2/26/2015 7:53:56 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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I'm always saying nice romantic things to him, compliments, sweet text messages and I get2 wonder why he doesn't respond the same. Is it possible he just isnt romantic? Or more likely not really interested?
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2/26/2015 7:55:09 PM |
My B/F is not romantic |
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boombap_808
Los Angeles, CA
40, joined Jan. 2015
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F**k if i know. good luck.
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2/26/2015 7:56:08 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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Here's the deal Lucille.
He doesn't wish to put in the effort.
He still wants to put it in
just w/minimum effort.
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2/26/2015 7:58:10 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Here's the deal Lucille.
He doesn't wish to put in the effort.
He still wants to put it in
just w/minimum effort. I think you are right
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2/26/2015 7:59:13 PM |
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boombap_808
Los Angeles, CA
40, joined Jan. 2015
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hey. dassphincter blocked me!
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2/26/2015 8:00:53 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Most guys aren't into gushy, romantic stuff except doing what it takes to pleasre the girl if it can be done. It is possible he is just clueless like ol' Driver.
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2/26/2015 8:02:43 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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I don't know your situation but I think situations like this often happen simply because the people have different ideas about what constitutes "romantic"
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2/26/2015 8:05:23 PM |
My B/F is not romantic |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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Sweep you off your feet to
picking up their feet so you can sweep.
Isn't love grand?
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2/26/2015 8:05:38 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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I don't know your situation but I think situations like this often happen simply because the people have different ideas about what constitutes "romantic"
Is there a way to make him be more romantic verbally. Sexually no problem. But I guess even then he's not whispering sweet nothings. More like ...legs up...turn over.....open your mouth....
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2/26/2015 8:09:08 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
50, joined Apr. 2008
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im a romantic
between your thighs
is where it lies
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2/26/2015 8:10:29 PM |
My B/F is not romantic |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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Any schmuck can be romantic. Some better than others, but if the bum copies a hallmark card he at least is going through the motions.
Which is better than hollering for a beer from the recliner.
Thanks, love ya babe.
Move, you're blocking the picture.
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2/26/2015 8:10:41 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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im a romantic
between your thighs
is where it lies you made a rhyme.
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2/26/2015 8:11:33 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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you don't make people what you want. you choose people who are compatible
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2/26/2015 8:14:29 PM |
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audlove515
Jasper, IN
26, joined May. 2011
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That probably just means that he's not YOUR idea of romantic rather than a lack of interest on his end.
[Edited 2/26/2015 8:14:39 PM ]
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2/26/2015 8:16:55 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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In Twins, Arnold Schwarzenegger/Danny DeVito, Danny's charcter is always coming up w/lines for his girlfriend. They're all lines from pop/romantic songs. Every one of them, but still he puts forth the effort.
BTW, I only have eyes for you.
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2/26/2015 8:26:55 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
58, joined Jan. 2008
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Keep on movin.......................................RAWHIDE
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2/26/2015 8:28:08 PM |
My B/F is not romantic |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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hey. dassphincter blocked me!
"dassphincter"
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2/26/2015 8:29:50 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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I'm always saying nice romantic things to him, compliments, sweet text messages and I get2 wonder why he doesn't respond the same. Is it possible he just isnt romantic? Or more likely not really interested?
Is this the guy you shacked up with a few weeks ago for a couple of days at a cheap little motel off the interstate? Ya'll are boyfriend and girlfriend now?
[Edited 2/26/2015 8:30:10 PM ]
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2/26/2015 8:31:20 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
58, joined Jan. 2008
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"dassphincter"
Thinkin' he may be an ass
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2/26/2015 8:31:47 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Is this the guy you shacked up with a few weeks ago for a couple of days at a cheap little motel off the interstate? Ya'll are boyfriend and girlfriend now?
Uh no. You must have me confused.
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2/26/2015 8:32:27 PM |
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b2cold
Bark River, MI
22, joined Mar. 2014
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Some people are just that way.
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2/26/2015 8:33:32 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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Uh no. You must have me confused.
No. I don't think so.
