| 9/5/2007 1:23:53 AM |
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jhudazkizz
Vallejo, CA
age: 31
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Yup.... And they keep changing there stories!!! Look at them straight in the eye cuz eyes don't lie!!!And when they do start telling you lies you'll be able to see it and feel it right awaY!
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| 9/5/2007 1:29:50 AM |
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c_hunter44
Hornbeck, LA
age: 52
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let them meet the family, that usually does the trick
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| 9/5/2007 1:51:17 AM |
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wolfnboots
Spokane, WA
age: 42
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Repochick, you are not going to know right away. However here is some advice. Look for patterns in behavior, and test everything a person does or says. If he is honest, he should not have any prohibitions about being tested. A person who gets angry or upset easy has issues and this is usually a sign that something is not right. And he should be man enough to look after your best interests at all times. But you must also always be honest too and continually looking after his best interest also. There should never be any selfish interests nor the "what about me" crap which is always the sword that destroys a relationship on both parties. Sex should be the last subject to discuss. And yes, the old adage marriage before sex still rings true as the best way and it should be about giving pleasure to the other mate and not about "how much can I get" attitude.
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| 9/5/2007 1:55:27 AM |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50 online now!
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repo ask to see more pics if there fake they will only have one or maybe two or none.
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| 9/5/2007 2:07:41 AM |
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scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 53
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sorry repo.. wished i could but it seems, i'm not a very good judge myself,, been seeing someone for awhile now.. but everytime i've a questions, dealing with our relationship she totally shuts down and gets so defensive that i have to leave. wondering what i've done,, when i look back ,pondering it all i'm amazed at what has transpired.. how do you talk to some one that won't let you say a word. i'm going through this at this very moment... and it's heart breaking...have to much more on my plate ...than to deal with herat this time.. it's totally unbeleivible...sorry wasn't much help
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| 9/5/2007 2:21:13 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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If you cant trust your insticts, then its time to step back and away from the dating scene and get to know you..and that doesnt come overnight.
There seems to be a lot of drama in your life and when you can let go of that you will make great strides.
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| 9/5/2007 4:46:19 AM |
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dreama777
Galivants Ferry, SC
age: 47
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repo, have you talked to this guy on the ph? when you do, and he is evasive, don't give you straight up answers. or takes too long to answer, be careful, he's 9 times out of10, a player. if your relationship has progressed furthur, ask him to meet your family, and you meet his, watch everyone's reactions, listen to what they say and how they act around him. have questions that he refuses to answer? sak his family members. if ther's nothing to hid, neither of them including him, should have any prbs. JMO, good luck
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| 9/5/2007 4:47:23 AM |
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dreama777
Galivants Ferry, SC
age: 47
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repo, have you talked to this guy on the ph? when you do, and he is evasive, don't give you straight up answers. or takes too long to answer, be careful, he's 9 times out of10, a player. if your relationship has progressed furthur, ask him to meet your family, and you meet his, watch everyone's reactions, listen to what they say and how they act around him. have questions that he refuses to answer? ask his family members. if ther's nothing to hid, neither of them including him, should have any prbs. JMO, good luck!!!!
sorry, i hit the wrong button, and posted 2x!!!!!!!my bad.
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| 9/5/2007 5:03:55 AM |
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percussion
Livermore, CA
age: 45
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The fact that you are asking this question gives me the intuition that you are uneasy or uncertain about a potential relationship. I would just be BOLD and ask the guy whatever it is that is troubling you. Throw him off a little... maybe he won't expect it and then you'll be able to read his character a little bit better. Then I think YOU will get that womens intuition that we know we all have! Best wishes!
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| 9/5/2007 5:12:15 AM |
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nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
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Repochick, what is the issue, is this a long-distance thing and you are contemplating buying a plane ticket, or what? You already know the answer. You really can't trust IM/photos/emails, phone calls are a lot better, but until you are f2f you really can't be sure of anything.
And really...even if you take the whole Internet thing out of it, people have a hard enough time in ongoing face-to-face relationships, trying to read each other.
Good luck.
Fritz
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| 9/5/2007 5:23:04 AM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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The truth all ways comes out in the wash......unfortunately it can't be forced. Wish I could be of more help honey.
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| 9/5/2007 5:30:31 AM |
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cholo73
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 53
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...to be blunt is to be honest, my suggestion..
...@ this stage, keep an open mind but not your legs...
...not meant to be offensive...
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| 9/5/2007 5:42:52 AM |
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midnitelady
Marion, OH
age: 35
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honey i wish i had some advice for ya...im trying to figure out the answer to that question myself....like krupa said...true colors will show and it will all come out in the wash in the end....then we'll have the answer
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| 9/5/2007 5:45:02 AM |
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gaminggirl
Spickard, MO
age: 27
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don't talk to shadows they have got to be hiding something
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| 9/5/2007 6:04:08 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50 online now!
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Instincts and gut feelings do not lead you in the wrong direction. But that thinking with the heart instead of the head will!!
I didn't know what instincts were and didn't even know I had any such thing...I was told I was when I questioned or doubted it was just my insecurities showing or I was over reacting. So for many years I didn't trust myself and always second guessed my decisions and actions.
What gawd said is right...I had to find myself, to develop and hone those feelings. I not an expert by know means but it sure keeps me from playing the fool again.
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