| 3/23/2015 2:10:54 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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At 26 ...dating and men do not interest me..I am the place I want to be alone. Am I giving in too quick here or what? Tbh, I haven't dated a man in years.
[Edited 3/23/2015 2:11:50 PM ]
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| 3/23/2015 2:11:39 PM |
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sandycrabs
Greensboro, NC
47, joined May. 2011
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Yes, now post some boobs.
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| 3/23/2015 2:12:34 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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Yes, now post some boobs.
You can view your mamas boobs..lmao
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| 3/23/2015 2:13:24 PM |
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sandycrabs
Greensboro, NC
47, joined May. 2011
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| 3/23/2015 2:14:30 PM |
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acdmv
Scarsdale, NY
47, joined Aug. 2014
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I agree, OP...
Give peace a chance 1st....
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| 3/23/2015 2:16:20 PM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
49, joined Jun. 2014
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I'd rather have some good Crawfish Etouffee. 
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| 3/23/2015 2:17:12 PM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2014
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Old bitter spinster and not even 30.
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| 3/23/2015 2:18:36 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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I'd rather have some good Crawfish Etouffee.
Ikr...I can make some good etoufee myself.
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| 3/23/2015 2:18:42 PM |
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kamlila0
Wilmington, NC
58, joined Oct. 2014
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Take your time and find you first of all. You are still young and men will always be around when you are ready to date.
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| 3/23/2015 2:18:56 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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I think you should live your life as you choose.
personally i would enjoy having a man in my life but you should do what makes you happy.
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| 3/23/2015 2:18:56 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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Old bitter spinster and not even 30.
Not bitter just do not care
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| 3/23/2015 2:19:18 PM |
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reverend_chill
Boca Raton, FL
41, joined Jan. 2014
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So you're dating women?
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| 3/23/2015 2:19:18 PM |
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tasty_taters2
Springfield, IL
36, joined Jan. 2015
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Taco Tuesday is tomorrow OP........
come back then
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| 3/23/2015 2:19:54 PM |
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reverend_chill
Boca Raton, FL
41, joined Jan. 2014
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Taco Tuesday is tomorrow OP........
come back then
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| 3/23/2015 2:20:26 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014
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Do what is best for u, 124. It's ok to be a hermit. Some people like being alone. Some like to have lots of company. U have to decide if u want to be an introvert or an extrovert.
If u spend time alone, then u can work on yourself. There is always room for self improvement.
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| 3/23/2015 2:20:30 PM |
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plantkeeper
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011
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You like women?...
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| 3/23/2015 2:21:13 PM |
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metu
Auburndale, FL
53, joined Apr. 2007
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Old bitter spinster and not even 30.
Geez...where is she coming off as being bitter? All I see is a beautiful young lady who's comfortable with herself in this stage of life...
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| 3/23/2015 2:21:33 PM |
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tasty_taters2
Springfield, IL
36, joined Jan. 2015
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You like women?...
quote from the OP
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Are there any single studs or butches seekin friendship
cthomas124 added a status
2 days ago
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| 3/23/2015 2:22:23 PM |
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plantkeeper
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011
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Stud?....
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| 3/23/2015 2:22:44 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014
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You like women?...
I think OP just want to be a hermit for awhile. I don't think she is gay. She is probably a very independent & strong woman
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| 3/23/2015 2:23:28 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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I.like both, but I will not give a man a chance...I.am comfortable...a little too comfty
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| 3/23/2015 2:24:08 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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i
I think OP just want to be a hermit for awhile. I don't think she is gay. She is probably a very independent & strong woman
I am bi.. 
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| 3/23/2015 2:24:13 PM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2014
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I call it as I see it.
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| 3/23/2015 2:24:19 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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Hmm I feel like when you stated you won't give a man a chance you have declared that you won't even try. If you like the life you are living and happy then you wouldn't have to make such a declaration. I would say feeling dejected is normal but you are young and plenty of good guys just not Super easy to find. I think when you least expect it you might find someone just don't say you will never give a guy a chance or else it won't happen. Best of luck to you and btw i actually wasn't dating for about 2 years and got busy with my career. But then I started to get to know a guy and he was pretty awesome long distance didn't work out. But the fact it didn't work out won't cause me to reject all guys. If given a chance and the guy is worth my time I am for dating and taking things slow. Maybe you can try just dating sometimes every guy isn't the same. Sorry for the long message.
