9/12/2008 1:57:09 AM |
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forever4
Victoria
Australia
age: 47 online now!
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I have to say I do base my opinone on personality as long as he does not go on about how many houses he has or how rich he is that is a complete turn off for me I really couldnt care less other than that im ok with a guy the onley thing that I do like a guy to have is a mistache or a beard
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9/12/2008 2:50:21 AM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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I do think that there has to be some type of attraction in the beginning. I have met men that are absolutely gorgeous and have a crap personality or they r controlling.....I have no interest in that.
There are many things that I look for but main thngs are.....trust, honesty and respect. If they dont have those qualities, I have no interest in taking anythng further.
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9/12/2008 6:09:56 PM |
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yeahthisisme
Clearfield, UT
age: 55
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Looks draw us in, personality keeps up there.
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9/13/2008 11:58:51 AM |
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heybrad
Battle Mountain, NV
age: 47
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No doubt your refering to men! and you are 99.999% right.!Why do we ask for pictures.? Most people can not overcome their conditioning on judging others based on there Looks. Why do women spend so much time on making themselfs look better? So they can attract us men.!And then you girls end up with the losers! Because the guy saw only your looks.How could he see anything else? After a while you do see things thru a different perspective and it becomes annoying as hell.You do see the personality and character of the woman and find all her fears,phobias,insecurities......
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9/13/2008 1:28:39 PM |
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wearp1
Steinbach, MB
age: 45
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personality is so much more than looks. Yeah looks help but thats not what you should base liking someone on. I mean com"on wtf.
Let me ask you this , if you met a guy who was very average looking but was very nice would you date him,or would you go for the guy who is better looking but not as nice.
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9/13/2008 1:35:28 PM |
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55mm
Comstock Park, MI
age: 38
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Looks are important... Just as "content of character" is important... Moral of this story, everything is important.
but not everything plays a part in deciding weather to talk to someone and enter into a relationship with them. Come on...no one really thinks about "content of character" until after the initial attraction makes them want to find out about character.
I've looked passed looks before. I try to do that on purpose because i've had a lot of "winks" and intro emails deleted because no one i sent them to gave a rip about my character.
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9/13/2008 1:52:04 PM |
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cdonn
Lafayette, LA
age: 39
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i dont mean to be crude but guys cant fake it if there is no sexual attraction
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9/13/2008 1:55:54 PM |
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clubkid66
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41
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No one wants the book if the cover is crappy. I say this knowing that I can be a victim of the same ideas. Looks get you and personality keeps you. You can like a friend not based on looks but someone that you have sex with or potential life mate, hell no. Looks fade but you should have enought time to show that "inner beauty" over time to keep what you have with that person. P.S women do it too and set the standard we all live by.
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9/13/2008 3:19:30 PM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 48
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I have become enamored by personalities more than looks. I think looks are so subjective. What one person thinks is attractive someone else could think is slutty, or plain. As far as I'm concerned, it's not a womans face that makes her beautiful, but when I find out how beautiful she is inside,.... then her face becomes the most wonderful sight for me.
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9/13/2008 3:31:15 PM |
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chellenc2008
Clayton, NC
age: 40
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"I think looks are so subjective. What one person thinks is attractive someone else could think is slutty, or plain."
I agree with that pally.
Looks do draw me in first to a point. What ultimately becomes important is what kind of person he is.
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9/13/2008 3:48:11 PM |
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luckyno7
Georgetown, FL
age: 53
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I think both are equally important....why not want an attractive man who has a great personality??? again, we all have our level of what we decide is attractive and a great personality....I try to get both not one or the other...
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9/13/2008 5:45:18 PM |
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erin300
Kingston, NY
age: 30
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We all base everything on looks to some degree, that's just human nature.U must be physicaly attracted to a person in order to even want to get to know them on a deeper level.Then of course, there has to be a good personality to back it up. I have met the most gorgeous looking men become ugly in my eyes because of their personality.
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9/13/2008 5:46:53 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Boring or ugly people whine about this.
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9/13/2008 5:49:58 PM |
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lildifferent
Sacramento, CA
age: 47
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Boring or ugly people whine about this.
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9/13/2008 5:52:12 PM |
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jaysone35
Columbus, GA
age: 26
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Men dont base everything on looks !!! I think women are horrible at it. They are freaking liers if they don't.Women always rip into men on these forems saying how bad they are or how all they want is sex. The only time a women doesn't mind if a guy looks bad is if he is loaded. I think women are full of shit when they say looks don't matter. I take care of myself and think I am average looking at best. I can admit it, I am not the best looking or richest guy in the world. I am atleast honest and accept it. I am not fake, and when I do find that women that wants to be treated right then hey , it will be awesome. To hell with it , I am virgin and will now die one. AHHHHHHHHHH
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