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skywatcher58
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So looking through profiles. I see "retired"? They are my age or a little older? Some say "self employed"? You read their bio and it says they work when they want, just enough to keep the lights on? Ladies do you pass up guys when you see these words? What are other words that are red flags for you?
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3/5/2015 12:27:55 AM |
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skywatcher58
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Oh just a side note....disability or retired from military service is not a red flag for me.
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3/5/2015 12:31:56 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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yeah I put retired which I am, but yes I'm disabled..I paid into my SSDI for 26 years...Am I not entitled to it?
Not being a smart a** just would like to hear your opinion..
sorry I didn't read your 2nd post
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tasty_taters2
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^^^
Op...just ask them when you talk to them.....
I wouldn't go by what they put in the bio
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3/5/2015 12:34:02 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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what? limp dik
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3/5/2015 12:36:42 AM |
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lilod
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So looking through profiles. I see "retired"? They are my age or a little older? Some say "self employed"? You read their bio and it says they work when they want, just enough to keep the lights on? Ladies do you pass up guys when you see these words? What are other words that are red flags for you?
The "work when they want" issue wouldn't trouble me at all, because I did that for years, and it was a wonderful way to live. I'm working more now that my kids are all grown, but there were long periods where I worked 15-25 hours/week on my own schedule and focused on living life with my family--homeschooling, writing together, driving around the country, etc. If you have the ability to support yourself and anyone else you're responsible for without letting work become your life, why wouldn't you take that opportunity?
I know for some people, material things are a higher priority, but I probably wouldn't be compatible with them.
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3/5/2015 12:36:48 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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what rock did your f*ggot a** crawl out from
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3/5/2015 12:37:44 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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I know a lot of disabled vets...so it wldnt hv been an issue..
Now eeking by ?
That cld.prove problematic
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3/5/2015 12:38:14 AM |
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lilod
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yeah I put retired which I am, but yes I'm disabled..I paid into my SSDI for 26 years...Am I not entitled to it?
Not being a smart a** just would like to hear your opinion..
sorry I didn't read your 2nd post
Just curious as to how you were paying in to SSDI before you were old enough to work legally?
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3/5/2015 12:39:15 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Tater...who are u speaking to ??
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3/5/2015 12:39:22 AM |
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skywatcher58
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yeah I put retired which I am, but yes I'm disabled..I paid into my SSDI for 26 years...Am I not entitled to it?
Not being a smart a** just would like to hear your opinion..
sorry I didn't read your 2nd post
No problem. I always ask the guy what is his disability. Its easy to see some deserve it others dont.
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3/5/2015 12:40:45 AM |
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skywatcher58
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what? limp dik
Your pics scare me
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3/5/2015 12:41:43 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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Your pics scare me
Plural? You looked at more after seeing the one here?
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3/5/2015 12:45:07 AM |
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skywatcher58
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Plural? You looked at more after seeing the one here?
It shows you others when you look at the profile. Kinda creepy. Except the normal ones.
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3/5/2015 12:45:23 AM |
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playground1
Los Angeles, CA
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retired or self employed aren't necessarily red flags
everyone's situation
is different
but if they don't seem old enough, or no visible disability, I might ask
other words that would make me think are "I work when I want"
few can actually do that unless they're living off
Someone else...but then again
It depends on each persons
Circumstance
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3/5/2015 12:45:36 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Lil...sky...u might to actually look at his pics
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3/5/2015 12:46:35 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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It shows you others when you look at the profile. Kinda creepy. Except the normal ones.
she's knows..........
she was asking why you'd bother clicking on the profile, to see more, to begin with?
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3/5/2015 12:49:24 AM |
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skywatcher58
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she's knows..........
she was asking why you'd bother clicking on the profile, to see more, to begin with?
because he said he didnt read my 2nd post so I figured he was a disabled vet. There is a picture of I think the real him in a neck brace. I wanted to thank him for his service to our country and his sacrifice. But I dont know which one is the real him.
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3/5/2015 12:50:12 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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Just curious as to how you were paying in to SSDI before you were old enough to work legally?
what is the legal age to work where your from??I had a news paper rt at 14 and started working a real pt job when I turned 15
lol.. yes that's me in the wheelchair the black guys are not me and the one Steve Buscemi is not me..
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3/5/2015 12:51:13 AM |
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lilod
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other words that would make me think are "I work when I want"
few can actually do that unless they're living off
Someone else...but then again
It depends on each persons
Circumstance
I don't think this is as rare anymore as many people (especially people our age) see to believe.
Writers, consultants, programmers, web designers, and even many professionals such as accountants and tax professionals can do all or most of their work at any hour they choose, from any location with electricity and an Internet connection.
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3/5/2015 12:51:41 AM |
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skywatcher58
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what is the legal age to work where your from??I had a news paper rt at 14 and started working a real pt job when I turned 15
I was shoveling snow and doing ironing at age 10 but that was cash money no taxes
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3/5/2015 12:54:31 AM |
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lilod
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what is the legal age to work where your from??I had a news paper rt at 14 and started working a real pt job when I turned 15
Interesting--in most states, you have to be 16 with a few exceptions for specific industries. But, I see that in Florida, you're able to work up to three hours a day for a total of no more than 15 hours per week at 14 and 15.
