1/23/2015 12:15:20 PM |
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dark_gable0585
West Sacramento, CA
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What is the difference between these two....nowadays people are confusing the two.
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1/23/2015 12:16:41 PM |
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mindya
Vancouver, BC
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I don't think they are the same. Although some people can't distinguish the difference.
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1/23/2015 12:16:56 PM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
43, joined Feb. 2014
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Shaking hands is friendly
Licking their face is flirting
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1/23/2015 12:17:30 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
29, joined Sep. 2014
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They're definitely opposite from the other.
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1/23/2015 12:17:49 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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friendly is being nice and kidding around a little...flirting is well girl if u think that's funny lets go to the next level
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1/23/2015 12:18:01 PM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014
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Licking their face?!
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1/23/2015 12:18:46 PM |
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rightguyforu72
Naperville, IL
32, joined Nov. 2014
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Op do u have any kids out of wedlock?
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1/23/2015 12:19:55 PM |
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dark_gable0585
West Sacramento, CA
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Op do u have any kids out of wedlock? why don't you kiss my a** until it blows up in your face
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1/23/2015 12:20:26 PM |
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falpeter
Sao Paulo
Brazil
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They're definitely opposite from the other.
They are, and at certain point it isn't.
Who have never mistaken them?
A girl being way too friendly, but she just truly liked talking to you?
Or that extremely friendly girl, who secretly wanted to be around you?
Kind hard to tell...
But only you can tell what's going on.
Someone from outside might tell the other side, but only you knows the truth.
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1/23/2015 12:20:32 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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at the a** blow up
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1/23/2015 12:20:33 PM |
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dark_gable0585
West Sacramento, CA
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friendly is being nice and kidding around a little...flirting is well girl if u think that's funny lets go to the next level
good to see you
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1/23/2015 12:21:07 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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1/23/2015 12:22:49 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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They are, and at certain point it isn't.
Who have never mistaken them?
A girl being way too friendly, but she just truly liked talking to you?
Or that extremely friendly girl, who secretly wanted to be around you?
Kind hard to tell...
But only you can tell what's going on.
Someone from outside might tell the other side, but only you knows the truth.
There are ques being given and you missed them?
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1/23/2015 12:22:54 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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I don't really think its all that confusing..
there is a big difference in just being nice to someone and saying a few flirtatious remarks. If people look at being nice as flirting they've really let what's meant in kindness run amuck. and maybe possibly think way more of themselves then people are intending to express.
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1/23/2015 12:25:35 PM |
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falpeter
Sao Paulo
Brazil
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There are ques being given and you missed them?
We miss things daily, don't we?
She might give you several clues....but sometimes you have so much in your head, so much going on, that you simply block yourself from it....
Or even simpler, you just never thought that person could be interested in you, just because she is defenitly out of your league.
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1/23/2015 12:27:53 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
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Yeah, I used to confuse the two.
Especially waitresses or cashiers that call me honey, sweetie, or sugar.
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1/23/2015 12:29:28 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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So what make a person think someone is out of their league?
Lack of self esteem crosses my mind.
Why would you want to categorize yourself as a lesser person in the first place?
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1/23/2015 12:31:40 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
58, joined Jun. 2011
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I've had people Think I was interested just because I politely responded with a hello.
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1/23/2015 12:33:40 PM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
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So what make a person think someone is out of their league?
Lack of self esteem crosses my mind.
Why would you want to categorize yourself as a lesser person in the first place?
Out of your league can also mean they are way way below you in the lower leagues
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1/23/2015 12:34:57 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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Personally, I think people know the difference. They just fail to acknowledge it out of fear, inbarassment or disinterest. But that's just my opinion.
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1/23/2015 12:35:34 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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Haha@ cawk
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1/23/2015 12:40:04 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012
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Friendly is polite while flirty usually involves some innuendo.
Online, I think it may be more difficult to tell the difference but ---
I think a LOT of people confuse them!
My ex used to think if I spoke to another guy I must want to have sex with him. (smh)
What I do is --- wait to see if friendly gets flirty before I jump to ANY conclusions the person might be interested.
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1/23/2015 12:41:11 PM |
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walt_hallow
Lexington, KY
58, joined Nov. 2014
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According to my ex, just looking at another woman was flirting....crazy b*tch!
