12/17/2008 11:06:31 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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hudley69
East Orange, NJ
age: 40
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0
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12/22/2008 10:52:33 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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superstarrrr34
Charleston, SC
age: 34
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i gave my ex 4
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12/22/2008 12:55:30 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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smoothupinya
Delano, MN
age: 38
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no more than 2 Come on do you even have to ask ?
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12/22/2008 2:37:37 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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lovinman1
Heflin, AL
age: 30
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ZERO
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12/24/2008 4:23:13 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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singleat4008
Washington, MO
age: 40
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Once is to many
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12/24/2008 5:19:30 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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onlineescape
Woodville, AL
age: 32
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zero tolerance
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12/24/2008 5:46:52 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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nollie180
Columbia, MO
age: 35
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I made the mistake of giving my x-wife 2 tries ...
now that I truly know a cheater will always be a cheater ...
I now have a 0 tolerance to it !! no questions asked !!
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1/8/2009 4:03:51 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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hjc73
Waxhaw, NC
age: 35
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The first time is the last time in my book. If they really want the relationship to work and truly care about you they wouldn't cheat.
Now..that being said. I don't think it's ever right...but if a girl isn't satifying her mans needs he may go elsewhere. I'm talking about her completely holding out on him. If she is just struggling to figure out what his needs are, she needs to be able to ask him and if she is not comfortable asking him...well, then they prob shouldnt be together anyway!
Please don't take this as being and OK to cheat!!!! He should say it's not working out and leave before he sleeps w/another woman on your time!
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1/8/2009 7:15:33 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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princess1076
Poughkeepsie, NY
age: 32
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i agree with you steberl. i try to make a rule that everyone makes mistakes so every should be forgiven from even that at least once. i truly believe if my partner had enough confidence in me to tell me upfront of what they did and sincerely apologize promising it will never happen again--i would indeed forgive them. ONCE if it happens again....pack ur stuff and leave the key!
however. if i found out somehow on my own and genuinely came up to them and asked them about it and they denied it. then they are out! cheating alone is bad but cheating and lying about it is one too many swords to swallow. i gave him the chance to confess right there and then. i might have been inclined to listen and forgive despite the fact that i had to find it out on my own...but by lying to me and denying something i have plainly seen is the truth. he forfeited that chance to be forgiven.
goodnight all.
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1/8/2009 8:10:22 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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gwynn33
Austin, TX
age: 32
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Once a cheater... always a cheater.
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1/8/2009 8:29:37 PM |
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merk135r
Kingsburg, CA
age: 30
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It would only take 1 time for me to forget them.
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1/9/2009 5:52:20 AM |
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blaisethie
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 31
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Well I always said if I caught him cheating he'd be out faster than his head could spin, but after 9 1/2 yrs of being together and married for 8 1/2 of those years I found myself giving him a second chance only for him to throw it in my face and ask for a divorce over the phone while away in the military and tell me he pretty much never loved me as much as he'd loved his second wife. So needless to say I have been burnt on giving second chances and seriously doubt my heart could handle all of those emotions again.
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1/9/2009 9:00:56 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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windwhispers
Auburn, WA
age: 39
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nonce
amen once they destroy the trust.
it will never come back.and to live
with no trust.well its just stupid.
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1/10/2009 8:38:37 PM |
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lacey1127
Leesburg, OH
age: 29
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one time
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1/10/2009 10:42:39 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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asudude
Charlotte, NC
age: 39
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As a lot of you have already said..the first time is the last time...I would forgive but the relationship would be over.
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