| 2/27/2015 7:15:35 PM |
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kz1081
Boston, MA
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Weight. I see multiple posts about women and their weight and how they will never get a man. That "Fat" chicks" on here will never find love. Women being called fat pigs,whales etc etc.. what do men consider Fat!!?
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| 2/27/2015 7:18:10 PM |
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mrxriley
Oakland, CA
24, joined Sep. 2014
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Wow, this is a very sensitive topic..
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| 2/27/2015 7:20:50 PM |
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kz1081
Boston, MA
33, joined Sep. 2013
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I know it just makes me so upset. Everyone deserves love no matter what... But I constantly see posts from men about fat women think they can find a man that wants them It just bothers me.
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| 2/27/2015 7:21:43 PM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
40, joined May. 2014
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Not too sensitive it's just another fat thread.
No wonder women are so sensitive about weight. We got A holes out there who expect teenage bodies. Doesn't understand hormones, and weight fluctuating in women.
However even here in DH you will discover that % of men is pretty small. Most aren't bad and even date heavier girls. But that 5-10% are so loud it seems like more a holes than there actually is.
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| 2/27/2015 7:22:47 PM |
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happy_geezer
Patchogue, NY
56, joined Sep. 2014
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 Is it Fat Friday already?
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| 2/27/2015 7:23:40 PM |
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jlyinc
Chaska, MN
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I'm fat and those topics don't bother me.
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| 2/27/2015 7:25:30 PM |
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dream445
Cottonport, LA
36, joined Oct. 2014
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That's where we as individual makes mistakes...why not judge a person based on how big they heart is instead of there body!!!!
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| 2/27/2015 7:25:53 PM |
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kz1081
Boston, MA
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I'm not on here a ton. Sorry guys if this is a topic that has been discussed... I just read a comment and was disgusted had to post something.
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| 2/27/2015 7:25:54 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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You women ridicule a man about his penis size.
Fat is 25 pounds above where you were at in HS.
Fat is not losing the extra weight when you have another little rugrat.
Fat is subtituting sweatpants for the cute shorts you used to wear. Especially if you're using fat to avoid sex.
Fat is when your waist is bigger than his.
Fat is Honey Boo Boo's mother.
Fat is when you need to reinforce the chairs like they did for Taft.
Fat is a coronary at 40 to prepare you for a stroke at 45.
Fat is when you know you need to lose serious weight and you blame everybody but yourself.
Fat is wondering why he left you for a younger woman half your size.
Fat is a mumu 24/7 like Mama Cass.
Fat is just ugly. See the beauty within is just bullshit.
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| 2/27/2015 7:25:57 PM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
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A lot of those men are just upset that they can't even gather the attention of women they aren't going crazy for. Having said that, there are also a lot of women who are overweight because they're lazy, not because of any other reason, and being a lazy person is something to be ashamed of. But everybody deserves some love, and everyone can get it. Listening to some idiots on the internet isn't going to change that.
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| 2/27/2015 7:26:37 PM |
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kz1081
Boston, MA
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I'm fat and those topics don't bother me.
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| 2/27/2015 7:29:50 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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It just bothers me.
GEEE a stranger
better stop and worry abotu what bothers them.
(solve that, & move on)
GEE, another stranger and but a few steps past the last one
i need to fix what bothers them
get a grip on real life
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| 2/27/2015 7:30:03 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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I'm not going to answer the question.
Because of the way you wrote the tread.
Because if I did, that's could be taken as or be...insinuating your thread has validity in that fat or large women can't get a man and that's not true.
and op...before you lay this on one gender as the culprit...I've been on forums for a while now and seen enough threads by some large women complaining they can't get someone and blaming on their weight, when it was obviously to the readers it was something else.
Your taking what a few trolls say and those who are butt hurt over something,....and trying to apply it to all men.
Which is not of a sound mind....and not fair to those men not like that...or appreciative of them.
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| 2/27/2015 7:40:21 PM |
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kz1081
Boston, MA
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As a women I know what I need to work on and I believe positive feedback is key. Just a lot of negative feed on larger women that's all. Not trying to battle about what should and shouldn't be. Just less name calling and belittling is all.
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| 2/27/2015 7:43:09 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
51, joined Dec. 2007
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Oh gee this is new... a weight thread.