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1/23/2015 12:42:03 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014
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I like to assume she's flirting until I get slapped for grabbing her butt.
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1/23/2015 12:42:34 PM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Haha@ cawk
Flutters eyelashes @ hollywood
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1/23/2015 12:44:50 PM |
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falpeter
Sao Paulo
Brazil
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So what make a person think someone is out of their league?
Lack of self esteem crosses my mind.
Why would you want to categorize yourself as a lesser person in the first place?
Not low self-seem. But the idea that this person is gorgeous, blond, blue eyes, simply aamzing, and me, out of shape, no as classy as her expect it, maybe not even funny as she might think....
Several factors can be interpreted.
A tough life growing around people do that to a person too...
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1/23/2015 12:46:15 PM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
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1/23/2015 12:49:27 PM |
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dark_gable0585
West Sacramento, CA
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Personally, I think people know the difference. They just fail to acknowledge it out of fear, inbarassment or disinterest. But that's just my opinion.
also because they also that the person who was being friendly or flirting with them.....just want something for their own purpose....
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1/23/2015 12:50:22 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
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Just squeeze her butt. If she doesn't slap you, she's flirting and wants a kiss. If she slaps you just move on to the next lady. You'll be kissing a lady before you grab that eleventh butt. Simple stats and law of averages.
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1/23/2015 12:51:24 PM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
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According to my ex, just looking at another woman was flirting....crazy b*tch!
Ugggh. I had one like this. Couldn't even look in the direction of another man's house, for fear of him having a heart attack. Or beating the crap out of me. Never again.
And I don't care if my man flirts. Flirting is fun. Is he being friendly? Flirting? Add it to the list of things I don't need to give a f**k about.
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1/23/2015 12:57:58 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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Haha@ cawk
Flutters eyelashes @ hollywood
Nice mascara lol
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1/23/2015 1:00:52 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
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So what make a person think someone is out of their league?
Lack of self esteem crosses my mind.
Why would you want to categorize yourself as a lesser person in the first place?
Life is a superhighway & everybody is in a lane.
One can slip in & out of adjoining lanes, but if your clunker barely merges into the fray you surely cannot run anywhere near the far left.
Stay in your own dating lane.
Attempts to move too far up will result in being run smooth over.
Too far down will have you a beat up wreck trapped.
You're cleared to run in the middle of the pack.
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1/23/2015 1:01:35 PM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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Yes I know as I met someone who had Mellon in their middle name. Now they were out of my league. Although she said she was related to Secretary of State John Kerry in some way who was related to the Heinz family. Another out of your leaque group.
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1/23/2015 1:02:50 PM |
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whalemstrsback
Corning, CA
57, joined Oct. 2014
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my
2nd x wife...
opened
a pickup door in traffic and tried to shove me out...
we were with her mom and dad
in his truck on our way someplace...
and in town at a light
she thought i was looking at a woman!!!
i had no frickin clue what she was talking about!!!
boy did her folks chew her out!!!
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1/23/2015 1:04:46 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
47, joined Jul. 2013
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I'm a friendly flirt.
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1/23/2015 1:12:25 PM |
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whalemstrsback
Corning, CA
57, joined Oct. 2014
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if
i'm
drinking...
i'm
a
horny
flirt...
otherwise
smartass
or
happy
flirt...
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1/23/2015 1:39:49 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
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I can easily tell the difference, and a man should be able to tell the difference between me being just friendly, or when I'm flirting with him. There is a distinct line between the two.
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1/23/2015 1:42:31 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014
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True fire. If he's motoboating your lovely chest pillows it has moved beyond simple friendliness.
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1/23/2015 1:43:48 PM |
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falpeter
Sao Paulo
Brazil
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I can easily tell the difference, and a man should be able to tell the difference between me being just friendly, or when I'm flirting with him. There is a distinct line between the two.
Obviously we can tell the difference....written.
On our daily lives....that's a different thing....specially whether your looks are acceptable by society or not....and this normally happens for women, who, let's face it, normally are the ones who initiate the whole relationship.
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1/23/2015 1:53:47 PM |
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beautifulfire08
Antioch, TN
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I would never disrespect a man I was with by flirting with another man, and I expect the same courtesy in return.