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2/26/2015 8:34:10 PM |
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josfsd06
Sioux Falls, SD
56, joined Mar. 2014
online now!
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I don't know your situation but I think situations like this often happen simply because the people have different ideas about what constitutes "romantic"
Indeed! Women think of "wine and roses".
Men think "You're getting my paycheck!"
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2/26/2015 8:34:55 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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*yawn*
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2/26/2015 8:36:26 PM |
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zane097
Arvada, CO
47, joined May. 2014
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Quote from boombap_808:
hey. dassphincter blocked me!
Me too. F**k him.
:: polishes iggy trophies on his mantelpiece with a prideful smile ::
[Edited 2/26/2015 8:37:05 PM ]
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2/26/2015 8:38:05 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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Awwww, come on guys, it won't hurt you to be a little romantic now and then.
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2/26/2015 8:39:04 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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What's that one personality study that sorts people into categories like
Expresses/responds strongest to emotions
Expresses/responds strongest to verbal words
Expresses/responds strongest to physical touch
Expresses/responds strongest to material tangible things
Everyone is different.
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2/26/2015 8:40:30 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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No. I don't think so.
sshhhh stang you said you'd never tell sugar.
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2/26/2015 8:50:01 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Maybe women are just more intuned to others feelings. We go overboard on showing it.
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2/26/2015 8:53:26 PM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
40, joined May. 2014
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You got a new boyfriend already?
I hope for you it's not that loser you broke up with a month or so ago... Yikes!
Romantic is important. Good in bed does not equal romantic!!! It could be just sex! Be careful I know you have a tender heart and deserve more than just a good lay.
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2/26/2015 8:53:46 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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@ sky
There are a lot of romantic men, they just may have a different way of showing it.
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2/26/2015 9:37:27 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Indeed! someWomen think of "wine and roses".
some men think "You're getting my paycheck!"
[Edited 2/26/2015 9:37:52 PM ]
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2/26/2015 9:52:58 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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@ sky
There are a lot of romantic men, they just may have a different way of showing it.
Well maybe someday he'll show it. If not time to choose another.
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2/26/2015 10:35:46 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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Why would you want to make him into something he isn't? Wouldn't you rather he express himself naturally than just say his lines because he knows that's what you want?
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2/26/2015 10:38:32 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
47, joined Aug. 2013
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Some guys aren't the romantic types.
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2/26/2015 10:41:08 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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I don't particularly care for men to be to smushy. once and a while it's real nice but all of the time gets pucky.
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2/26/2015 10:44:35 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
51, joined Jul. 2014
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-he may not be romantic at all
-he may not be very interested
find someone else if you don't like him.
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2/26/2015 10:46:34 PM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
49, joined Jan. 2014
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Some guys just don't do GRAND sweeping romantic gestures.
Does he so things like:
Change the oil on your car without asking?
Wash your car without asking?
Is he handy around the house?
Give you money from time to time?
Offer to pay any of your bills?
Often times small overtures like the ones mentioned above gets overlooked by women; when in some cases, that's a man showing you he loves you. Those should be taken as romantic as well. Some food for thought.
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2/26/2015 10:52:14 PM |
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grouchy_muffin
Sichuan
China
43, joined Nov. 2014
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I think romance is about thoughtfulness. And that's subjective.
But I will say this: If you're not getting out of the relationship as much as you feel like you're putting into it, you might want to reassess things. There are worse things than being alone.
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2/26/2015 10:53:08 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Some guys just don't do GRAND sweeping romantic gestures.
Does he so things like:
Change the oil on your car without asking?
Wash your car without asking?
Is he handy around the house?
Give you money from time to time?
Offer to pay any of your bills?
Often times small overtures like the ones mentioned above gets overlooked by women; when in some cases, that's a man showing you he loves you. Those should be taken as romantic as well. Some food for thought. No none of those things. Even that I'd love. Any kind of attention just to show he cares would be nice.
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2/26/2015 10:57:07 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Why would you want to make him into something he isn't? Wouldn't you rather he express himself naturally than just say his lines because he knows that's what you want?
Of course I want him to be his self. Im thinking it would be nice to have a romantic man for once. Instead of me being the only one saying all the compliments.
