9/2/2008 5:04:51 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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missbadhabbits
Los Angeles, CA
age: 23
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i dont cheat thats why i stay single!
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9/2/2008 6:07:09 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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tarotdream
Ventura, CA
age: 53
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Cemetary
Rest Home
Kindergarten
In a coma
The Penthouse
Living with men who aren't worth it
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9/2/2008 6:16:02 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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alicekathleen
Sacramento, CA
age: 63
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What has this to do with California? I don't cheat, lie, or steal.... so what? Whoever started this has had the big hurt,
and I am sorry. There are crumbs everywhere, just as there are jewels everywhere. If you just listen, people will
tell you their intentions.
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9/2/2008 6:16:30 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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tarotdream
Ventura, CA
age: 53
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so where are the boys that dont cheat at?
Underneath cars
Fixing the train set
Cemetery
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9/2/2008 7:06:58 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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shawntheshizzy
Guerneville, CA
age: 38
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There in the county offices filling for devorces.
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9/3/2008 1:02:39 AM |
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sweet_taurus
Laytonville, CA
age: 57
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There in the county offices filling for devorces.
Filing for divorces..??? Maybe we're looking in the wrong places...
Nah...love on the rebound has proven over time to have very poor chances of working...
Kinda like taking a roast out of the oven & WAITING 20 minutes for the juices to flow...
A gal who just got her freedom papers is probably not looking for the same thing I am...divorcee's have to get stuff worked out before being ready again...
If you want a drunk, look in a bar...
If you want an intellectual, look in the library
If you want a saint, look in a convent...
Looking for women that don't cheat will involve looking deeper in the layers of society that disco & bars...
If you want a person that has the same interests, then look for people involved in the same activities...
They guy that started this thread sounded cynical, which doesn't help...
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9/3/2008 1:03:23 AM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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casoftsmiles
Modesto, CA
age: 47
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So then why are men afraid of commitment? Hey there are men and women in california lol
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9/3/2008 1:10:25 AM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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sweet_taurus
Laytonville, CA
age: 57
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So then why are men afraid of commitment?
But that blanket statement casts all men as villians (and we all know better than that)...
Yes there are lots of guys & gals around here (thank God)
Just like in real life where we interact face to face, dialog will tell you IF there is a match or not...
We've seen several people get together here (just like in real life), so optimissism will get us further than pessimism...afer all, if a person convinces themself there is NO chance to find somebody who will commit, than that mental framework will taint thier search...
It will take time...INSTANT gratification is not realistic...keep searching, and when a good person is found that IS a match, it's all the more sweeter, right..???
[Edited 9/3/2008 1:14:52 AM PST]
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9/3/2008 1:26:13 AM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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casoftsmiles
Modesto, CA
age: 47
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I realize there are men that want to commit. There are some really great guys out there. So as for me, I am not giving up or saying that all men are like that.
I could go on. I think tho I will bow out of this one gracefully. good luck.
So then why are men afraid of commitment?
But that blanket statement casts all men as villians (and we all know better than that)...
Yes there are lots of guys & gals around here (thank God)
Just like in real life where we interact face to face, dialog will tell you IF there is a match or not...
We've seen several people get together here (just like in real life), so optimissism will get us further than pessimism...afer all, if a person convinces themself there is NO chance to find somebody who will commit, than that mental framework will taint thier search...
It will take time...INSTANT gratification is not realistic...keep searching, and when a good person is found that IS a match, it's all the more sweeter, right..???
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9/3/2008 12:09:04 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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tarotdream
Ventura, CA
age: 53
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So then why are men afraid of commitment? Hey there are men and women in california lol
Maybe we've grown weary of being told we want commitment. Right now. Before we decide.
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9/6/2008 7:05:43 AM |
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nocopslady
Santa Maria, CA
age: 48
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Women that don't cheat are NOT fat and ugly. Just as the same thing can be said for men that don't cheat. I have been told that I am everything a man would want, but I have been cheated on. I was 100% loyal for 20 years and looks have nothing to do with anything. My husband girlfriend couldn't hold a candle to me, so why did he do it? Who knows, but guys are scared when they meet a woman that is good and true. They say, they want an attractive woman that will rub their feet, make them brownies and listen to how their day was. I am 47 and I think the biggest problem is not finding a woman that doesn't cheat, it's finding a man that truely appreciates her.
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9/6/2008 5:43:38 PM |
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theman1214
Modesto, CA
age: 24
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Real women who don't cheat are everywhere. You just have to get to know people before you get with them. instead of hooking up with them in a week or month or whatever.
In general, i think anyone cheats because either A they are bored or have a problem with the person they are currently with or B just don't give a crap.
I AM A NON CHEATER---how to keep a non cheater? ANSWER: REASSURANCE and respect.
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9/6/2008 9:47:03 PM |
Where are the women that really don't cheat? |
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sweet_taurus
Laytonville, CA
age: 57
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It gets down to this reality: people cheat because they're not getting what they want at home...period...!!!
It really IS that simple..
It can be a certain sex act, emotional closeness, adventure with a stranger, etc...
If both people get what they want, there is no reason to cheat, and if you ask a cheater why they did it, the answer is ALWAYS: "I wasn't getting what I want at home"...
Why is this so hard to understand..???
[Edited 9/6/2008 9:49:03 PM PST]
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9/7/2008 9:16:07 PM |
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cosmic51
Santa Maria, CA
age: 51
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I totally agree with u. Thur out my life i have never cheated....in a realationship and i'm not fat and ugly....Duh.....i honestly could not tell u all, why people cheat on each other all is i know they have a lot of excuses why....Ana coastal cali...gal...surfs up....
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9/9/2008 4:40:28 PM |
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not_looking
Sacramento, CA
age: 50
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right here
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