I was older I got used to it.

11/1/2014 2:09:10 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,420)
Washington, DC
41, joined Aug. 2014


So in that picture with that woman topless...you gals are of the opinion that a woman can walk around naked for all you care...

And if men aren't "weak", well treat her like a lady, respect her to the utmost, and most definitely not say anything to her that she may deem as disrespectful.

Are you gals trolling me??

11/1/2014 2:10:23 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,585)
Mesquite, TX
63, joined Oct. 2010


A true gentlemen has no problem with the women that know how to display their sex appeal.

Now what are you complaining about?

11/1/2014 2:14:44 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
dr_know
Over 1,000 Posts (1,420)
Washington, DC
41, joined Aug. 2014


You misunderstand the topic Fish. Men attract complaining at all. It's women who are complaining about being harassed by men. I'm asking why do many wrong dress provocatively then, if they don't want any attention paid to their physical appearance?

11/1/2014 2:17:53 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

barrydalmi
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,422)
Baltimore, MD
51, joined Dec. 2007


These kinds of issues will always be debated with emotion instead of logic. It is especially telling when people struggle for analogies or make leaps from actions like unwanted comments (wrong, impolite, crass) all the way out to assault/rape (really wrong, criminal).


Her "experiment"- sponsored by an organization Hollaback.org (with an agenda)- achieved what it wanted- the message that there are a**holes out there who make unwanted comments to women out in the streets. Most know that is inappropriate-many don't.

They achieved their result by putting a very attractive, shapely actress, in tight clothes and "trolled" her through crappy areas with "lower class" guys out on the street in the middle of the day.


Would they have gotten that same result on a military base? Wall Street? A University campus?----maybe a stray here and there-likely not.

11/1/2014 2:19:35 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

playingindirt
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,535)
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from dr_know:
So in that picture with that woman topless...you gals are of the opinion that a woman can walk around naked for all you care...

And if men aren't "weak", well treat her like a lady, respect her to the utmost, and most definitely not say anything to her that she may deem as disrespectful.

Are you gals trolling me??


It doesn't matter what anyone is wearing or not wearing. that doesn't give anyone the right to disrespect them.

showing others respect is a reflection on the person you are not what other people are.

just because people are stupid it doesn't mean it's okay to abuse them.

11/1/2014 2:20:33 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
genx1200
Over 1,000 Posts (1,243)
Encino, CA
44, joined Oct. 2012


Because common sense and logic is not their strong suit.



The quirks will not change for, you. EVER!


Awwwwww



[Edited 11/1/2014 2:22:22 PM ]

11/1/2014 2:21:11 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,158)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012


Quote from dr_know:
So in that picture with that woman topless...you gals are of the opinion that a woman can walk around naked for all you care...

And if men aren't "weak", well treat her like a lady, respect her to the utmost, and most definitely not say anything to her that she may deem as disrespectful.

Are you gals trolling me??


Yes..that is what I AM SAYING!

As a suposed EQUAL citizen of THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA..

Any woman shld be FREE to not be blamed for male weakness...


Same as blaming a style of dress for.the reason for a rape.

Or where she was...time of raoe...perfume...make up etc.


Contrary to.popular male belief...

You are free to THINK as you choose....

YOU ARE NOT FREE TO SPEAK IT NOR ACT UPON IT...

Simple...

11/1/2014 2:25:42 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  
genx1200
Over 1,000 Posts (1,243)
Encino, CA
44, joined Oct. 2012


World not quirks

11/1/2014 2:28:38 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,845)
Saint Louis, MO
60, joined Jun. 2007


Quote from stl1:
I'd like to see a guy in very revealing shorts and no shirt with six pack abs walking through a bunch of women.

I'd bet money you'd get the same results...and probably worse with at least one of the women feeling free to put her hands on the man.

Any takers?




Medusa-

I see you have ignored this as, of course, men are the only offenders.

I remember reading about how women at a strip club with male dancers were actually much worse behaved than men at a strip club with female dancers.

11/1/2014 2:34:14 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

mrfckinpetey
Over 2,000 Posts (2,466)
Orlando, FL
29, joined Jun. 2014


Female primates are designed to show themselves off and attract others.

And men are designed to look at women in the same way a hungry lion looks at a steak.

It makes this argument difficult to understand from both sides simultaneously. But realistically, men should control themselves more importantly than women should worry about over stimulating men.