Anyone they want but can't get, anyone they know their d*ck is too small to please, anyone who is smarter than them, anyone who makes more money than them... everyone else is a skinny hateful biotch for reasons (see above)
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| 2/27/2015 7:44:44 PM |
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kz1081
Boston, MA
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A lot of those men are just upset that they can't even gather the attention of women they aren't going crazy for. Having said that, there are also a lot of women who are overweight because they're lazy, not because of any other reason, and being a lazy person is something to be ashamed of. But everybody deserves some love, and everyone can get it. Listening to some idiots on the internet isn't going to change that.
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| 2/27/2015 7:45:33 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
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let me ask you a question
how you going to fix everyone person in the world?
and after you do, how you going to give them all enough time to frett over every need of every person that run across?
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| 2/27/2015 7:46:40 PM |
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jlyinc
Chaska, MN
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I just think it's easier to not worry about the men who don't want me, and focus on those who do. We will never be everyone's cup of tea.
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| 2/27/2015 7:48:47 PM |
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markjetson
Albuquerque, NM
59, joined Jan. 2013
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The odds are good, that the goods are fat.
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| 2/27/2015 8:15:49 PM |
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osoroho
Mesquite, TX
64, joined Jun. 2007
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Those picky guys need to send the ones they do not want this way I like all women it is my main weakness. 
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| 2/27/2015 8:16:08 PM |
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johneboy43
Brockton, MA
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I try to avoid getting into those posts. I don't mind a big girl just. I meet all types of women on cruises latest a 6 foot blonde in south Carolina about 180 or so
Looks good though. Hate rude men
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| 2/27/2015 8:22:54 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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anyone can find love.
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| 2/27/2015 8:46:48 PM |
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youarenotsafe
Jacksonville, FL
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If you look in the mirror and the first thing that pops in your head is how much you hate your body. That means you need to either work on your body or learn to love yourself. Once the self love is happening and the healing of old wounds begins then can fat comments come at you and they won't bother you.
I dropped a lot of weight so I'm having the weird body recognition thing happening. Where I look in the mirror and I see skinny but I still walk around and act as if I am still bigger. It's obnoxious and annoying to me.
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| 2/27/2015 9:47:26 PM |
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boombap_808
Los Angeles, CA
40, joined Jan. 2015
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Holy anecdotal, enabling, sweeping generalizations!
You are all either a bunch of d*ck riders or dumb as f**k.
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| 2/27/2015 9:51:17 PM |
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acdmv
Scarsdale, NY
47, joined Aug. 2014
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I know it just makes me so upset. Everyone deserves love no matter what... But I constantly see posts from men about fat women think they can find a man that wants them It just bothers me.
From family members: sure...
But the kind that comes from a relationship: like respect, it has to be earned...
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| 2/27/2015 9:53:20 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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Women & their
....hoo-haas.
Much better thread material.
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| 2/27/2015 9:56:35 PM |
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nycman530
New York, NY
61, joined Dec. 2010
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Weight. I see multiple posts about women and their weight and how they will never get a man. That "Fat" chicks" on here will never find love. Women being called fat pigs,whales etc etc.. what do men consider Fat!!?
I don't belittle fat women, even though they are not my preference, I prefer the women weight proportionate to height. But if it's not a thyroid problem, they need to motivate themselves, gain more will power and make a change. If they're happy the way they are, more power to them. But generally speaking, if they dropped some pounds, not only would it help their self esteem, but more importantly, it would reduce the risk of health issues. If a man is with a heavy woman, it's a red flag to say "You should lose weight". Instead, tell her "Let's go to the gym together", or "Let's go for a long distance walk."
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| 2/27/2015 10:04:44 PM |
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likescareses
Eugene, OR
45, joined Feb. 2015
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my weight is fine I'm loosening the weight that I gained
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| 2/27/2015 10:06:33 PM |
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ol39er
Cicero, IL
43, joined Jul. 2011
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I prefer to use "overweight." Too overweight for me is too overweight to get around easily.
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| 2/27/2015 10:08:29 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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You women ridicule a man about his penis size.
Fat is 25 pounds above where you were at in HS.
Fat is not losing the extra weight when you have another little rugrat.
Fat is subtituting sweatpants for the cute shorts you used to wear. Especially if you're using fat to avoid sex.
Fat is when your waist is bigger than his.
Fat is Honey Boo Boo's mother.
Fat is when you need to reinforce the chairs like they did for Taft.
Fat is a coronary at 40 to prepare you for a stroke at 45.
Fat is when you know you need to lose serious weight and you blame everybody but yourself.
Fat is wondering why he left you for a younger woman half your size.
Fat is a mumu 24/7 like Mama Cass.
Fat is just ugly. See the beauty within is just bullshit.
driver. 
Don't. okay, just stop.
