Cats or the Relationship?

11/27/2014 1:17:03 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	You find yourself in a relationship with someone who has an extreme attachment to their cats and you are allergic to them. You wake up in the middle of the night because one has fallen from it's perch on the headboard onto your face and your sudden reaction is to toss it at the wall. Your significant other screams at you for harming the furry beast. At dawn, significant other takes a shower so hot in the spare bathroom where the litter box is and steam vaporizes the entire house with the scent of stale cat urine. You've prepared a gourmet meal and set an elegant table only to find that the cats have climbed on the table and left pebbles of litter on the placemats. You find cat fur left behind on the sofa pillows, and claw marks on brand new furniture that is now being used as a scratching post. You have arrived home to find potted plants turned over and destroyed, dirt all over. Significant other refuses to rehome the beasts. What do you do? Tell significant other to GTFO or spend a fortune on allergy shots and live amidst the destruction? [Edited 11/27/2014 1:17:56 PM ] Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
11/27/2014 1:20:49 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
neo52 Tallahassee, FL 58, joined Sep. 2009	"I am a Feather, For each wind That blows, I Let go, and Trust the Universe To carry me!" Be the Feather and let the winds carry you away to a land of peace and harmony ... Happy Turkey day .. Please don't sneeze in the stuffing ..
11/27/2014 1:24:30 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
theloser2123 Manassas, VA 23, joined Apr. 2014	The fk kinda weird a shit is this? Fking people these days man goddamn. The fk ever happened to being normal
11/27/2014 1:24:53 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	it's not me hon. It's my son who has moved in his fiancé and brought extra p*ssy with her.
11/27/2014 1:25:35 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from theloser2123: The fk kinda weird a shit is this? Fking people these days man goddamn. The fk ever happened to being normal LMFAO That is what my son keeps saying.
11/27/2014 1:31:02 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
darthcapital North York, ON 44, joined Apr. 2014 online now!	my question is , why would you date him in the first place? there is loving your pet and being obsessive over your pet
11/27/2014 1:41:04 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from darthcapital: my question is , why would you date him in the first place? there is loving your pet and being obsessive over your pet Once again this thread is not about me, but about my son. Yeah I should have known better than ask opinions on any subject relating to relationships of any sort in the relationships forums. GOD FORGIVE ME! let thread die now as I've broken the almighty code of DH and went against the grain of the populace and started a legitimate thread! Woe unto ME!
11/27/2014 1:41:58 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
ttrockz55 Wickenburg, AZ 56, joined Nov. 2013	So...i didn't read anything but cat hair on the pillow? I am fostering two deer/apple head Chihuahuas for my son. They are on every adoption site I could get them on. I will not bond with them.... DOG HAIR. on me, everywhere. I vacuum daily, mop the floors. Put on my running clothes and freak out! Furry boot strings! Really. I am a hound lover. Give me a Queensland. But these little hair shedding guys...dam!
11/27/2014 2:10:27 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
introsgoldenboy Lancaster, CA 30, joined Nov. 2014	F**k that. The cat should poop outside on the neighbors grass, like every red blooded animal should. Cat boxes. Gross. Walking through the house smelling that. When you guys are having sex do you ever catch that smell of its litter box?
11/27/2014 2:14:18 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	~~FOR THE LAST GODDAMN TIME!!! IT AINT ABOUT ME! CAN YOU F**KING MORONS NOT READ?~~ Really???? There are volunteers who help illiterates. Need one?
11/27/2014 2:16:45 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
ttrockz55 Wickenburg, AZ 56, joined Nov. 2013	Quote from introsgoldenboy: F**k that. The cat should poop outside on the neighbors grass, like every red blooded animal should. Cat boxes. Gross. Walking through the house smelling that. When you guys are having sex do you ever catch that smell of its litter box? I dont own a cat. When I did...they went out the door. In the last six months I have cleaned more catboxes than I ever did when I owned a cat. People who need their homes watched, forget their cats stink! First thing I do, and ya...my favorite bitcb. Can't you smell that????
11/27/2014 2:41:40 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
whalemstrsback Corning, CA 57, joined Oct. 2014	Carolina... Your son desperately needs to tell her and deal with it now... It will not get easier with time...
11/27/2014 2:54:24 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
amusicluvr Salem, OR 62, joined Nov. 2013	it wouldn't happen to me. i make a point of not dating cat people.
11/27/2014 3:00:14 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012	Hate cats
11/27/2014 3:17:02 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 49, joined Jul. 2013	Sorry but she will have to go chic nice to see u
11/27/2014 6:12:42 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
calblueray Arlington, TX 59, joined Sep. 2014	Me and my cat have a great relationship. Not giving him up.
11/27/2014 6:32:11 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 46, joined Jan. 2012	OP, first things first, why would you already be LIVING with someone who has cats if you knew you had an allergy and don't really like cats in the first place? That would be like moving in with someone who has children living in the home still and you hate their kids. You knew what you were getting yourself in to.
