9/6/2008 10:28:53 AM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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lilylickr
Newport, NH
age: 37
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So what happens in the case where your accused of cheating but never have?
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9/6/2008 2:26:08 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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majesticxll
Houston, TX
age: 30
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zero
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9/6/2008 2:28:27 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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majesticxll
Houston, TX
age: 30
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So what happens in the case where your accused of cheating but never have? accusations are just that, accusations, people are innocent until proven guilty, or is it guilty until proven innocent?
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9/6/2008 2:49:21 PM |
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colorado37
Commerce City, CO
age: 39
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well i have been cheated on about 10 to 15 time by the same woman but i only knew if one at the time.i was lucky that i did not have parts of me fall off.
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10/9/2008 9:15:25 PM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 39
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none now. maybe i'm naive but ive had two long term relationships (one was a marriage) and i know this topic all too well cuz both times i was cheated on and there are children involved. absolutely broke my heart. the 1st i took him back but then left him; dont think i could get over it. the 2nd i didn't tolerate it and just got a divorce. but then he started wanting me back over and over again and i did kind of keep giving him a chance but apparently only wanted "back" on his terms cuz my terms wasn't good enough. trust to me has to be earned if it can be earned back and takes time. that wasn't his thang so he went back to his "ho-bag" anyway. so hard lessons to learn but its safe to say i have absolute ZERO tolerance for cheating at all anymore. there is always a different way to deal with relationship issues than cheating. like it was said by others, its immoral and cowardly.
i have to BELIEVE that not all men are like that, just like not all women are like that either.
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10/9/2008 11:10:05 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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orion94
Cherokee Village, AR
age: 32
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well from first hand experience i did everything right and had to forgive mine twice and in the end she put me out what ive realized is that there is no forgivness theres only cheaters and honest lovers. i would forgive her a million times more then i woke up and realized to move on. if you forgive once then thats all your going to be doing the rest of your life.
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10/9/2008 11:14:46 PM |
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orion94
Cherokee Village, AR
age: 32
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11 years got me know where just heart ache. just beleive in yourself and beleive there are honest loving people out there who will love you,but good luck finding them......sorry but nowdays its true.
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10/11/2008 6:44:33 PM |
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jewels2500
Unicoi, TN
age: 33
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I don't play games. If he wants to, he can find someone else to play them with.
Putting all his stuff outside and changing the locks the first time he cheats is the best way to show him how fun his games can be.
[Edited 10/11/2008 6:46:11 PM PST]
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10/11/2008 6:45:53 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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sagiv
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 29
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None.
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10/12/2008 7:17:27 AM |
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jeanett
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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none
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10/12/2008 10:00:35 AM |
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billyblueboy903
Texarkana, AR
age: 34
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If I really loved her, I'd forgive her even if she was the biggest slut in the county. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be angry, it doesn't mean I wouldn't have some harsh words to say, and so forth. But I think love is unconditional. If you love somebody, you forgive them when they mess up.
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10/12/2008 12:03:38 PM |
how many times will u 4 give ur mate 4 cheating before u put'em out? |
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bigboytroy69
Channahon, IL
age: 39
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never once a cheater always a cheater and along with that comes lieing and i hate liers
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10/12/2008 6:19:17 PM |
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greyson101
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 38
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mhmmm 3 times!!! l0l
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10/12/2008 8:28:21 PM |
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justacountrygal
Maspeth, NY
age: 37
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As long as it takes to get their stuff packed and gone. If you can't be faithful, you are nothing more than a waste of time for everyone you try to be with. At the very least, be upfront about who you really are.
I would not even give them the time to pack... will have their stuff out on the front lawn waiting for them, and new locks on the doors.... Been down that road once, never again.
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10/13/2008 7:30:41 AM |
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suzy_cakes
Madison, WI
age: 30
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I'll be honest about this. Normally I would say after the first time, they are gone. BUT... I've dealt with this before. My daughter's dad repeatedly cheated on me with his ex (who he is now married to). I was so wrapped up in my feelings that I let it go. It pissed me off and I didn't want him doing it (and he said he wouldn't..) that I stayed with him for 4 and a half years. I guess for him, he's used to getting away with it. Hell, the ex married him a couple of years after he knocked me up (they were back together) and cheating on her with me...
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