Did i do something wrong?

11/8/2014 9:33:10 PM	Did i do something wrong?
jamesparkerlhf Altamont, KS 18, joined Jul. 2014	A girl I are friends and we are close, we would tease eachother and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
11/8/2014 9:35:53 PM	Did i do something wrong?
flirty_n_fun67 Belleville, ON 47, joined Sep. 2010	Gee..let me get my magic 8 ball here and see what it says.... It says most likely yes...
11/8/2014 9:36:07 PM	Did i do something wrong?
stanleyzee Dayton, OH 30, joined Dec. 2012 online now!	Playtime is over
11/8/2014 9:39:12 PM	Did i do something wrong?
cali8zice Albany, NY 49, joined Oct. 2012	She moved on you do the same
11/8/2014 9:40:07 PM	Did i do something wrong?
tasty_taters Springfield, IL 35, joined Jan. 2014 online now!	obviously YOU over-stepped your bounds with her, op.... that flirting you say happened, was more one-sided..........she was probably just trying to be nice and not really flirting with you. but since you don't get much attention from women..........you assumed there was more there, than there actually was....... you got too close for comfort and she realized you can't/couldn't accept "just being friends" so she gave you the old BOOT .. . . so learn a lesson from this and don't repeat it [Edited 11/8/2014 9:40:58 PM ]
11/8/2014 9:40:26 PM	Did i do something wrong?
mikey20928 Knoxville, TN 52, joined Jun. 2014	Welcome to the world, OP.. Don't let them b*tches get you down, because that's what they want to build their self esteem. Move along little dog, and find a better one..
11/8/2014 9:40:43 PM	Did i do something wrong?
lonely_savona Aberdeenshire, Scotland United Kingdom 49, joined Oct. 2014	Your gonna get deleted with a sparks name
11/8/2014 9:43:45 PM	Did i do something wrong?
mikey20928 Knoxville, TN 52, joined Jun. 2014	Huh?
11/8/2014 9:45:45 PM	Did i do something wrong?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl and I are friends and we were close...at least I thought we were, we would tease each other and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me because either she really wasn't in to me or found someone else and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it....maybe I keep bringing this up all the time...so she decided to disappear...or realised I was getting too attached and taking it seriously. We really never met, but it sure seemed real to me. There I fixed it and some work on the sentence structuring too. Dude...sorry to say this..but its over and you may never get the answers. Let it go...stop messaging....maybe later she will talk...but its better to just let it go all together...unless you were real life friends...if so...give her some space. Sorry it happened.
11/8/2014 9:47:37 PM	Did i do something wrong?
hardtwist Surprise, NE 46, joined Jun. 2009	OP lower your standards, to better your average. Another words, build confidence
11/8/2014 9:50:14 PM	Did i do something wrong?
jackscamaro New York, NY 46, joined Mar. 2014	You need confidence dude. If she didn't have the courtesy to tell you your were getting broomed..she's not worth your time! She broomed you...who cares go find a better one. Thousands out there. Don't chase them!!!!!
11/8/2014 9:54:55 PM	Did i do something wrong?
jamesparkerlhf Altamont, KS 18, joined Jul. 2014	I'm not chasing her I am just confused, she just up and stop talking to me. And trust me when I tell you I am sure she was flirting.
11/8/2014 9:56:22 PM	Did i do something wrong?
tasty_taters Springfield, IL 35, joined Jan. 2014 online now!	Quote from tasty_taters: obviously YOU over-stepped your bounds with her, op.... that flirting you say happened, was more one-sided..........she was probably just trying to be nice and not really flirting with you. but since you don't get much attention from women..........you assumed there was more there, than there actually was....... you got too close for comfort and she realized you can't/couldn't accept "just being friends" so she gave you the old BOOT .. . . so learn a lesson from this and don't repeat it read what I wrote again, junior I am correct and you are NOT........sorry....just accept it
11/8/2014 9:57:39 PM	Did i do something wrong?
flirty_n_fun67 Belleville, ON 47, joined Sep. 2010	If i see someone is turning into an a**hole or a drama king...i will back off from talking to them too...cause it's not my thing and im not gettin dragged into their shit... [Edited 11/8/2014 9:58:11 PM ]
11/8/2014 9:57:49 PM	Did i do something wrong?
ibane Zanesville, OH 43, joined Feb. 2014 online now!	5 Touchdowns in the last 6 possessions. Buckeyes b*tches. Its a girl op. Wtf did u expect
11/8/2014 9:59:24 PM	Did i do something wrong?
ayee_again Pasadena, TX 54, joined May. 2014	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl I are friends and we are close, we would tease eachother and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it. Men are intelligent lil creatures. If you think you overstepped your bounds you probably did. But maybe she just looked at you as a friend and she found someone she was more interested in. At no fault of your own. Sometimes people get put in the friends zone. Period. The end.