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3/5/2015 12:54:54 AM |
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skywatcher58
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@nkern how did you get hurt? If you dont mind answering.
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3/5/2015 12:56:10 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
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14...First tax paying job...Jesus...that was a lng time ago
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3/5/2015 12:58:47 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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I was in a car accident and ejected from my SUV.
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3/5/2015 12:58:50 AM |
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skywatcher58
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14...First tax paying job...Jesus...that was a lng time ago lol I was 15. Thought it was so cool when I got my first check. Still in School and worked as a cashier at the local grocery store.
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3/5/2015 1:00:30 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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14...First tax paying job...Jesus...that was a lng time ago I know right..I didn't pay much but still payed
me too..after my paper rt. I went to work at Giant a grocery chain in the D.C. area.. my first $100 dollar check.I thought I was rich..
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3/5/2015 1:00:55 AM |
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skywatcher58
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I was in a car accident and ejected from my SUV.
I am very sorry. I hope you are doing better. So now I know which pics are the real you. Very handsome. why the scary pics of naked on a pony and the others?
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eyesofmedusa
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I was a cashier at a dry cleaners.for the SUMMER
Next job..15. Advertsing agency...also babysat etc
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3/5/2015 1:02:07 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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I know right..I didn't pay much but still payed
Remember doing your taxes...all scared
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3/5/2015 1:03:08 AM |
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skywatcher58
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I was a cashier at a dry cleaners.for the SUMMER
Next job..15. Advertsing agency...also babysat etc
I know after babysitting you'd think I wouldnt want kids.
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3/5/2015 1:04:03 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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I remember working at a discount store as a teenager and getting paid $3.35/hour. On Sundays, we got double time, and everyone wanted to work Sunday--it was a big deal to get those hours that paid "almost $7/hour!"
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3/5/2015 1:05:29 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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I know after babysitting you'd think I wouldnt want kids.
Babysitting convinced me that I couldn't wait to have kids. I kept babysitting for my regulars well into college.
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3/5/2015 1:06:46 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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Remember doing your taxes...all scared sure do.. luckily my dad told me not to claim any depends so I always got a little bit back..
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3/5/2015 1:07:42 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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Interesting--in most states, you have to be 16 with a few exceptions for specific industries. But, I see that in Florida, you're able to work up to three hours a day for a total of no more than 15 hours per week at 14 and 15.
I worked for farmers during the summer from age 9-12, picking beans, tomatoes etc.. then corn detasseled for 2 summers...
then when I was 14, I was allowed to work 3 hours a day during the week and 5 hrs. a day on weekend days,.....but no more than 23 hours per week, at Arby's (worked the school lunch hour)
through a program at school where I also had to take a zero hour (basic economy type class)
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3/5/2015 1:10:56 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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sure do.. luckily my dad told me not to claim any depends so I always got a little bit back..
Ahhhh the refund...I miss that thing.
And babysitting was like bootcamp...but I was 13 and pulling $7-8 an hr...I was the only teenager in.my neighborhood....I learned the law of Economics...quickly
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3/5/2015 1:11:46 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Nite all
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3/5/2015 1:12:37 AM |
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skywatcher58
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The reason for this topic was because I was chatting with a guy. He said he was retired air force. He goes on to say he is disabled. He was a roofer and fell off a roof. He broke his foot. He walks just fine and works for cash under the table. Come to find out he was only in badic trsining for 2 yrs or less and was discharged for failure to comply. My feeling is if he can do mhard anual work for cash, why is he on disability? Another guy messaged me we chatted. He said he is not on disability. But chooses to work enough to keep his lights on. And his friends bring him left overs. Red flag red flag. I've dated guys on disability who were no more disabled than me. All working under the table. I asked the one guy not on disability what about retirement? His answer......"the state will take care of me".
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3/5/2015 1:12:56 AM |
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nkern55
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Yeah I remember starting at $3.75 an hour with time and a half on Sunday..
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3/5/2015 1:13:07 AM |
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skywatcher58
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Nite all Night hun. Sweet dreams
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3/5/2015 1:14:02 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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2 years basic training
that's not right
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3/5/2015 1:14:12 AM |
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skywatcher58
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Yeah I remember starting at $3.75 an hour with time and a half on Sunday..
I cant remember what I started at but no where near what I make now. And it sure as hell is not fun anymore.
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3/5/2015 1:16:23 AM |
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lilod
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The reason for this topic was because I was chatting with a guy. He said he was retired air force. He goes on to say he is disabled. He was a roofer and fell off a roof. He broke his foot. He walks just fine and works for cash under the table. Come to find out he was only in badic trsining for 2 yrs or less and was discharged for failure to comply. My feeling is if he can do mhard anual work for cash, why is he on disability? Another guy messaged me we chatted. He said he is not on disability. But chooses to work enough to keep his lights on. And his friends bring him left overs. Red flag red flag. I've dated guys on disability who were no more disabled than me. All working under the table. I asked the one guy not on disability what about retirement? His answer......"the state will take care of me".
