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9/8/2008 10:17:34 AM	A man who most recently played with my heart
eyeonheaven Azle, TX age: 56	Quote from evileddy: Quote from zalacea: Evil I love your posts usually but I have to disagree with you here. Yes he does owe her something. He initiated a conversation with this lady. It lasted 7 weeks. Regardless of feelings involved, I believe he owed her the courtesy of an explanation as to why he stopped communication. I believe everybody deserves to be treated with respect and he did not respect this lady. I'm sorry you had this experience OP but it does happen a lot unfortunately. And I guess we'll never understand the thrills people get out of doing this to others. BTW I've heard women do it also, so it's not just the men are playing games. Good luck. This is internet dating.. you don't have to tell anybody anything about why you stopped talking.. 90% of the time it would be something that she'd rather have not known that would drive her to a second tub of ice cream: "I found someone better looking" "You bored me" "I was just looking for sex and lying" Yes, I would rather hear the truth than for someone to just fade off into the sunset without a word. I think most of us are growen up enough to hear the truth. You don't tell someone you are honest if you do not have enough backbone to tell them you do not care to chat or email anymore. Gees Would that make you feel better than just someone gradually fading away?
9/8/2008 10:27:49 AM	A man who most recently played with my heart
evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 35	I like it when they just gradually fade away... because I'm never just talking to one person.. so I don't really notice.
9/8/2008 10:30:11 AM	A man who most recently played with my heart
judit0606 Big Stone Gap, VA age: 51	I agree with bestman! Just move on...this has happened so many times to almost everyone on here. NOW, it just slides right off my back. SO BE IT...you're better off finding out what kind of person he REALLY is sooner rather than later. PEACE AND GOOD LUCK!!!
9/8/2008 11:38:11 AM	A man who most recently played with my heart
itastal88 Santa Rosa, CA age: 19	Quote from angiecoleman: Quote from luluinct02: I spent the best part of 7 weeks here chatting with a man from down south...He started the chat, by winking at me...Things were going well for awhile...He seeked me out because he travels to Ct., occassionally, for work....So he says...Even though he was to come here in Aug., he said that wasn't going to work out...Now all of a sudden, he's gone...Invisible...Deleted me as a friend...Gone!!! For the last couple of weeks, things haven't seemed right...He seemed a little distant...From the get go, I'd never hear from him on the weekends, and only a couple of times at nite, during those 7 weeks, during the week...An IM on Yahoo...I have wondered over the last couple of weeks, Is he married?? Is he connecting with someone else on DH?? I guess I'll never know....Why is it that some men just get off playing games?? Playing with a women's heart...Some advice, please... go to the county records in the city he lives in and do some reserach on him. if you fail to find him in some way through real estate records, marriage records, court records.......... he never exsisted. These records are free and you should learn how to use them. They can sure save you lots of hassle Thats like stalker status. Let the guy go and move on with your life.
9/8/2008 11:58:32 AM	A man who most recently played with my heart
luluinct02 Groton, CT age: 47	yes, is not having the closure, that sucks...I am a grown-up, and I have all intentiona of moving on...God knows, he was most definitely playing games...But some of the things he said, he really did sound sincere...Yes, we're on the internet...And yes, women play games to...NOT ME THOUGH....Sometimes I think I'm to honest and sincere...How to I check him out thru the internet for FREE??
9/8/2008 12:16:21 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
chicaboom58 North Bergen, NJ age: 59	One thing I have learned is whether you meet a guy on line or in person they will always play games. Now I know I am going to get flack about that comment. Right now I am going through a horrible emotional devastation. Yours was 7 weeks, try 4 months. Dates set up not once but 3x and getting stood up. I know, who is the fool, yes I know me. Another woman would have kicked him to the curb after being stood up the first time, but I thought I saw something more, well I was fooled. The games played. The coward has the nerve to tell me now that he never lead me on. I sent him his emails and asked him to read them and to stop lying to himself. Mind you this from a 60 yr old man who still doesn't know what he wants and still playing games BIG TIME. He said he cancelled his membership on Match.com yeah right. He took my heart, chewed it up and spit it out. The best is I can never really get over him because his sons live in the same town as I do and only 20 blocks away from me. So at any given time he could very well be there visiting. When will women learn, that is a mystery to me. This internet dating gives them more capabilities to play games than any other form of meeting. No conscience, no emotions because you are only using words. There is no interaction face to face. When will we get it. They can say anything they want. Ladies we all need to stop letting them do this. You would think someone my age would know better by now, but I have always worn my heart outside. Well this time I finally listened, I have put my heart back inside, locked it up and hid the key. I will mend, I will survive. but the infamous word TRUST I don't know if I can or will again.