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| 2/27/2015 10:15:46 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Oh gee this is new... a weight thread.
Anyone they want but can't get, anyone they know their d*ck is too small to please, anyone who is smarter than them, anyone who makes more money than them... everyone else is a skinny hateful biotch for reasons (see above)
That about sums it up..,
As Jen said...IDGAF about the ones who.dnt want me....
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| 2/27/2015 10:22:37 PM |
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maine83
Capitol Heights, MD
31, joined Dec. 2012
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To me if u r unhealthy then u r fat but if ur healthy u r consider to be thick n thick women been winning but women watch to much tv n read magazines thats tellin dem lies men like everything big tv rims bankaccount etc
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| 2/28/2015 10:46:54 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
53, joined Jan. 2014
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Weight. I see multiple posts about women and their weight and how they will never get a man. That "Fat" chicks" on here will never find love. Women being called fat pigs,whales etc etc.. what do men consider Fat!!?
If a person looks like a ball. A big person is also tall, yet has a nice appearance.
I have a few extra pounds, yet I don't consider myself fat, not yet. I am also 6 foot tall. A good friend of mine's wife is "big", and they are very happily married. Just be honest, don't say you are average when you're not. I am not an average sized man.
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| 2/28/2015 10:51:45 AM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
23, joined Jun. 2014
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What annoys me the most is fat guys who can't find their junk constantly talking junk about fat chicks.
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| 2/28/2015 10:54:13 AM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
43, joined Feb. 2014
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All I know is op is kinda hot .
Dont really know what the discussion is all about
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| 2/28/2015 10:57:14 AM |
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Alahunter70
Trussville, AL
44, joined Jan. 2015
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If you look in the mirror and the first thing that pops in your head is how much you hate your body. That means you need to either work on your body or learn to love yourself. Once the self love is happening and the healing of old wounds begins then can fat comments come at you and they won't bother you.
underrated and/or overlooked post. 
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| 2/28/2015 11:02:31 AM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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underrated and/or overlooked post.
def overlooked and worth repeating!!
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| 2/28/2015 11:16:05 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Everyone has a different definition of 'fat'. Anorexic women think that they are fat, when they are thinner than the 1960's model Twiggy'. Russian, German, and Polish, people tend to grow up around large people, and what others may consider 'fat', they would consider 'pleasingly plump'. Hispanic males also often grow up around fat women, and so often consider obese to be normal. Black men tend to like fat women, and black women often claim that they are not 'fat', but are 'curvy'. What everyone / anyone considers to be 'fat' does not matter. If you want to be with a particular person, THAT person's definition of what is 'fat' may matter, but no one else's opinion should matter much to you. What medical height to weight ratio charts consider to be 'normal' some people will consider to be 'fat', and other people will consider to be 'underweight'. In her day, Marilyn Monroe was considered to be 'the ideal body' by many...while by today's standards she is often considered to be 'fat'. Ditto for the 1960s Sophia Loren.
Like, love, and respect, yourself....whether anyone else likes, loves, or respects you...even when no one else likes, loves, or respects, you. Accept yourself as you are, whether others think you fat, thin, beautiful, ugly, or whatever. Once yo do so it will be easier to lose the fat you want to be rid of. If you hate yourself, because you do not measure up to some standard, you will tend to be depressed. If you are depressed, you will tend to 'comfort eat' a lot more 'comfort foods', and so get fatter. It will be easier to lose weight of you do not dwell on how fat you are.
There is someone out there for everyone...even for the 'fatties'. Some people like fat. Some even prefer it. Some men who will want you while you are fat will lose interest in you if you get thin. Shop around, find someone who likes you as you are, and do not worry about whether other people-whom you are not involved with-consider you to be thin enough, too fat, or whatever.
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| 2/28/2015 11:17:01 AM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
40, joined Dec. 2014
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Who cares. People like what they like. Haters gonna hate.
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| 2/28/2015 11:18:28 AM |
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luckovich
White Plains, NY
35, joined Jun. 2013
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Chubby p*ssy
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| 2/28/2015 12:41:51 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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I know it just makes me so upset. Everyone deserves love no matter what... But I constantly see posts from men about fat women think they can find a man that wants them It just bothers me.
and it should bother you. people have no excuse for being cruel but they do it anyway.
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| 2/28/2015 12:52:09 PM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
43, joined Feb. 2014
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I take issue with the "everyone deserves love " statement.
There are plenty of folks who dont deserve to breathe much less receive love
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| 2/28/2015 12:58:42 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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I take issue with the...
Everyone needs someone....crap.
