| 9/8/2008 8:21:19 AM |
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luluinct02
Groton, CT
age: 47
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I spent the best part of 7 weeks here chatting with a man from down south...He started the chat, by winking at me...Things were going well for awhile...He seeked me out because he travels to Ct., occa**ionally, for work....So he says...Even though he was to come here in Aug., he said that wasn't going to work out...Now all of a sudden, he's gone...Invisible...Deleted me as a friend...Gone!!! For the last couple of weeks, things haven't seemed right...He seemed a little distant...From the get go, I'd never hear from him on the weekends, and only a couple of times at nite, during those 7 weeks, during the week...An IM on Yahoo...I have wondered over the last couple of weeks, Is he married?? Is he connecting with someone else on DH?? I guess I'll never know....Why is it that some men just get off playing games?? Playing with a women's heart...Some advice, please...
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| 9/8/2008 8:25:30 AM |
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breeze341
Denver, CO
age: 41
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There was definately something going on with him. I am sorry that you put that much time into knowing him. Try to look at it this way, it is just another one that got weeded out before too much feelings got involved. Keep moving on, you will meet the right man for you and everything will just fit. Just be a little more careful next time.
[Edited 9/8/2008 8:28:03 AM]
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| 9/8/2008 8:26:49 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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I spent the best part of 7 weeks here chatting with a man from down south...He started the chat, by winking at me...Things were going well for awhile...He seeked me out because he travels to Ct., occa**ionally, for work....So he says...Even though he was to come here in Aug., he said that wasn't going to work out...Now all of a sudden, he's gone...Invisible...Deleted me as a friend...Gone!!! For the last couple of weeks, things haven't seemed right...He seemed a little distant...From the get go, I'd never hear from him on the weekends, and only a couple of times at nite, during those 7 weeks, during the week...An IM on Yahoo...I have wondered over the last couple of weeks, Is he married?? Is he connecting with someone else on DH?? I guess I'll never know....Why is it that some men just get off playing games?? Playing with a women's heart...Some advice, please...
What is wrong with you?
Why do you get feelings for someone you have never met in person?
So what if stopped talking to you.. he doesn't owe you anything.. you need to grow up emotionally and develop a backbone.
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| 9/8/2008 8:27:27 AM |
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luluinct02
Groton, CT
age: 47
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yes, I know he dosen't owe me anything and we never met....But that still dosen't make it right...
[Edited 9/8/2008 8:30:55 AM]
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| 9/8/2008 8:34:31 AM |
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babydoll376
Whitwell, TN
age: 44
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evileddy,you live up to your name! 
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| 9/8/2008 8:50:18 AM |
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zalacea
Stoughton, MA
age: 42
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Evil I love your posts usually but I have to disagree with you here.
Yes he does owe her something. He initiated a conversation with this lady. It lasted 7 weeks. Regardless of feelings involved, I believe he owed her the courtesy of an explanation as to why he stopped communication. I believe everybody deserves to be treated with respect and he did not respect this lady.
I'm sorry you had this experience OP but it does happen a lot unfortunately. And I guess we'll never understand the thrills people get out of doing this to others. BTW I've heard women do it also, so it's not just the men are playing games.
Good luck.
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| 9/8/2008 8:52:08 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Evil I love your posts usually but I have to disagree with you here.
Yes he does owe her something. He initiated a conversation with this lady. It lasted 7 weeks. Regardless of feelings involved, I believe he owed her the courtesy of an explanation as to why he stopped communication. I believe everybody deserves to be treated with respect and he did not respect this lady.
I'm sorry you had this experience OP but it does happen a lot unfortunately. And I guess we'll never understand the thrills people get out of doing this to others. BTW I've heard women do it also, so it's not just the men are playing games.
Good luck.
This is internet dating.. you don't have to tell anybody anything about why you stopped talking.. 90% of the time it would be something that she'd rather have not known that would drive her to a second tub of ice cream:
"I found someone better looking"
"You bored me"
"I was just looking for sex and lying"
Would that make you feel better than just someone gradually fading away?