11/8/2014 10:00:19 PM	Did i do something wrong?
grneyesrme Sacramento, CA 46, joined Aug. 2013	She is probably seeing someone else.
11/8/2014 10:00:41 PM	Did i do something wrong?
machug59 Fairfield, CA 55, joined Dec. 2011	Dang, you guys... OP, if she is avoiding you and won't answer on facebook or texts, it is pretty likely she has moved on from the flirting. The right thing to do would have been to say something to you, but it won't always happen the right way. If you have made some efforts, it's time to move on yourself. Good luck to you.
11/8/2014 10:01:47 PM	Did i do something wrong?
ibane Zanesville, OH 43, joined Feb. 2014 online now!	Look at it this way...theres all kinda hotties runnin round here. Get ya a couple
11/8/2014 10:02:11 PM	Did i do something wrong?
jackscamaro New York, NY 46, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: I'm not chasing her I am just confused, she just up and stop talking to me. And trust me when I tell you I am sure she was flirting. OK. Take in the confidence that she flirted with you and move on. Always be improving and making yourself better. Your whining dude. What lady worth having is gonna put up with a marshmellow???? Get tough move on.
11/8/2014 10:03:37 PM	Did i do something wrong?
stanleyzee Dayton, OH 30, joined Dec. 2012 online now!	NEXT!!!
11/8/2014 10:12:11 PM	Did i do something wrong?
jamesparkerlhf Altamont, KS 18, joined Jul. 2014	Ok we were friends that's where we were I knew that. Heck I was even one of the people she would ask if she thought a boyfriend was being a jerk. Yes we flirted it was kind of a thing between us, just was but neither of us took it seriously cause she was already in a relationship. Now I am not whining or obsessed, I am just confused as to why she stopped talking to me entirely.
11/8/2014 10:16:37 PM	Did i do something wrong?
tasty_taters Springfield, IL 35, joined Jan. 2014 online now!	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: Ok we were friends that's where we were I knew that. Heck I was even one of the people she would ask if she thought a boyfriend was being a jerk. Yes we flirted it was kind of a thing between us, just was but neither of us took it seriously cause she was already in a relationship. Now I am not whining or obsessed, I am just confused as to why she stopped talking to me entirely. WRONG......... Re RE REEEEE read my first post again You were hoping you'd be her "backup" or be NICE enough for her to look toward YOU for love, but she ONLY saw you as a friend YOU flirted......she was just being nice and/or using you for your emotional prop. but when she saw YOU wanted SEX and kept up the sexual inuendos <--miss spelled) she figured sex with you was much too much to pay, for the small amount of emotional support you gave her.............so she went on to find a new emotional support beam [Edited 11/8/2014 10:17:34 PM ]
11/8/2014 10:17:20 PM	Did i do something wrong?
italianroyalty London United Kingdom 20, joined Jul. 2014	She probably got a lil freaked out when you told her about the whole gimp suit obsession brah.
11/8/2014 10:17:49 PM	Did i do something wrong?
hellokimi Las Vegas, NV 22, joined Jun. 2013 online now!	Quote from bumblebee7: eader]Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl and I are friends and we were close...at least I thought we were, we would tease each other and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me because either she really wasn't in to me or found someone else and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it....maybe I keep bringing this up all the time...so she decided to disappear...or realised I was getting too attached and taking it seriously. We really never met, but it sure seemed real to me. There I fixed it and some work on the sentence structuring too. Dude...sorry to say this..but its over and you may never get the answers. Let it go...stop messaging....maybe later she will talk...but its better to just let it go all together...unless you were real life friends...if so...give her some space. Sorry it happened. Copy cat..
11/8/2014 11:07:39 PM	Did i do something wrong?
fishnthec Mesquite, TX 63, joined Oct. 2010 online now!	Why do people get involved with people in relationships and then get hurt when things don't work out?
11/8/2014 11:09:41 PM	Did i do something wrong?
b2cold Bark River, MI 22, joined Mar. 2014	Op. She moved on. Not replying is a reply. No interest. Sorry.
11/8/2014 11:13:36 PM	Did i do something wrong?
tasty_taters Springfield, IL 35, joined Jan. 2014 online now!	Quote from fishnthec: Why do people get involved with people in relationships and then get hurt when things don't work out? HE got involved............hoping that her relationship wouldn't work out then he'd be able to take advantage of her, when she was all "hurt" from the break-up........ BUT he pressed his luck too soon........and she saw right through is ass.......and ditched him from being her friend trying to f**k girls/women when they're vulnerable, is the worst kind of BETA male there is OP you aren't fooling anyone
11/8/2014 11:14:19 PM	Did i do something wrong?
bruce_2014 Dothan, AL 56, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl I are friends and we are close, we would tease eachother and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it. your a "Nice guy"and it turns women off.. She put you in the friend zone..... time to move on son.... Learn to be a MAN..... [Edited 11/8/2014 11:15:38 PM ]
11/8/2014 11:29:05 PM	Did i do something wrong?