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| 3/23/2015 2:24:29 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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At 26 ...dating and men do not interest me..I am the place I want to be alone. Am I giving in too quick here or what? Tbh, I haven't dated a man in years.
you know that's "Okay" right?
you don't have to do anything you don't want to.
and if you're getting pressured by family/friends...as you're not far from where I grew up..tell them by your age they had for to six kids and two divorces by your age..you're watching and learning. 
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| 3/23/2015 2:24:49 PM |
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tasty_taters2
Springfield, IL
36, joined Jan. 2015
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She's just a dingbat, apparently 
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| 3/23/2015 2:26:22 PM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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Nothing wrong with being comfy, if you are happy without having a mate, good for you.
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| 3/23/2015 2:27:12 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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But if you don't want to give a man a chance that's fine do what you want it's called free will. But I just felt that when you created this thread you were wanting some acceptance of your feelings. If you were truly happy you wouldn't have to ask.
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| 3/23/2015 2:28:46 PM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2014
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Opie posted in another thread that she "gave up on love years ago". Sounds a bit bitter to me.
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| 3/23/2015 2:29:04 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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But if you don't want to give a man a chance that's fine do what you want it's called free will. But I just felt that when you created this thread you were wanting some acceptance of your feelings. If you were truly happy you wouldn't have to ask.
this.
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| 3/23/2015 2:31:39 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013
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I.like both, but I will not give a man a chance...I.am comfortable...a little too comfty
ok wait..do you give women a chance?
if that's the case..there's your answer.
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| 3/23/2015 2:32:04 PM |
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sherri_
Erlanger, KY
54, joined Aug. 2009
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At 26 ...dating and men do not interest me..I am the place I want to be alone. Am I giving in too quick here or what? Tbh, I haven't dated a man in years.
You might want to change your profile to reflect this.
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| 3/23/2015 2:32:10 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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I am js its not about me being happy. Its simply just trying to get advice.
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| 3/23/2015 2:32:42 PM |
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tasty_taters2
Springfield, IL
36, joined Jan. 2015
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I am js its not about me being happy. Its simply just trying to get advice.
yep..................a dingbat
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| 3/23/2015 2:33:10 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Stamford, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014
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OP, oh, ok.
There is nothing wrong with being a hermit though. You get more things done. You have more time for self improvement. Brush up on your math skills. Learn to write like a professional journalist, etc.
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| 3/23/2015 2:35:02 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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Well, your "I'm where I want to be alone" and "I will not give a man a chance" sort of contradict each other. (I take it you haven't given a woman a chance, either?)
So I'd question myself and figure out if the "where I want to be alone" is real and doesn't come as a result of justifying not having dated for several years.
Bottom line, though, is that you get to do whatever it is you want in regard to having a relationship or dating that you want to do. I just know for me, I'd want to ensure it's because of my choices and not a result of what's been happening.
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| 3/23/2015 2:37:08 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
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At 26 ...dating and men do not interest me..I am the place I want to be alone. Am I giving in too quick here or what? Tbh, I haven't dated a man in years.
If you're not into it at the moment, you aren't into it. Worst thing would be to force it. When you're in the right frame of mind about it again, THEN open yourself up to it.
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| 3/23/2015 2:38:37 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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If you're not into it at the moment, you aren't into it. Worst thing would be to force it. When you're in the right frame of mind about it again, THEN open yourself up to it.
I have dated a women again a few months ago...it doesnt phase me now with any set gender.
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| 3/23/2015 2:41:11 PM |
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tonguekiss79
Wappingers Falls, NY
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Think you just need some penis
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| 3/23/2015 2:53:09 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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Think you just need some penis
I believe I am good
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| 3/23/2015 2:54:19 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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Think you just need some penis
Oddly enough, not always the answer.
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| 3/23/2015 2:56:15 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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It's not really something you can be wrong on. If you're happy with your life as it is and you're not interested in dating then...you're happy with your life as it is and you're not interested in dating.
Why question it? Do you question all of the other changes you don't have an interest in making in your life, like whether you're wrong not to take up skydiving or become a vegetarian or move to rural Montana?
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| 3/23/2015 2:56:43 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
41, joined Dec. 2014
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And to start dating now will be a rude awakening for sure because you are set in your ways and used to doing things the way you do things.
