| 9/19/2008 3:24:34 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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Alright, I just officially read my thousandth "I'm a nice guy so why don't women want me?" thread.
Most of them assume some deficiency on the woman's part for liking bad boys or wife beaters.......>sigh<.
Being nice is a minimum.....the lowest common denominator....the absolute tiniest bit of a characteristic that you should have before you should ever even talk to a woman. Hell, if you can't swing "nice" then you shouldn't be out in public anyway.
So that's not the problem, guys, and this fantasy you've built to protect your ego needs to be traded in for some pretty basic understanding.
Bring more to the table than "nice".
If that's the only characteristic you have going for you, then go develop some more. "Nice" should be 100% of the people here. That's like saying you are a great human being because you have one head......everyone is supposed to.
Be witty or charming or intelligent or clever or confident or ANYTHING but JUST nice.
That is all.
[Edited 9/19/2008 3:28:10 PM]
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| 9/19/2008 3:26:11 PM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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Im a nice guy why don't men want me??? Am I missing something here?
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| 9/19/2008 3:28:41 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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Typo....corrected......my bad, and thanks for pointing that out.
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| 9/19/2008 3:38:25 PM |
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washingtonbound
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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I kinda like your post...I get tired of seeing all the poor me nice guy finish last threads..yes I want a nice guy..but what more is there that they can bring to the table..yes nice is awsome and wonderful..but can they be daring and full of exciment..what other things do they have to offer...
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| 9/19/2008 3:44:24 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!
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You're right Nice is a dime a dozen. But most guys wuss out. Gals aren't attracted to wussies. A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive, and insecure. You notice the examples that you mentioned in posts. A wussy isn't in control, and he doesn't make decisions and is looking for approval from others in how to act or feel.
Women feel attraction for men who demonstrate the qualities of a leader. Leaders don't post "woe is me" threads.
[Edited 9/19/2008 3:45:11 PM]
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| 9/19/2008 3:48:38 PM |
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g_d77
Watertown, NY
age: 30
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Unfortunately, there will be many, many more threads about nice guys.  Until every guy is getting laid, they'll b*tch about not getting any.
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| 9/19/2008 3:49:36 PM |
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tryagaindj68
Evansville, IN
age: 40
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You're right Nice is a dime a dozen. But most guys wuss out. Gals aren't attracted to wussies. A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive, and insecure. You notice the examples that you mentioned in posts. A wussy isn't in control, and he doesn't make decisions and is looking for approval from others in how to act or feel.
Women feel attraction for men who demonstrate the qualities of a leader. Leaders don't post "woe is me" threads.
The nice guys should make you their king - you do it with style!
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| 9/19/2008 3:58:46 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!
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The nice guys should make you their king - you do it with style!
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| 9/19/2008 4:00:04 PM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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There are lots of poor me threads. Whats up with that?
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| 9/19/2008 4:05:12 PM |
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washingtonbound
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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Boys and girls with low self esteem I think....who knows..
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| 9/19/2008 4:11:07 PM |
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bryneyes174
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
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Great post!
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| 9/19/2008 4:14:04 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 40 online now!
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Alright, I just officially read my thousandth "I'm a nice guy so why don't women want me?" thread.
Most of them assume some deficiency on the woman's part for liking bad boys or wife beaters.......>sigh<.
Being nice is a minimum.....the lowest common denominator....the absolute tiniest bit of a characteristic that you should have before you should ever even talk to a woman. Hell, if you can't swing "nice" then you shouldn't be out in public anyway.
So that's not the problem, guys, and this fantasy you've built to protect your ego needs to be traded in for some pretty basic understanding.
Bring more to the table than "nice".
If that's the only characteristic you have going for you, then go develop some more. "Nice" should be 100% of the people here. That's like saying you are a great human being because you have one head......everyone is supposed to.
Be witty or charming or intelligent or clever or confident or ANYTHING but JUST nice.
That is all.
Exactly! Are you are sure you are not a woman, cuz you are smart like one. lol
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| 9/19/2008 4:36:44 PM |
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cece123
Warren, MI
age: 48
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Oh there is a lot of nice guys out in this world..... but dang we can't be with everyone!
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| 9/19/2008 4:40:44 PM |
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schucsan
Jacksonville, AR
age: 48
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| 9/19/2008 4:54:19 PM |
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im_geminigirl
Willard, MO
age: 44
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Here's a good one for lowest common denomonator...
'I'm a nice guy...I don't believe in hitting women'
All I see is...
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