11/27/2014 6:34:46 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
bigdinv Victoria, TX 34, joined Sep. 2011	I'm siding with the cat. Surprised?
11/27/2014 6:37:51 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
midnightangel33 Beverly Hills, CA 34, joined Nov. 2014	Keep the cat get rid of her. [Edited 11/27/2014 6:38:19 PM ]
11/27/2014 6:52:20 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	The person should do something about the cat, train him, nobody should endure that.
11/27/2014 7:03:02 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
mehbleh Glendale, AZ 99, joined Oct. 2014	What do you do? Tell my son he made his bed, he has to sleep in it, and don't come over until he washes the cat stink off him because I'm deathly allergic to the damn things too. Tell significant other to GTFO or spend a fortune on allergy shots and live amidst the destruction? Personally, I just don't date people with cats. To me cats are right up there with child molesters and abusive spouses. So I would not have begun to date her in the first place. If someone was dumb enough to date someone with a bunch of cats then he has to accept the cats because they are going to be treated pretty much the same as the person's kids. ...I think that puts me in the "tell significant other to GTFO" category.
11/27/2014 7:12:17 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 62, joined Oct. 2009 online now!	Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm outta there! Someone who's allergic to cats can't have a relationship with the crazy cat lady. And there's no way she'll get rid of the kitties. It's easier for her to dump the guy and buy another cat and hope the County doesn't come investigating.
11/27/2014 10:29:25 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Thanks for the replies from those who actually read the thread and didn't make senseless stupid posts.
11/27/2014 10:40:40 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
ronleeseberg Mauston, WI 48, joined Jan. 2012	Unwanted cats, easy solution. We USED to have a ferrel cat issue in my area. [Edited 11/27/2014 10:41:44 PM ]
11/27/2014 11:02:06 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
bigdinv Victoria, TX 34, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from carolinachic51: Thanks for the replies from those who actually read the thread and didn't make senseless stupid posts. Get a cat!
11/27/2014 11:13:43 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from bigdinv: Get a cat! I have had two cats Dallas. An ex bf who stalked me killed one of them, and the other one died of old age last year. If my current landlord would allow animals, I'd take the cats belonging to my sons gf but I can't. Anyway it's not my problem, it's theirs to work it out. I just thought the situation would make a legitimate thread topic to post for different opinions.
11/28/2014 12:54:33 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
tooflyforawhguy Oshkosh, WI 22, joined Oct. 2014	Definitely the cats....
11/28/2014 1:02:44 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
bigdinv Victoria, TX 34, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from tooflyforawhguy: Definitely the cats.... Finally!
11/28/2014 2:00:59 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
ladiebugg55 Redding, CA 79, joined Jun. 2012	Carolina..I dont Know how long you've been using the dh forums but...it's common for any op that starts a thread to be verbally assaulted, Unfortunately..that's just how it is. .your post is legit, you did nothing wrong..some people don't fully read and jump to conclusions like they did by not paying attention when you said it's your son, not you..happens all the time..
11/28/2014 3:40:12 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
latinleprekahn South San Francisco, CA 45, joined Sep. 2014	Your son knew his fiance had cats. He knows he's allergic to cats. He willingly moved in with his fiance and her cats. He not only moved in but asked her to marry him even after knowing she has cats. We all make compromises when we're in relationships but asking her to get rid of her cats whom I assume she had before he came along is wrong. Compromises are about both people being mutually satisfied. No one wins if she rehomes her cats. He has a major decision to make. Stay and take allergy shots for the rest of his life (without complaining) or move out. I wish him the best.
11/28/2014 3:47:07 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
irresistibleus Myrtle Beach, SC 20, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from xray6: Hate cats
11/28/2014 5:57:34 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
debyduh Hamburg, PA 51, joined May. 2014	Cats are not allowed on the table, ever. If you have a cat the litter box needs to be frequently cleaned. Cats don't like the smell of stale urine either. If you have more then one cat you need #of cats + 1 litter box. Probably tell them to leave.
11/28/2014 6:29:39 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
testsignup Springfield, VA 61, joined Sep. 2009 online now!	It's like anything else in a relationship. The fact that it involves pets doesn't make any difference. You either stay in the relationship and accept the consequences and the "price" so to speak, or you don't. I'm just surprised no one has pointed out any of the obvious jokes about buying one p*ssy by taking on another one.
11/28/2014 7:07:03 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
eyes4unow Pomfret, CT 45, joined Dec. 2013	Significant other is posted throughout the whole opening post. Maybe if you opened with my son and his gf ..the illiterate people wouldn't have been mislead. Maybe your story telling abilities just F***ing sux! If the cat was there first bf has to go. If the bf was there first then cat has to go. Otherwise, stop wiping your sons azz and tell him to man up. He knew before moving in a cat lived there... [Edited 11/28/2014 7:07:59 AM ]
11/28/2014 7:12:49 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
diana29615 Greenville, SC 45, joined Jan. 2014	I love cats, they taste just like chicken!