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1/23/2015 1:59:59 PM |
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oppsiidazi
Orr, MN
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I recently got into an argument with someone over this issue. It was okay for him to be "flirty-friendly" but when I was being "flirty-friendly" I was doing it to upset him.
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1/23/2015 2:22:16 PM |
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e_girlfriend
Šachovskaja
Russia
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What is the difference between these two....nowadays people are confusing the two.
I'm never friendly, I flirt all the time.
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1/23/2015 2:23:32 PM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014
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Small talk is all that it was. Honest
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1/23/2015 2:28:21 PM |
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phikebishop
Oak Park, MI
42, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm never friendly, I flirt all the time.
Didn't know Russian women were like that?.......j/s....
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1/23/2015 2:31:30 PM |
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e_girlfriend
Šachovskaja
Russia
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That's because there is no one like me
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1/23/2015 2:31:46 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
30, joined Dec. 2012
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I like both
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1/23/2015 2:32:48 PM |
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phikebishop
Oak Park, MI
42, joined Apr. 2014
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That's because there is no one like me
Well OK.......::coffee ...I love Hot Russian Women....
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1/23/2015 2:33:12 PM |
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boyinneed
Miami, FL
50, joined Aug. 2011
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This is a date site...
When your friendly...It's the start of flirting...
When your flirting...It's just being friendly...
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1/23/2015 2:34:55 PM |
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e_girlfriend
Šachovskaja
Russia
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Tea
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1/23/2015 2:37:07 PM |
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phikebishop
Oak Park, MI
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Tea
Ok...Tea...
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1/23/2015 2:37:47 PM |
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rightguyforu72
Naperville, IL
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I take wat i want
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1/23/2015 2:43:09 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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I take wat i want
Don't forget to say please and thank you.
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1/23/2015 2:44:57 PM |
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themadhater
Tucson, AZ
36, joined Apr. 2013
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I don't really flirt ..at least I don't believe I do ..I'm usually just friendly to everyone ..kindness can be mistaken for flirting tho ..so I've been told
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1/23/2015 2:45:19 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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I hope for his sake she doesn't say no
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1/23/2015 2:45:38 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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The answer is different for every individual human, possibly every pairing--there's interpretation involved on both ends, so there's no way to state a rule that's going to be accurate in every circumstance.
Then, too, it's important to recognize that people flirt for many reasons other than interest in you. So often men are trying to figure out "is she flirting?" but the answer to that question doesn't reveal anything useful.
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1/23/2015 2:51:20 PM |
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hollywood_nites
Lewistown, MT
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Sometimes flirting is a form of self satisfaction.
"Yeah, I still have it" kind of thing when the other reciprocates positively.
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1/23/2015 2:53:34 PM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
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Being friendly does not have a sexual aspect. Flirting involves teasing and innuendo.
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1/23/2015 2:57:35 PM |
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themadhater
Tucson, AZ
36, joined Apr. 2013
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My ex thought I was flirting just bye talking to women and smiling ...and never once did I actually flirt ,but she was also very insecure thus it had to end
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1/23/2015 3:01:14 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014
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I never doubt that I have it. I'm the bomb, baby! I might not be every lady's cup if tea but enough of em have wanted me for me to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I'm the bomb!
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1/23/2015 3:25:25 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
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I grew up in a suburb where I knew a lot of familiar faces. Now, most of the familiar faces have moved on, and of course my town grew into a huge mass of people I have no idea who they are anymore.
But, I was raised to be friendly and polite, and to just say hello to people, or wave just to acknowledges you saw them, and without seeming to be stuck up. I don't think the world is like that anymore, as most people just don't like to be bothered with greetings anymore by friends or strangers.
When I cross paths with people and they seem friendly, I may say hello, but I really don't expect anything back anymore. And, I really don't like for people to follow a hello up with the usual boring response, "How is it going". Especially from a stranger. It seems asinine.
So, obviously, unless I get a response back from a simple "Hello", I doubt I would even attempt to flirt with a lady. But, if she responds back with a nice, Hi There", I may begin to flirt on.
But, for me, flirting always started out with a simple, "Hi There" or "Hello" just to test the waters, and I'll take it from there. I certainly wouldn't ever want to bother the ladies who seem like they don't want to be bothered- and it seems most of them don't- not by me anyway.
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