A Man will certainly force you to change the scenery and you will not be willing to sacrifice it for a Man.
At this point, a sex-buddy may be the deal for you. That's if you have craving for sex every now and then.
I wish Women were more open and straight-forward like you, it saves a lot of time and unnecessary drama, ya know? 
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| 3/23/2015 2:57:24 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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Think you just need some penis
I believe I am good..what wrong with half you men you think about sex too much
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| 3/23/2015 2:58:49 PM |
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happy_geezer
Patchogue, NY
56, joined Sep. 2014
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Thank you for sharing. I will first need to meditate before I can answer your difficult question. 
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| 3/23/2015 3:01:05 PM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
64, joined Sep. 2011
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ok wait..do you give women a chance?
if that's the case..there's your answer.  Rose
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| 3/23/2015 3:03:18 PM |
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max811
Palmetto, FL
34, joined Aug. 2010
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If you don't want to date don't date.If you don't want to eat brussle sprots then don't. If you dont want to shave your pits then don't.If you don't want to wipe your a** then don't. Glad I could help
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| 3/23/2015 3:03:41 PM |
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gothygoogoo
Corning, CA
57, joined Feb. 2015
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Oddly enough, not always the answer.
really???
it's
not???
i'm so disillusioned now...
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| 3/23/2015 3:04:00 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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It's not really something you can be wrong on. If you're happy with your life as it is and you're not interested in dating then...you're happy with your life as it is and you're not interested in dating.
Why question it? Do you question all of the other changes you don't have an interest in making in your life, like whether you're wrong not to take up skydiving or become a vegetarian or move to rural Montana?
I'm not sure I think that's a fair comparison, though a good point overall. Only because I don't take up skydiving because it scares me. I don't question that because I know the source already. I don't move to rural Montana because there is nothing there I want. At least not at this time in my life. I don't become a vegetarian because I like meat. I have questioned that, though, and came to my decision.
My point is to figure out if it was really a choice or if it was just circumstance, if it was something bothering me about why I wasn't doing it. I'd guess that she's just wondering if she should figure that out.
lol, sorry Gothy. I know that it's a difficult truth to hear.
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| 3/23/2015 3:14:43 PM |
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gothygoogoo
Corning, CA
57, joined Feb. 2015
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thanks
for
not
telling
me
to
just
get ahold of myself...
and grow up...
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| 3/23/2015 3:43:38 PM |
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tonguekiss79
Wappingers Falls, NY
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Oddly enough, not always the answer.
It sounds very immature saying it like I said it but there's more to it.
Being intimate with someone(not necessarily sexual) can give a person hope. She says she's good but why be on a dating site and why say anything? She's obviously lost all hope in "men". Just throwing some random advice out there. Find some "penis"
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| 3/23/2015 4:10:54 PM |
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dejavugirl
Miami, FL
40, joined Feb. 2013
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You are into women we get that.
But why making a thread about rejecting men? Now you're going to get a lot of d!ck pics in your inbox...
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| 3/23/2015 4:17:59 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Big Timber, MT
23, joined Apr. 2014
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It's not really something you can be wrong on. ... or move to rural Montana?
What the hell did we do to deserve this?...
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| 3/23/2015 4:19:34 PM |
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cthomas124
Zachary, LA
26, joined Nov. 2014
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You are into women we get that.
But why making a thread about rejecting men? Now you're going to get a lot of d!ck pics in your inbox... [/quote
]
lmao...im trying man shoot
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| 3/23/2015 4:26:56 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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What the hell did we do to deserve this?...
LMAO
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| 3/23/2015 4:31:07 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Big Timber, MT
23, joined Apr. 2014
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Soul...
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| 3/23/2015 4:37:09 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
53, joined Apr. 2014
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How ya doin' sweety?
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| 3/23/2015 4:38:25 PM |
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osoroho
Mesquite, TX
64, joined Jun. 2007
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Could be a TV would work out great for you just saying.
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| 3/23/2015 4:53:43 PM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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I am bi..
Well that explains it all based on your original post...which dont know why Created.
Who really cares?
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| 3/23/2015 4:56:13 PM |
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be_great
Houston, TX
41, joined Dec. 2014
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Well, OP. My bad. I did not know you was Bi. Just thought you like being single but a Woman that sees Man as a partner for relationship.
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