11/28/2014 7:50:46 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from eyes4unow: Significant other is posted throughout the whole opening post. Maybe if you opened with my son and his gf ..the illiterate people wouldn't have been mislead. Maybe your story telling abilities just F*ing sux! If the cat was there first bf has to go. If the bf was there first then cat has to go. Otherwise, stop wiping your sons azz and tell him to man up. He knew before moving in a cat lived there... Maybe you are just a fking biotch. Oh wait. NOT MAYBE. YOU ARE. And no my story telling ability doesn't suck. The whole thing like most threads on DH read as a probability. But no asshats like yourself make way too many assumptions that every freaking thread is about the OP! Go screw yourself!
11/28/2014 9:53:29 AM	Cats or the Relationship?
eyes4unow Pomfret, CT 45, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from carolinachic51: Maybe you are just a f**king biotch. Oh wait. NOT MAYBE. YOU ARE. And no my story telling ability doesn't suck. The whole thing like most threads on DH read as a probability. But no asshats like yourself make way too many assumptions that every freaking thread is about the OP! Go screw yourself! Luv you too buttercup!
11/28/2014 12:20:01 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 46, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from carolinachic51: Thanks for the replies from those who actually read the thread and didn't make senseless stupid posts. say what you MEAN in the original post of the thread and people wouldn't assume anything or make wrong comments. I have a life. I'm not reading through the whole effin thread. I'm responding to what you say in the first post of the thread dumba$$
11/28/2014 12:21:08 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 46, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from eyes4unow: Significant other is posted throughout the whole opening post. Maybe if you opened with my son and his gf ..the illiterate people wouldn't have been mislead. Maybe your story telling abilities just F***ing sux! If the cat was there first bf has to go. If the bf was there first then cat has to go. Otherwise, stop wiping your sons azz and tell him to man up. He knew before moving in a cat lived there... amen girl! newbies. That's what the OP is. What can you do about them? Nothing. Just sit back and laugh at their stupidity.
11/28/2014 12:50:45 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
11/28/2014 1:32:15 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Come on now!!! I admit, cats are like kids, they behave the way you raise them. I've seen unruly cats just like I've seen unruly kids. I have 2 cats and they dont use the litter box. When they wanna go out they'll call someone in the house to let them out and then back in. lol I only keep it in an emergency. Lmao Like a blizzard or no ones home and they can't hold it. lol But they dont claw furniture, shed hair or go to ppl who dont call to pamper them first. They are spoiled rotten but they are very well behaved bcuz I raised them that way. Zerbubuth is the oldest and Sarcophagus is the youngest.
11/28/2014 1:42:23 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
cosmicgem Springfield, MO 58, joined Jun. 2011	I have only One cat. Yes she sleeps in my bed sometimes. If she got on the kitchen counter etc she would be in Big Trouble. Animals are like kids in the respect that they need to be taught some behaviors are Unacceptable! It's not cute when your 100lb dog thinks you came over specifically to pet him nor that he is small enough to be a lap dog lol Animals need to be taught manners too.
11/28/2014 2:23:51 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
mr_imperfect Philadelphia, PA 52, joined Sep. 2011	Is your son's fiancee aware that he is allergic to cats? If the answer is yes then the relationship should end because she's a selfish self centered b*tch who only cares about herself and what makes her happy. If she is unaware of his allergies he must tell her so she has the chance to prove she loves him by finding another home for those cats. I love animals but if I knew the person I was planning a life with was severely allergic to them I would get rid of the animals no matter how attached to them I was.
11/28/2014 2:40:44 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
letitridegirl Covington, KY 38, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from carolinachic51: You find yourself in a relationship with someone who has an extreme attachment to their cats and you are allergic to them. You wake up in the middle of the night because one has fallen from it's perch on the headboard onto your face and your sudden reaction is to toss it at the wall. Your significant other screams at you for harming the furry beast. At dawn, significant other takes a shower so hot in the spare bathroom where the litter box is and steam vaporizes the entire house with the scent of stale cat urine. You've prepared a gourmet meal and set an elegant table only to find that the cats have climbed on the table and left pebbles of litter on the placemats. You find cat fur left behind on the sofa pillows, and claw marks on brand new furniture that is now being used as a scratching post. You have arrived home to find potted plants turned over and destroyed, dirt all over. Significant other refuses to rehome the beasts. What do you do? Tell significant other to GTFO or spend a fortune on allergy shots and live amidst the destruction? Tell the significant other to take his p*ssy cat and GTFO cause you are tired of the stank in the house.
