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9/10/2008 8:09:05 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


i have agoraphobia ( the fear of open/public places and large crowds ) and i only go out to work or groceries. over the last 10 years its pretty much totally desocialized me. people tell me all the time to just go out like its no big deal but it gives me panic attacks. its also kept me single for almost 11 years. does anyone know how to overcome this?

9/10/2008 8:25:33 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

phoenix63
Irvine, CA
age: 44


I was diagnosed with Agoraphobia although it was a huge misdiagnosis. Although this doctor was WAY off, he did prescribe Xanax for panic attacks and Agoraphobia. That's what he thought that I had when in fact it was just simple anxiety. You may want to mention the medication to your doctor. My understanding of Agoraphobia is something that I'm glad came as a misdiagnosis. Good luck to you. I hope you keep posting as to how everything is going for you.

9/10/2008 8:27:55 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


it sucks, man. it really does. as much as i would like to go out and meet people, i just cant get myself out witout panicing. im at a loss and have no idea what to do.

9/10/2008 8:29:18 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  
skipjoe
Tulare, SD
age: 51


There are some professionals who specialize in this, but they seem to be expensive. Perhaps a research grad. will take on your case as part of a thesis? Have you always had this condition, or is it a result of some crisis? Is there something that you would fear more -- or want to a greater extent than what you fear? Some people find that focusing on a greater fear/desire as they go out to a populated area helps. Some people find taking "baby steps" help. For example, look at pictures of groups of people, listen to recordings made by groups of people, have others help you by gradually increasing the number of people in an area. etc. There is hypnosis that helps some.

No one can ever realize the impact of others fears. Sounds like you can at least go to work. Not sure what your work is, but some people can not even stand the idea of stepping out of the area they call home.

9/10/2008 8:32:36 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


its something thats developed over the last 10 years and it only seems to get worse

9/10/2008 8:35:42 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

phoenix63
Irvine, CA
age: 44


Don- Think of it like this: If you were shit faced would you feel the same way? I would bet that you wouldn't. I'm sure that it's anxiety, and like the effects of alcohol, some medications cut the edges--making it eaiser to get out and about with no worry. That's just how I see it.

9/10/2008 8:36:30 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


thank you but, i don't drink

9/10/2008 8:37:53 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

phoenix63
Irvine, CA
age: 44


…but you do get my comparison?

9/10/2008 8:38:33 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

sapphireblue579
Jackson, MI
age: 49


I believe this fear can be overcome. I've read that you can do it in "baby steps"...as in: Going out to a place, at first, where you know there will be relatively few people...staying focused on your purpose...controlled breathing...learning not to be overcome by the strangeness of your enviroment. These are some tips and methods I have read about.

Obviously, I strongly recommend you contact a counselor to help you through this. It's really very curable. And it's having such a detrimental effect on your life right now, that you should want to work on overcoming this disorder.

Many people have dealt with panic attacks at some time in their life. It's more common than most people realize. And let me emphasize---VERY CURABLE.

Contact your city's County Health Dept. and they will find you someone to help you.

Best of Luck....and remember, you are not alone.

june

9/10/2008 8:38:47 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


yes i do

9/10/2008 8:40:25 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


ty sapphire. i tried contacting Health Canada and they didnt seem to want to help me

9/10/2008 8:40:55 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

pixie1963
Crossville, TN
age: 44


I have had panic attacks a long time ago and they did get to tthe point that I didnt want to go anywhere. I did go to therapy and was on meds and I havent had an attack in over 10 yrs there is help out there

9/10/2008 8:57:17 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

sapphireblue579
Jackson, MI
age: 49


Quote from donovaninsurrey:
ty sapphire. i tried contacting Health Canada and they didnt seem to want to help me


Shot! I didn't notice that you lived in Canada. You say they didn't SEEM to want to help you, or did they outright refuse to help you? Did you pursue this with them and ask where you could receive help?

I had worked for LifeWays in Michigan, and we took these requests seriously.

Start making some phone calls tomorrow. Someone, somewhere, will surely find you the help you need.

I don't know a thing about the Healthcare system in Canada Oh Canada, but can you seek out a private counselor?

JUST DON'T GIVE UP! BE THE SQUEAKY WHEEL.

9/10/2008 9:03:42 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

donovaninsurrey
Surrey, BC
age: 39


i was told their group wouldnt be right for me and i cant afford any real psych help. canada has a great medical system for physical problems but mental health canada lacks a bit. they didnt offer any other choices

9/11/2008 7:45:29 PM how can i overcome agoraphobia?  

wiilnotgiveup
Stuart, FL
age: 44


are you suppose to be wearing glasses ? many people develop signs of this and vertigo as they age. when you cant see you cant be in control, and when you cant be in control you lose it. start with the basics it might be right above your nose.


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