I know right!?!

No offense...
But you were kind of a d*ck to her.
If she was willing to see you again, and meet up, then she obviously still had a place in her heart for you.
So you should have took a long look within yourself to see how you still felt about her.
Instead of rushing to meet, and f**k her again for the sake of....nostalgia.

I too think it would have been best to have NOT slept with her again if you weren't going to reconcile. It took having sex with her again to realize you didn't want to stay with her?

Fiesty,

This is exactly what causes people to become confused.

sometimes you should perhaps think before acting.

Honestly what if you were in her shoes?

I know you want to be the good guy and all..but the actions do NOT match with this one..it's jerking around pure and simple.

feelings pfft they come they go...I don't put much stock in them.

It will hurt her more. Hurts the one more who wants the relationship.

I understand that riffle; but you can't place ALL of the blame squarely on me; after all, SHE was the one who suggested we get a hotel room!

Isn't she a little bit culpable in this too?!?

to rekindle things; I'll admit, I'm a sucker for nostalgia myself, so the thought of us re-connecting was very appealing to me.

So yesterday I drove up north; she suggested we get a hotel in the heart if Crystal City VA, I booked the Hyatt.

We had a lovely dinner at Don Pablo's. We laugh, we drank, we talked about old times, we each got a little emotional.

Went back to the hotel; made love, it all seemed great, but something was missing, and I'm just figuring it out. I don't love her anymore.

The problem is; she's been texting me throughout the day while she's at work, telling me how wonderful the night was, and how much she realizes she missed me.

I, on the other hand, am searching for the right words to tell her that for me, last night represented "closure". That although last night was special/wonderful, I don't see a future with US together.

I told her tonight that I needed to talk to her tomorrow; didn't have the heart to let her down this evening, because she's still so excited about last night.

Not looking forward to it.

How good does she suck d*ck? Does she stop when you come or get more excited and keep going?

What about morning wood? Does she like waking up with a d*ck in her, or does she "prefer to sleep"?

I've made exes fwbs in the past when the sex was good. But usually they're an ex for a reason and reconciling isn't an option.

But good sex? Always an option.

The hypocrisy in here stinks to high heaven. If the OP was a woman, the other women in this thread would totally sympathize with her. Because it is a man....he is a jerk. Give me a f**kin break...this is why I don't date.....the double standards are way too lopsided for me.

The hypocrisy in here stinks to high heaven. If the OP was a woman, the other women in this thread would totally sympathize with her. Because it is a man....he is a jerk. Give me a f**kin break...this is why I don't date.....the double standards are way too lopsided for me.

The hypocrisy in here stinks to high heaven. If the OP was a woman, the other women in this thread would totally sympathize with her. Because it is a man....he is a jerk. Give me a f**kin break...this is why I don't date.....the double standards are way too lopsided for me.

"get your freak on"

???

So unladylike!!

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I love it.