6969foryou Sacramento, CA 36, joined Nov. 2012 online now!	Shrug it off... Move on... Maybe send her a message to check on her. If she responds cool... If not move it right along.
11/8/2014 11:30:48 PM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	high school is over... but only sorta
11/8/2014 11:34:29 PM	Did i do something wrong?
iam_resurrected Reno, NV 44, joined Jul. 2014	Need to learn to hit it and a quit it before ever going that bullshit friend route young man
11/8/2014 11:39:31 PM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	quite right friends last
11/8/2014 11:40:37 PM	Did i do something wrong?
65watlightbulb Saint Louis, MO 36, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl I are friends and we are close, we would tease eachother and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it. Sounds like a typical female to me.
11/8/2014 11:41:55 PM	Did i do something wrong?
love2kiss8 Columbus, OH 23, joined May. 2013	I say give her space and they didn't respond which means maybe they are tired of what you had. Just let them come to you on their own terms [Edited 11/8/2014 11:43:13 PM ]
11/8/2014 11:45:50 PM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	NEVER DO THAT... don't allow that revolving door shit
11/8/2014 11:51:40 PM	Did i do something wrong?
im7 Chapel Hill, NC 49, joined May. 2011	Op, call her to let her know what time you are cumming over and don't zip up your paints this time. Her phone is broken and someone hacked her facebook so she can't respond to you. (log back in and tell us how this turns out)
11/8/2014 11:55:15 PM	Did i do something wrong?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 62, joined Oct. 2009	Quote from flirty_n_fun67: Gee..let me get my magic 8 ball here and see what it says.... It says most likely yes... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm either that or she's found yet another main squeeze. You just never know with girls that age! She probably doesn't even know.
11/9/2014 12:40:30 AM	Did i do something wrong?
ermgotticity Saint Louis, MO 22, joined Sep. 2014	She found out you a lame
11/9/2014 12:50:12 AM	Did i do something wrong?
mehbleh Glendale, AZ 99, joined Oct. 2014	did i do something wrong? If this thread isn't trolling, then yes. What you did wrong was bought this crap: A girl I are friends I wonder if you realize that being "friends" with a woman requires the same effort, time, and frustrations learning to communicate effectively as a romantic relationship would? Basically, in order for it to be an actual, healthy, "close" (as you claim to be) relationship you have to treat it the same as a romantic relationship. Simply because the two of you are naturally inclined and trained to view the world and communicate differently. That's why it's generally more productive for "friends" to be the same sex...you are trained to communicate in the same way, and perceive the world in the same way. If you don't hold communication as important to the relationship, or any relationship, then you aren't really friends. At best you are emotional fluffers for each other so you don't have to deal with that scary world full of risk and confrontation, just using each other to hide from something else. Sometimes hiding isn't fulfilling and it's time to move on.
11/9/2014 3:45:03 AM	Did i do something wrong?
cavie59 Enid, OK 55, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl I are friends and we are close, we would tease eachother and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it. Any time a woman stops replying to the messages you have sent, it means that you have fked up and you better say you are sorry. You just have to figure out WHAT you did to fk up.
11/9/2014 3:56:44 AM	Did i do something wrong?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	All the men calling the Op a wimp is quite interesting. Why ? Because he was frnds with a woman ? Because he showed her interest and "chased" her ? Because he took a risk ? Because he has a heart and it got hurt ? Because he didn't try a fk and dump ? Wow.... That is not advice from ...men. That is advice and.or criticism from a**holes...Op. My suggestion...leave her be. Don't alter you...just leave her alone and move forward.
11/9/2014 4:19:44 AM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	because he's a sucker for that run away bs being there, is a two way street and she apparently can't put her pettiness aside long enough to even tell him what upset her much less be a friend to him
11/9/2014 4:21:51 AM	Did i do something wrong?
cavie59 Enid, OK 55, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from eyesofmedusa: All the men calling the Op a wimp is quite interesting. Why ? That is not advice from ...men. That is advice and.or criticism from a**holes...Op. My suggestion...leave her be. Don't alter you...just leave her alone and move forward. It is not all men that called the O.P. a wimp. I told him that he f up, and needed to say he was sorry, if he wants her. How is that saying he is a wimp????
