tat2grl
Yukon, OK
age: 30
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It depends...what do you want to do? If you want to kiss him, then kiss him. In my opinion it takes far more than a few dates to know if you are truly in "love" with someone, but we all human. I think there is nothing wrong with you fulfilling your needs with this guy as long as you are up front with him. If you are having strong urges, and you are confortable with him then act. Take it from someone who hasn't "acted" in quite some time; get it while the getting is good. Good luck!!!
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thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
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I didn't mean to start such a problem, so I won't post anymore after today. It was really nice meeting all of you that I have talked to, and I will miss it. It isn't often that I get to talk to people, I spend so much time with the kids and school, chatting on here was one of those "me time" things, and I really screwed it up.
You guys take care and good luck to you all.
You didnt start no problem..
ITs all just good fun, I wasnt offended or upset, and since it was about me then I am the only one you need to worry about being upset and I am not.. So there. 
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susie_30
Claremore, OK
age: 30
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Sass - you didn't start anything. No reason to leave. Don't take things to heart some people say on here you might have misunderstood.
if not it's only the opinion of one!!
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shawn888
Enid, OK
age: 23
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I think you should wait a while. If he cares for you then he'll have no problem waiting until you are both comfortable. If he pushes you, then you know what he's after. As far as your feelings go, if you really care for him that's great, but you need to know that he cares for you the same as you do him before you move on to a more physical relationship. There's nothing wrong with a kiss,  it's a good way of giving him some confidence that you like him, and he won't feel like things aren't going well and give up. If you can both sit down and have a good, serious conversation, talk about things and see how he feels about you. If I were in the situation, I would wait quite some time before sex due to the risks involved, physical and emotional.
My 2 cents,
Shannon
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