9/8/2008 12:16:59 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
ll53 Three Rivers, MI age: 55	Quote from judit0606: I agree with bestman! Just move on...this has happened so many times to almost everyone on here. NOW, it just slides right off my back. SO BE IT...you're better off finding out what kind of person he REALLY is sooner rather than later. PEACE AND GOOD LUCK!!! So that is why you never write me anymore..... After all those sleepless nights waiting for you to return my emails....evileddy was right about you.... Just kidding on that, but I have met many fine people online that I know I will never meet in person. The man did say it was not going to workout in August, he probably met the neighbors sister or someone closer. Life happens, do not place everything on someone you have never met....Think of it as a good thing he might have been evileddys more evil twin...
9/8/2008 12:21:29 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
bjk123 Layton, UT age: 51	Quote from evileddy: Quote from zalacea: Evil I love your posts usually but I have to disagree with you here. Yes he does owe her something. He initiated a conversation with this lady. It lasted 7 weeks. Regardless of feelings involved, I believe he owed her the courtesy of an explanation as to why he stopped communication. I believe everybody deserves to be treated with respect and he did not respect this lady. I'm sorry you had this experience OP but it does happen a lot unfortunately. And I guess we'll never understand the thrills people get out of doing this to others. BTW I've heard women do it also, so it's not just the men are playing games. Good luck. This is internet dating.. you don't have to tell anybody anything about why you stopped talking.. 90% of the time it would be something that she'd rather have not known that would drive her to a second tub of ice cream: "I found someone better looking" "You bored me" "I was just looking for sex and lying" Would that make you feel better than just someone gradually fading away? Yes, At least you would know to move on... For the OP, either he is already in a relationship or he met someone else- not available on the weekends is a big red flag. JMO [Edited 9/8/2008 12:25:10 PM]
9/8/2008 12:28:22 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
cjo22eyes Saint Charles, IL age: 24	Oh my goodness girl, I hear ya! This shit has happened to me and my girlfriends too many times to count. Men hate confrontation, so instead of standing up to the plate and actually talking to you, they choose to dissappear. I hate to say it but this probably won't be the last time this happens either. Hang in there! You are absolutly way better off. Go find someone who will have the decency to be honest to your face about everything! [Edited 9/8/2008 12:35:04 PM]
9/8/2008 12:42:34 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 35	Quote from cjo22eyes: Oh my goodness girl, I hear ya! This shit has happened to me and my girlfriends too many times to count. People hate confrontation, so instead of standing up to the plate and actually talking to you, they choose to dissappear. I hate to say it but this probably won't be the last time this happens either. Hang in there! You are absolutly way better off. Go find someone who will have the decency to be honest to your face about everything! Fixed.
9/8/2008 12:46:27 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
judit0606 Big Stone Gap, VA age: 51	Quote from ll53: Quote from judit0606: I agree with bestman! Just move on...this has happened so many times to almost everyone on here. NOW, it just slides right off my back. SO BE IT...you're better off finding out what kind of person he REALLY is sooner rather than later. PEACE AND GOOD LUCK!!! So that is why you never write me anymore..... After all those sleepless nights waiting for you to return my emails....evileddy was right about you.... Just kidding on that, but I have met many fine people online that I know I will never meet in person. The man did say it was not going to workout in August, he probably met the neighbors sister or someone closer. Life happens, do not place everything on someone you have never met....Think of it as a good thing he might have been evileddys more evil twin... That's a good one 1153!AND, evil's twin...heaven forbid!!! EVIL, you know we ALL love ya!!!