Cat calls aren't going to stop though. Just get used to it. The only way out of it is to breed your way out of it. Stop sleeping with shady men that make cat calls and having their children, and over time that evolutionary imperative will cease.

11/1/2014 2:37:34 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,158)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012


Assuming you KNOW how I read this thread...was a failure Stl....

I got to Roses post...hit quote and.posted...

Didn't IGNORE anything.

But since it is so important to.you to hv me speak upon.your.post ?

I will

I live in Military City....work in.it also.


Everyday...there are some of.the strongest and bravest young men jogging around The Plaza....joined by our firefighters and police.

Some alone..some in groups.


In the over 4yrs I hv seen this ? Not once have I seen one woman nor a group of.women cat call etc. Look ? Yes...maybe grin.like hell...but overt sexual attention ? No.


I actually asked a couple...Bet y'all get a lot of attention...and h
it up.on.

They said women look...but that is all.

Now if a woman is stripping in a venue that is set up to make money off.of.overt sexual attention and b*tches about that attention ? That is a WTF moment.

Just like your lil scenerio



[Edited 11/1/2014 2:39:17 PM ]

11/1/2014 2:44:30 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,845)
Saint Louis, MO
60, joined Jun. 2007


You need a good spanking!

11/1/2014 2:45:34 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

sweetsinglelife
Waterford, CT
57, joined Jul. 2014


Some men are just a**holes. They say a women shouldn't run the country because she can't be rational and then the same men say they basicity can't control themselves when a women dresses a certain way. Even a pair of jeans and a T-shirt sends them into being a horny a** hat.

This all goes back to some men wanting to blame women for their lack of self control. If you walk by a freshly baked pie on a window sill you know you have no right to take it, most people won't either. Only the jerks do something like that. There have been rapes of all kinds of women and most have nothing to do with their clothing. Years ago some guy raped a nun in this state. It's about control and so many "people" want control they are willing to do what it takes to get it.


OP Do you think you'll ever stop blaming women for your lack of self control? I just remembered your age so probably not.

11/1/2014 2:45:43 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,158)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012


Not a man strong enough roaming the.planet...



11/1/2014 2:47:49 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

fishnthec
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,585)
Mesquite, TX
63, joined Oct. 2010


Quote from dr_know:
You misunderstand the topic Fish. Men attract complaining at all. It's women who are complaining about being harassed by men. I'm asking why do many wrong dress provocatively then, if they don't want any attention paid to their physical appearance?


A proper lady always knows how to dress for every occasion.

All I'm saying is, as gentlemen, you and I know how to focus in on women with grace and style, and ignore or tolerate the bimbos that are out of our league and don't meet our standards. It's all about focus and a little realization that the world is full of people who just don't think or live their lives like we do. It takes all kinds you know! You better get used to it!



[Edited 11/1/2014 2:48:31 PM ]

11/1/2014 2:47:54 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,845)
Saint Louis, MO
60, joined Jun. 2007


Hillary 2016!

And no, I'll let her keep her pants suit on.

11/1/2014 2:48:17 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

eyesofmedusa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,158)
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012


And Petey nailed it....cull.out weakness on.both sides...

11/1/2014 2:54:26 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

sweetsinglelife
Waterford, CT
57, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from stl1:
I'd like to see a guy in very revealing shorts and no shirt with six pack abs walking through a bunch of women.

I'd bet money you'd get the same results...and probably worse with at least one of the women feeling free to put her hands on the man.

Any takers?


This made me laugh out loud. I have the CGA Academy of cadets run by my house almost every day at 4:00PM, nine more minutes! They run into the woods behind my house and through the trails for about 40 minutes. I also have several colleges run cross country through the woods here. When they're training they run with shorts and no shirt! I have never once said a single word to these hot young men. I do look and think, Yikes, those are some fine looking young men! Those were the days my friend.



[Edited 11/1/2014 2:55:04 PM ]

11/1/2014 2:56:13 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,845)
Saint Louis, MO
60, joined Jun. 2007


Do you touch yourself when they run by?



11/1/2014 2:56:50 PM Why Dress Provocatively?  

italianroyalty
Over 1,000 Posts (1,282)
London
United Kingdom
20, joined Jul. 2014


Why dress provocatively?

Why be bothered. Let someone where what they want. If guys are yelling at her in the middle of the street they need to act like gentlement instead of dogs.