11/28/2014 2:50:26 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from mr_imperfect: Is your son's fiancee aware that he is allergic to cats? If the answer is yes then the relationship should end because she's a selfish self centered b*tch who only cares about herself and what makes her happy. If she is unaware of his allergies he must tell her so she has the chance to prove she loves him by finding another home for those cats. I love animals but if I knew the person I was planning a life with was severely allergic to them I would get rid of the animals no matter how attached to them I was. She knows.
11/28/2014 2:52:06 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from letitridegirl: Tell the significant other to take his pssy cat and GTFO cause you are tired of the stank in the house. And another dumb a* making assumptions that I was meaning me. Wtfever! GAH!
11/28/2014 3:02:21 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 44, joined Sep. 2011	Pets and kids are something to consider when entering a relationship. Pets and/or kids can ruin a relationship. I like dogs more then i like cats. I dated a guy who had a cat and lets it on the counters and he didn't seems to mind it torn up his couches...ugh!
11/28/2014 3:57:55 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014
11/28/2014 4:35:57 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
jakebearr Simi Valley, CA 52, joined Sep. 2013	Quote from carolinachic51: ~~FOR THE LAST GODDAMN TIME!!! IT AINT ABOUT ME! CAN YOU F**KING MORONS NOT READ?~~ Really???? There are volunteers who help illiterates. Need one? .... Are you Sure...OP..... .....
11/28/2014 5:26:20 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Take your a** back to the fickled forties group where you belong Jake
11/28/2014 5:39:45 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
jakebearr Simi Valley, CA 52, joined Sep. 2013	Quote from carolinachic51: Take your a** back to the fickled forties group where you belong Jake Well that not Nice....FYI I love Little P*ssy Cats...
11/28/2014 5:40:54 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from cosmicgem: I have only One cat. Yes she sleeps in my bed sometimes. If she got on the kitchen counter etc she would be in Big Trouble. Animals are like kids in the respect that they need to be taught some behaviors are Unacceptable! It's not cute when your 100lb dog thinks you came over specifically to pet him nor that he is small enough to be a lap dog lol Animals need to be taught manners too. Exactly! My cats dont get on tables and counters. I dont allow them to be tempted by whats up there. Don't start nothing, won't be nothing. Thats my rule.
11/28/2014 5:52:22 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from mr_imperfect: Is your son's fiancee aware that he is allergic to cats? If the answer is yes then the relationship should end because she's a selfish self centered b*tch who only cares about herself and what makes her happy. Thats not fair at all. Some ppls animals are like their children to them. You might like animals but another ppls love is much stronger. Just like those women with real children and get rid of them to be with a man who dont want kids. They pawn them off on others so they can "have a life" Now if she got the cat AFTER they got together, its still hard but it makes a considerable difference.
11/28/2014 6:05:00 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
woniota Jacksonville, FL 49, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from diana29615: I love cats, they taste just like chicken! Good one.
11/28/2014 6:10:44 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
happytobeme17 Vineland, NJ 60, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from ladiebugg55: Carolina..I dont Know how long you've been using the dh forums but...it's common for any op that starts a thread to be verbally assaulted, Unfortunately..that's just how it is. .your post is legit, you did nothing wrong..some people don't fully read and jump to conclusions like they did by not paying attention when you said it's your son, not you..happens all the time.. funny she never mention it was her son in her post just saying
11/28/2014 6:26:02 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
iheartidiots Grove City, OH 37, joined Feb. 2012	Cats are the devil. I'm a dog lover.
11/28/2014 6:31:35 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
mr_imperfect Philadelphia, PA 52, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: Thats not fair at all. Some ppls animals are like their children to them. You might like animals but another ppls love is much stronger. Just like those women with real children and get rid of them to be with a man who dont want kids. They pawn them off on others so they can "have a life" Now if she got the cat AFTER they got together, its still hard but it makes a considerable difference. Yes it is fair. I do understand that some people's p etc are l Ike children to them. In that case you have no damned business dating or living with someone who you k now is highly allergic. In that case you have to choose the animals or the relarionship. If you can't choose you're selfish and self centered and want the best of both worlds.
11/28/2014 6:31:58 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
carolinachic51 Westminster, SC 51, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from happytobeme17:funny she never mention it was her son in her post just saying Not sure why you're confused. The opening post was a probable situation for the reader to picture themself in that situation and whether it's me, my son, your mom, preacher, or the fat skank geezer down the street is irrelevant! GOT IT?
11/28/2014 6:33:28 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
mr_imperfect Philadelphia, PA 52, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from iheartidiots: Cats are the devil. I'm a dog lover. Marry me lol just kidding but I agree cats are the devil
11/28/2014 6:33:29 PM	Cats or the Relationship?
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 44, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from carolinachic51: Thanks for the replies from those who actually read the thread and didn't make senseless stupid posts. Welcome to DH.

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