9/8/2008 12:57:33 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
bocky1019 Newark, DE age: 50	Quote from evileddy: I like it when they just gradually fade away... because I'm never just talking to one person.. so I don't really notice. This right here is the #1 reason the internet dating scene sucks.Its sooo goddam easy to have numerous "freinds" online you maybe talking to,especially if you are new to a particular site,and when someone suddenly gets your attention over someone else...you have the tendacy to forget the other person.And then its too damn easy to just not even talk to them anymore...more like the chickenshit way out of talking to someone that you no longer find as interesting as the new one.I know I have been guilty of it in the past and have been the "victum" of it also. Its easy to do if you come on a dating site and now all of a sudden you have met someone that may interest you.Then as the conversations go on,about likes and dislikes,meeting sometime,and so on,your aquiring new freinds and people your meeting.Its very very easy to get caught up in all that and just letting someone slip thru our fingers.Unfortunaly someone always gets hurt. But also,the sad fact is there are people out there,men and women,who really have no intention of meeting anyone because they are really invovled with someone or married.The players,the fakes,the trolls and just really some f**ked up people. Sorry this happened to you,its part of the internet scene,get used to it and learn from it and move on....
9/8/2008 3:50:58 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
pichick712 Brookhaven, PA age: 50	Maybe the guy could have been honest with her from the BEGINNING! Then she would not be wondering now what could have happened. I am sorry this happened to you and I wish I could say it will never happen again, but it probably will. Just learn from this and guard your feelings.
9/8/2008 4:16:43 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
kitise Greenwood, SC age: 30	he met somebody more accessible. no normal guy would talk to one female? somebody had to be hurt and its u. this will happen again and again be ready.
9/8/2008 4:59:22 PM	A man who most recently played with my heart
stevenkisswa Olympia, WA age: 52	4 Signs He's Hot for You No matter how cocky a guy seems, he'd rather have his chest waxed than risk being rejected by you. So, instead of sticking his neck out with a straightforward come-on, he might work his mojo magic in these mysterious ways... Add page to favoritesBy Gregory GildermanMore from Cosmopolitan Hot Date Denim: Your Perfect Jeans Wacky Beauty Tips That Work Decode His Body Language Hair That Gets You What You Want How To Snag A Rich Guy He Teases You Rewind to grade school. Did a dude ever kick you in the shins or tug your ponytail on the playground? Well, when a boy likes a girl, he often acts like a jerk to show her just how much. And unfortunately, some guys never outgrow those elementary antics. Meet Joel*, 22: "The first time I went out with Sara, I kept making fun of her glasses," he says. "I wasn't trying to be mean. I just wanted a reaction from her." The takeaway? If a guy dishes it, he can take it. So, give it to him. Give it to him good. He Brags About Himself If a man laundry-lists his finer points, it's usually a desperate ploy to win your favor, not a sign his ego requires its own zip code. Men are insecure and often go overboard in an attempt to seem desirable. Prime example? Tom, 28: "I met a girl at a party and immediately blurted out that I spent $4,000 on a new couch," he says. "I was nervous. I wanted her to think I was successful, but I ended up looking like a tool." Hot tip: Button up a braggart with a quick compliment such as, "Wow, you must be doing really well." With any luck, the strategic stroke will help ease him on to a more interesting topic ... like you, of course. He Asks About an Ex When a guy probes into your past, he's actually saying, "I hope I have a future with you." Allow Seth, 30, to explain: "If I can see myself getting serious with a chick, I'll question her about the last guy she dated," he says. "I want to be certain I'm not some sucker she's rebounding with." So, what to say when pressed about a former flame? Just give enough info to let him know your heart is in the clear — no boyfriend baggage here. He Turns Down a Date Ladies, you're not the only ones who play hard to get. A scheming stud may pass up a tempting proposition to seem slightly unavailable and hopefully a lot more attractive. Take it from Jake, 25: "This new girl I was seeing e-mailed me at work and asked if I was free for dinner," he says. "Even though I was dying to see her, I lied and said I had plans. I didn't want to come across as pathetic." Now that you know a reluctant Romeo's secret MO, indulge his game of cat and mouse. Coolly say something like, "Okay, maybe another time," and give him clearance to pursue you.

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