| 7/6/2015 12:31:19 AM |
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fahr2005
Houston, TX
30, joined Jul. 2013
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I wish I can find that one chick that understands me...can deal with me being bipolar. I don't worry about her lying to me or talking to other dudes and eventually making that dude her bf. I wish I can get a chick who can be there for me when times got rough. Who won't put on the back burner when constantly. Oh well that chick doesn't exist and I will constantly get women who play games and lie to me and love wasting my time. And I'm gonna be lonely for the rest of my life cuz no woman in her right or wrong mind will put up with me...I'm fked as usual just like most b*tches' heads I encounter...I should stop bittchin and trying and just accept it. But I can't...
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| 7/6/2015 12:31:55 AM |
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sh0ppinprincess
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Nov. 2014
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| 7/6/2015 12:35:06 AM |
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nomorecatast
El Cajon, CA
30, joined Jul. 2014
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Houston's a rough area.
Maybe look for a small town girl?
Idk not my place. But good luck.
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| 7/6/2015 12:46:25 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Just deal with you and getting your stuff under control and the rest will come in time...
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| 7/6/2015 12:56:21 AM |
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fahr2005
Houston, TX
30, joined Jul. 2013
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I've wasted my time and now I'm wasting away...
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| 7/6/2015 12:57:42 AM |
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oooohlalala
Chicago, IL
24, joined Jan. 2008
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I wish I can find that one chick that understands me...can deal with me being bipolar. I don't worry about her lying to me or talking to other dudes and eventually making that dude her bf. I wish I can get a chick who can be there for me when times got rough. Who won't put on the back burner when constantly. Oh well that chick doesn't exist and I will constantly get women who play games and lie to me and love wasting my time. And I'm gonna be lonely for the rest of my life cuz no woman in her right or wrong mind will put up with me...I'm fked as usual just like most b*tches' heads I encounter...I should stop bittchin and trying and just accept it. But I can't...
Just a thought but maybe u look into fixing u...
If u know u r bipolar, one of my exs was diagnosed bipolar... But the time I met him I never would have known. He is & was the best friend I ever had. Never violent.
We all have lil things about ourselves that we have to b mentally strong enough to keep in check. I say that because it never goes away. You have to recognize it & control it.
You will have those girls or women who will play 'ride or die' with u. But that may just mean she is dysfunctional as well. She may b an enabler. What r u gonna do ? Go back & forth until u kill each other ?
Have you ever seen the movie Leaving Las Vegas ? It is f**ked up & sad but it may b helpful to u.
I have my issues... I'm OCD & probably ADHD a lil bit. Some other stuff I won't share but I'm strong enough to keep that shit in check. I don't show my crazy to anyone !!! The right person may b able to deal with me in full loca but I wouldn't burden anyone with that. My 2 cents...
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| 7/6/2015 1:28:38 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Bi-Polar is something you can control, to a large extent, if you stay on your meds. Practicing Yoga, and trying Hypnosis, may help, too. Once you get that under control, modify some of your sexist attitudes, and try to be more Gentlemanly, and Liberated. Focus on what you can do for your woman, to make her life better. That will help to attract, and keep, a good woman. Quit whining, and b*tching, and be more upbeat, and pleasant. It will all help you to achieve your goals.
Don't waste time wishing when you could be working on what needs to be done. If you had a broken down classic car, you wouldn't sit around wishing it would repair itself, and start winning trophies. You would: repair it, restore it to like new condition, take it to car shows, enter it in shows, and ultimately begin winning trophies. Do the same with yourself. Repair, and restore, your personality, mindset, outlook, etc. Become the man that women want to be with. It will take time, and not work so well at first, but if you keep at it you will eventually succeed....if you do not let the early failures upset you, and start you back to the b*tching / whining / angry / hateful ways you have exhibited in the past.
Your dreams can be achieved...IF you make the effort. Good luck.
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| 7/6/2015 1:29:19 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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I've wasted my time and now I'm wasting away...
It's never too late as long as you are alive.
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| 7/6/2015 1:30:28 AM |
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ol_buddy_ol_pal
Charlotte, NC
47, joined Apr. 2014
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Here's a thought, op. Start doing things that attract women.
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| 7/6/2015 1:40:57 AM |
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nuerofire78
Sunnyvale, TX
36, joined Aug. 2013
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I wish I can find that one chick that understands me...can deal with me being bipolar. I don't worry about her lying to me or talking to other dudes and eventually making that dude her bf. I wish I can get a chick who can be there for me when times got rough. Who won't put on the back burner when constantly. Oh well that chick doesn't exist and I will constantly get women who play games and lie to me and love wasting my time. And I'm gonna be lonely for the rest of my life cuz no woman in her right or wrong mind will put up with me...I'm fked as usual just like most b*tches' heads I encounter...I should stop bittchin and trying and just accept it. But I can't...
Maybe you don't have to accept. Maybe that isn't reality.I don't even know if this life is meant to be figured out. Just enjoy the present moment with each one while it lasts. Eventually as you weed thru them you may get a better understanding as to who you really want.
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| 7/6/2015 1:45:13 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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fahr
that is what they want too
in a perfect world, both would do it for one another and together
in reality, they don't want to do it for someone else
cause
that's is sumn like taking care of someone
but they want someone to do it for them
so ya have to give up their part of doing for you
and do it for them
then maybe, eventually, they will turn about fair play
"
one for all
all for one
till it cost me
"
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| 7/6/2015 3:50:25 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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I don't really know what to tell you.
Some are saying you can control it with this, that and the other.
but, I dated one who never revealed it, she was too far gone for a relation...but she didn't admit to it, so maybe she wasn't taking her meds.
the other did reveal it later and was taking all the meds...but it didn't matter, she still had those times, and knew she really couldn't handle a relation.
I've seen on T.V. where certain things worked for some....but that's T.V.
If me, I'd try everything out there.
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| 7/6/2015 3:54:25 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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Dude....I don't have bi-polar.
but I've got to the point of thinking it won't happen either.
So, what the difference?....
Other than...I can come to terms with it and still enjoy life.
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| 7/6/2015 12:40:30 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
50, joined Apr. 2008
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go to the truck stop if you want love in low places
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| 7/6/2015 1:47:31 PM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
94, joined Aug. 2014
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I've wasted my time and now I'm wasting away...
I wish you had a close friend with whom you could speak to about this... it would mean a whole lot more to you than anything we could say.
All the best...
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| 7/6/2015 1:49:05 PM |
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fahr2005
Houston, TX
30, joined Jul. 2013
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^that close one left...
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| 7/6/2015 5:54:14 PM |
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holly_z
San Antonio, TX
48, joined Jun. 2015
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Fahr, if you are Bipolar, you need to take meds for it & probably talk with some kind of counselor. Are you taking meds that could help? Don't be afraid to do so. I had a cousin who was Bipolar. I hadn't even known he was. But he was afraid to take his meds for fear of people finding out & what they would think. But only those closest to him would have had to know. It was a mistake for him not to take his meds.
If you keep feeling so distraught, please do what you can to get help.
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| 7/6/2015 5:55:21 PM |
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jester0011
Lake Waccamaw, NC
47, joined Jun. 2014
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Houston's a rough area.
Maybe look for a small town girl?
Idk not my place. But good luck.
this girl understands
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| 7/6/2015 5:58:10 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
62, joined Feb. 2013
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Fahr, be the person you want to attract. It's the only way to attract that person into your life. If you can't do that, you haven't any chance of keeping her.
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