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| 2/28/2015 1:04:28 PM |
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l380
Alabaster, AL
42, joined Sep. 2014
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<------fatty. dig it or don't.
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| 2/28/2015 1:04:35 PM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
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I take issue with the...
Everyone needs someone....crap.
That one is even worse
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| 2/28/2015 1:08:03 PM |
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rocket000
Suwanee, GA
56, joined Mar. 2007
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It doesn't matter "what" they think and everyone's opinion will vary.
There are certain physical traits I can't get around in a romantic partner. There is a cover for every kettle. Instead of people shaming and denigrating others, they should focus on finding "their type" and have a cup of shut up.
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| 2/28/2015 2:23:11 PM |
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damageincorp
Kitchener, ON
50, joined Jan. 2015
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Instead of people shaming and denigrating others, they should focus on finding "their type" and have a cup of shut up.
That would be a cup of "STFU!"
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| 2/28/2015 4:12:28 PM |
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hogaseman
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
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<------fatty. dig it or don't.[/quote
Reb you're just short for your weight. Women with curves. are more interesting to me. 
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| 3/2/2015 10:50:55 AM |
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voyeur22
Pawtucket, RI
44, joined Oct. 2010
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I consider a woman fat when she won't shut up about it. Enough already. No one is perfect. Sexiness and beauty can come from inside. A cute face and genuine smile is good
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| 3/2/2015 11:47:06 AM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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You women ridicule a man about his penis size.
Fat is 25 pounds above where you were at in HS.
Fat is not losing the extra weight when you have another little rugrat.
Fat is subtituting sweatpants for the cute shorts you used to wear. Especially if you're using fat to avoid sex.
Fat is when your waist is bigger than his.
Fat is Honey Boo Boo's mother.
Fat is when you need to reinforce the chairs like they did for Taft.
Fat is a coronary at 40 to prepare you for a stroke at 45.
Fat is when you know you need to lose serious weight and you blame everybody but yourself.
Fat is wondering why he left you for a younger woman half your size.
Fat is a mumu 24/7 like Mama Cass.
Fat is just ugly. See the beauty within is just bullshit.
I'm 25 pounds heavier than I was in high school 
I personally correlate 'fat' with 'unhealthy'.
And don't justify Cheetos and butter slathered everything with being a large 'healthy' person.
Healthy is passing a physical. Healthy is being able to keep up to my level of activity. Healthy is eating good foods 80% of the time in the right moderation.
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| 3/2/2015 11:48:51 AM |
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whiteboyingu
Beverly Hills, CA
42, joined Feb. 2015
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Fit is strong Dixie
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| 3/2/2015 11:57:45 AM |
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niterydah
Houston, TX
44, joined Jan. 2013
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I'm 25 pounds heavier than I was in high school
I personally correlate 'fat' with 'unhealthy'.
And don't justify Cheetos and butter slathered everything with being a large 'healthy' person.
Healthy is passing a physical. Healthy is being able to keep up to my level of activity. Healthy is eating good foods 80% of the time in the right moderation.
 
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| 3/2/2015 11:59:22 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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I know it just makes me so upset. Everyone deserves love no matter what... But I constantly see posts from men about fat women think they can find a man that wants them It just bothers me.
I agree with you OP, it just breaks my heart to see this too.
..btw, email me your tits, thanks.
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| 3/2/2015 12:10:16 PM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
41, joined Apr. 2014
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A woman that's largely over weight is what I consider fat.
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| 3/2/2015 12:14:05 PM |
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hornznhalo1
Puyallup, WA
46, joined Oct. 2013
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a few extra pounds look different on different frames and heights
A woman who is 5'4 is gonna carry an extra 25 pounds alot different than a woman who is 5'9
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| 3/2/2015 12:14:24 PM |
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reverend_chill
Boca Raton, FL
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| 3/2/2015 12:16:07 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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That is a traumatizing mental image, chill.
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| 3/2/2015 12:16:38 PM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
43, joined Feb. 2014
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The Mega M&M's aren't fattening at all.
Idk about the regular ones
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| 3/2/2015 12:19:44 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
47, joined Jun. 2014
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It doesn't matter "what" they think and everyone's opinion will vary.
There are certain physical traits I can't get around in a romantic partner. There is a cover for every kettle. Instead of people shaming and denigrating others, they should focus on finding "their type" and have a cup of shut up.
yes it does
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| 3/2/2015 12:20:33 PM |
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norwegianwood64
Huntsville, AL
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Its always the fat girls who want a bbc and 6 pk abs....go figure.
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