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2/26/2015 10:58:41 PM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
49, joined Jan. 2014
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How long have you known this guy?
Are guys serious?
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2/26/2015 10:59:14 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
51, joined Mar. 2014
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Of course I want him to be his self. Im thinking it would be nice to have a romantic man for once. Instead of me being the only one saying all the compliments.
Op, ignore his tail for a while and stop complimenting him. See how he reacts. That will tell you a lot about him right there.
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2/26/2015 11:00:22 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
51, joined Jul. 2014
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That's what I'm thinking, even small, significant gestures.
If he never responds favorably to what you do, either he doesn't have much feelings or he's way different from you.
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2/26/2015 11:01:51 PM |
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wickedrider
Madison, WI
95, joined Mar. 2009
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these are the times that you must talk about poo with him... discuss textures, size, shapes, colors and so forth..... this mere action will throw him for a loop and wake him the f**k up...... or... siphon through the mere 100 million here, or billion elsewhere for a new model that will be attentive to your needs. i'm sure there are more than a few that would jump to take his place. just sayin.
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2/26/2015 11:06:02 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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You got a new boyfriend already?
I hope for you it's not that loser you broke up with a month or so ago... Yikes!
Romantic is important. Good in bed does not equal romantic!!! It could be just sex! Be careful I know you have a tender heart and deserve more than just a good lay.
No we broke up in November. Not a month ago. you are such a sweet heart.
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2/26/2015 11:06:52 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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No none of those things. Even that I'd love. Any kind of attention just to show he cares would be nice.
Do you question his feelings ?
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2/26/2015 11:07:09 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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these are the times that you must talk about poo with him... discuss textures, size, shapes, colors and so forth..... this mere action will throw him for a loop and wake him the f**k up...... or... siphon through the mere 100 million here, or billion elsewhere for a new model that will be attentive to your needs. i'm sure there are more than a few that would jump to take his place. just sayin. awwww how sweet. Thank you
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2/26/2015 11:07:28 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Do you question his feelings ?
Yes hun I am.
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2/26/2015 11:08:00 PM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Op..
If you settle for second best..
That is all you will get.
Dont complain..talk to him, and if it is not the type of relationship you desire...dont waste another minute.
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2/26/2015 11:12:27 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Op..
If you settle for second best..
That is all you will get.
Dont complain..talk to him, and if it is not the type of relationship you desire...dont waste another minute.
This luv....and if you question..?
Then it is....nothing. Merely calling it a relationship dsnt make it one...
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2/26/2015 11:19:02 PM |
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dream445
Cottonport, LA
36, joined Oct. 2014
online now!
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I'm always saying nice romantic things to him, compliments, sweet text messages and I get2 wonder why he doesn't respond the same. Is it possible he just isnt romantic? Or more likely not really interested?
You're beautiful sky...you have no time to waste on losers he's just pissing in the wind!!!
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2/26/2015 11:30:21 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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really? weren't you posting last month about that one guy who ... nvm I am sorry he is not romantic maybe you should tell him how you feel, and also what you would like more of. He can't read your mind. Best of luck :]
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2/26/2015 11:31:08 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jun. 2013
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No we broke up in November.
what about the one in dec ? and jan.....and
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2/26/2015 11:34:59 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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what about the one in dec ? and jan.....and
*Arched eyebrow*
Stand down....
That is ur warning shot over the bow....
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2/26/2015 11:42:03 PM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Quote from eyesofmedusa:*Arched eyebrow*
Stand down....
That is ur warning shot over the bow....
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2/26/2015 11:46:19 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jun. 2013
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2/26/2015 11:48:14 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Not playing...
Stand down hun...
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2/27/2015 12:00:58 AM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Quote from dream445:You're beautiful sky...you have no time to waste on losers he's just pissing in the wind!!!....Thank you hun.
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2/27/2015 12:03:10 AM |
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skywatcher58
Topeka, KS
56, joined Feb. 2014
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Quote from get2knowuwell3:what about the one in dec ? and jan.....and ....ummmmmm get2 it was the same one turkey. you know about that.
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