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| 9/8/2008 8:56:14 AM |
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anie80918
Alexandria, LA
age: 49
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I went through a situation also..He never called on the weekends...would always call during the weekday and evenings...I even spoke to his daughter, saw her on webcam.
He was going to fly me to his location..Then I never heard from him on weekends, he always had a lame excuse..no cell service, had forgot his cell at work,blah blah blah...
After a month of the BS I told him to have a good life....
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| 9/8/2008 8:57:05 AM |
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angelips
Villas, NJ
age: 32
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i would appreciate the truth then not know even of the truth was bad
[Edited 9/8/2008 8:57:16 AM]
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| 9/8/2008 8:57:18 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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I went through a situation also..He never called on the weekends...would always call during the weekday and evenings...I even spoke to his daughter, saw her on webcam.
He was going to fly me to his location..Then I never heard from him on weekends, he always had a lame excuse..no cell service, had forgot his cell at work,blah blah blah...
After a month of the BS I told him to have a good life....
Awesome! 
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| 9/8/2008 9:03:37 AM |
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breeze341
Denver, CO
age: 41
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hello evileddy
It is the internet world and really the distance does play a big part in it. Very few have met someone and have moved to spend their lives together but there really does have to be a reality check on it you will ever meet the person or not and because of the distance thing it does make it easier to keep looking for the so called bigger and better.
My advise...try to find someone closer to home.
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| 9/8/2008 9:29:52 AM |
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zalacea
Stoughton, MA
age: 42
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Evil I love your posts usually but I have to disagree with you here.
Yes he does owe her something. He initiated a conversation with this lady. It lasted 7 weeks. Regardless of feelings involved, I believe he owed her the courtesy of an explanation as to why he stopped communication. I believe everybody deserves to be treated with respect and he did not respect this lady.
I'm sorry you had this experience OP but it does happen a lot unfortunately. And I guess we'll never understand the thrills people get out of doing this to others. BTW I've heard women do it also, so it's not just the men are playing games.
Good luck.
This is internet dating.. you don't have to tell anybody anything about why you stopped talking.. 90% of the time it would be something that she'd rather have not known that would drive her to a second tub of ice cream:
"I found someone better looking"
"You bored me"
"I was just looking for sex and lying"
Would that make you feel better than just someone gradually fading away?
I think most women would rather hear the truth, we are big girls and can handle rejection. It's the being left wondering that seems to bug women. Not me personally anymore, I couldn't give a f*%&. But I do understand needing closure, that's all. 
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| 9/8/2008 10:03:06 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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I spent the best part of 7 weeks here chatting with a man from down south...He started the chat, by winking at me...Things were going well for awhile...He seeked me out because he travels to Ct., occa**ionally, for work....So he says...Even though he was to come here in Aug., he said that wasn't going to work out...Now all of a sudden, he's gone...Invisible...Deleted me as a friend...Gone!!! For the last couple of weeks, things haven't seemed right...He seemed a little distant...From the get go, I'd never hear from him on the weekends, and only a couple of times at nite, during those 7 weeks, during the week...An IM on Yahoo...I have wondered over the last couple of weeks, Is he married?? Is he connecting with someone else on DH?? I guess I'll never know....Why is it that some men just get off playing games?? Playing with a women's heart...Some advice, please...
The same reason why some women get off playing games. Both genders do it. Who knows why he did this. I can sympathize with what happened to ya. Hold ya head up, heal, and move on...
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| 9/8/2008 10:10:09 AM |
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countrylady39
Durham, NC
age: 69
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i know what you mean has several expeiernces , where they flirt for weeks and then poof the re gone . just dont like to be left hanging .
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| 9/8/2008 10:12:17 AM |
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zing2008
Sacramento, CA
age: 56
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Distance and the fact you never met him are the two
things you must remember to GET OVER IT.  It was not
a real match you know nothing about him and that is
probably a good thing.
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