11/9/2014 4:26:00 AM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	women only think about them they don't give a thought to him tearing his guts out trying to 2nd guess whats wrong and how to fix it all the while princess selfishly pouts so why shouldn't he act for himself... how/what ever that may be leave her to rot [Edited 11/9/2014 4:26:52 AM ]
11/9/2014 4:26:32 AM	Did i do something wrong?
nicoli7 Louisville, KY 30, joined Jul. 2014 online now!	When Sharks stop swimmin..... they die..op. In other words....keep swimmin.
11/9/2014 5:09:35 AM	Did i do something wrong?
1darksavior Far Rockaway, NY 53, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from jamesparkerlhf: A girl I are friends and we are close, we would tease eachother and flirt constantly. Now I am confused, recently she wont talk to me and if I send her a message on facebook or text her she wont respond. She used to go out of her way to talk to me now she avoids me, I don't get it. you moved to slow she has a man , i did that a lot when i was your age
11/9/2014 5:16:37 AM	Did i do something wrong?
drinksoda Admont Austria 56, joined Oct. 2014	Quote from flirty_n_fun67: If i see someone is turning into an a**hole or a drama king...i will back off from talking to them too...cause it's not my thing and im not gettin dragged into their shit... but but I Iike being dragged into ur "shit" least it smells like poop-a-ree, roses and whatever flavor febreeze I have at the time. lol
11/9/2014 5:19:04 AM	Did i do something wrong?
sweetnsassy227 Valparaiso, IN 55, joined Jul. 2014	Someone bought the kitty a new toy. Cats are finicky at times.
11/9/2014 5:21:42 AM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	throw them out solves that issue better than rewarding it
11/9/2014 5:22:10 AM	Did i do something wrong?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from miscbyproduct: women only think about them they don't give a thought to him tearing his guts out trying to 2nd guess whats wrong and how to fix it all the while princess selfishly pouts so why shouldn't he act for himself... how/what ever that may be leave her to rot I said for him to.leave her be... And cavie...I said all.the.men saying it...if.you weren't one of.those men ? Cool..dnt read urself into.it. However...for the men pushing the a*hole agenda...remember,..dnt btch and whine when women see all men as a**holes and.treat them accordingly...
11/9/2014 5:26:44 AM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	"emember,..dnt btch and whine when women see all men as a*holes and.treat them accordingly..." tit for tat and the so called "friend" in this "case" is a good example
11/9/2014 5:31:06 AM	Did i do something wrong?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from miscbyproduct: "emember,..dnt btch and whine when women see all men as a*holes and.treat them accordingly..." tit for tat and the so called "friend" in this "case" is a good example Hehehe.... Keep thinking that....it will carry you far darlin
11/9/2014 5:50:38 AM	Did i do something wrong?
beverduster La Feria, TX 49, joined Apr. 2008 online now!	sounds like your pecker is too short, buy a pecker pump
11/9/2014 5:51:35 AM	Did i do something wrong?
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	now just where and how far do you think i am trying to go/get?
11/9/2014 6:03:43 AM	Did i do something wrong?
aneleh02 Baltimore, MD 53, joined Jun. 2014	Apparently the two of you were not as close as you thought.
11/9/2014 6:18:39 AM	Did i do something wrong?
morgendorffer Jacksonville, FL 34, joined Oct. 2011	The best you can do is say something like "Hey what is going on? We seemed cool and now all of a sudden your avoiding me did I do somthing to offend you? If I did I am sorry." If she the kind of girl you really want she will talk about what up or say I am sorry but I am not confertable talking to I you about this yet. She may even apologize for avoiding you but to understand her best you need open communication. It possible for her to say she got a man now. Its hard but if you dont open up to her you can not fix what went wrong. Good luck.
11/9/2014 6:36:18 AM	Did i do something wrong?
mustangwriter Boerne, TX 54, joined Nov. 2009	Welcome....to the "Nice Guy Zone" cue Twilight Zone Music
11/9/2014 6:39:49 AM	Did i do something wrong?
riflessivo AlmafuerteStaffordshire United Kingdom 40, joined Jan. 2014	OP, If she was a friend she wouldn't treat you like this. She'd explain and if you truly did something to upset, offend her she'd give you chance to put it right.
11/9/2014 7:14:11 AM	Did i do something wrong?
new2this63 Bowie, MD 51, joined Apr. 2014	Hmmm, the 3rd agreement "never make assumptions# rears it's head. OP it has been my experience, if I want to truly know the thoughts and motives of someone I ask questions. What I/anyone think about a situation is just that what I/anyone thinks so to know and understand I would ask. Also as for your dilemma I suggest the 2nd agreement "don't take things personally". What she did was a function of her and her situation, as others has stated move on and remember going forward to ask. My Sunday morning 10¢

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