To me this is a different issue--not about how much he works or how much money he's making but the fact that he's a scam artist.
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3/5/2015 1:16:53 AM |
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skywatcher58
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2 years basic training
that's not right Yeah we'd go places and people would shake his hand thanking him for his service. He wore an air force cap. I broke it off. He's a fraud. My dad served in Korea. In active real service and never paraded around pretending to be something he wasn't.
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3/5/2015 1:18:42 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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Yeah we'd go places and people would shake his hand thanking him for his service. He wore an air force cap. I broke it off. He's a fraud. My dad served in Korea. In active real service and never paraded around pretending to be something he wasn't.
so you were "chatting with a guy" or dating the guy?
and my grandpa was in Korea... tough old bastard, he was...
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3/5/2015 1:19:07 AM |
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skywatcher58
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@lil...thats my point many truly deserve to be on disabilty and so many more are bilking the system. Taking from those who deserve it. So I've learned to ask more questions upfront now.
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3/5/2015 1:21:30 AM |
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skywatcher58
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so you were "chatting with a guy" or dating the guy?
both...the one who's not on disability but just doesnt believe in working his self into an early grave (his words) only chatting, I won't meet him. Dated the air force fraud guy. Found out after a few months the truth.
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3/5/2015 1:22:46 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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I remember one day when I was 19, I got off work from welding railroad cars for 12 hours, stopped by his house (my grandpa's) because my dad was there.... sat in my grandpa's chair and dosed off..
I woke up on the floor, with the old bastard calling me a p*ssy for being tired for only working "what he called a 1/2 day"
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3/5/2015 1:28:08 AM |
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skywatcher58
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Quote from tasty_taters2:I remember one day when I was 19, I got off work from welding railroad cars for 12 hours, stopped by his house (my grandpa's) because my dad was there.... sat in my grandpa's chair and dosed off..
I woke up on the floor, with the old bastard calling me a p*ssy for being tired for only working "what he called a 1/2 day" ................... Yeah Korea as all other wars was hell. My dad told us kids some stories. He joined when he was only 17. I was terrified my boys would get drafted. I never want them to go thru what my dad did.
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3/5/2015 1:30:59 AM |
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nkern55
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Well sky I commented before reading the disabled bit in your second post..I thought I could some light on what you were ask about why some guys say retired..
And tater or whatever your name is..Why are you so butthurt?What rock did I crawl out from under??Who the fock are??You seem like fuktard an arrogant fuktard trying fix yourself up on a pedestal.Let me guess you're only here for the forums..I guarantee you wouldn't run that cawk sucker to me in person ya lil cyber gangsta
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3/5/2015 1:32:22 AM |
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playground1
Los Angeles, CA
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My first job, I was 16
I sold ho's
get your minds out
The gutter. I worked for a
company called
"Western Hose Company" I got
The job through my high schools work experience program
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3/5/2015 1:33:06 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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yeah, my dad was in for 11 or 13 years..Vietnam had ended about a year before he was old enough to join, but he was never sent anywhere
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3/5/2015 1:35:36 AM |
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skywatcher58
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Well waayyyy past my bedtime. Gnite folks. Sweet dreams
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3/5/2015 1:35:56 AM |
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skywatcher58
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@play
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3/5/2015 1:36:03 AM |
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likescareses
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it does not always have to be a physical disability there are people who have learning disabilities that can't work they can't handle it
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3/5/2015 1:37:57 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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Well sky I commented before reading the disabled bit in your second post..I thought I could some light on what you were ask about why some guys say retired..
And tater or whatever your name is..Why are you so butthurt?What rock did I crawl out from under??Who the fock are??You seem like fuktard an arrogant fuktard trying fix yourself up on a pedestal.Let me guess you're only here for the forums..I guarantee you wouldn't run that cawk sucker to me in person ya lil cyber gangsta
I responded to your picture......it's disgusting.......I've been on this site since 2008 and I've never saw your screen name until the other day..........
and don't talk tough on the internet...you look foolish
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3/5/2015 1:41:43 AM |
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skywatcher58
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@nkern love the new picture. Handsome great smile. And Tater is really a nice guy.
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3/5/2015 1:42:07 AM |
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nkern55
New Port Richey, FL
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you're entitled to you own opinion..
You look like you suck a mean dik..
Let me guess your ugly a** been single since 08..
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3/5/2015 1:45:50 AM |
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tasty_taters2
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I can't help my physical appearance (unibrow and squished together eyes) I've been single since 2007....
the difference between my ugliness and your ugliness is that my ugliness is only skin deep...
mr. internet tough guy, you seem to be the troll wearing your sister's panties too tight
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3/5/2015 1:52:35 AM |
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nkern55
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that's awfully presumptuous of you... Actually now your moms panties and they're quite comfortable.So you go on and back to sucking off your dad..It's been real..
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