9/21/2008 4:03:34 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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theshadow_
Beaver, UT
age: 38
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I wish more women would have more of an open mind on this. JMO I think to many women have it in they'er head that i'm going to wait till somone makes a move on me. Being on the net, i wounder how many have been waiting for years for somothing that they could of taken action on for themselves, that might of made a big difference in they'er life. It's called taking a chance in life and how does any of us ever going to really know what might happen in life if we don't take chances once in a while...
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9/21/2008 4:03:55 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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phil_n_ma
Feeding Hills, MA
age: 50
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I am all for it and when I ask a guy out it is my treat. I expect the same if he asked me out, too.
well i don't know if i'd let a woman treat....lol, guess i'm still old school....wink
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9/21/2008 4:04:14 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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cheynneblue
Indianapolis, IN
age: 38
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How should I do it without coming off as sounding cheap or desperate? Any ideas?
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9/21/2008 4:04:31 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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eyeonheaven
Azle, TX
age: 56
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It may be the 20 centry and okay to ask a man out, But it is hard when you were raised in the 19th centry and taught it was not proper for a woman to ask a man out. LOL I am glad someone asked though because I have been wondering my self if it was okay?LOL I love DH if you waie long enough someone will ask what you are thinking about. LOL
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9/21/2008 4:07:15 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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andrew81
Joplin, MO
age: 27
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just ask if he wants to talk over coffee, something non confrontational!
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9/21/2008 4:07:46 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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phil_n_ma
Feeding Hills, MA
age: 50
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How should I do it without coming off as sounding cheap or desperate? Any ideas?
just be yourself, if you really want to, just ask, i for am not a man to think a woman is cheap or desperate, if she aked me, and i think most men are like that, but thats opinion.
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9/21/2008 4:07:53 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 50
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How to not sound cheap or desperate...
Let's say the guy expresses an interest in jazz and seafood You happen to know a small venue jazz club that serves a great seafoold meal in the area with a singer coming you want to see. You simply say "Hey, I was thinking about going to X club to listen to X jazz singer and they have great fish. Care to join me?"
How simple is that? Tie into an interest of the guy's.
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9/21/2008 4:09:08 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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phil_n_ma
Feeding Hills, MA
age: 50
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getting tired sorry my messages are getting sloppy..........lol, hope you understood anyways..lol
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9/21/2008 4:09:41 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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cheynneblue
Indianapolis, IN
age: 38
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Thank you eyeonheaven, I am new on the dating scene and am not sure of the rules!! Just trying to learn the new rules of engagement, so to speak!!
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9/21/2008 4:09:58 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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theshadow_
Beaver, UT
age: 38
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Cheynneblue Just be yourself. if you been chatting with him for sometime and he is an understanding person. I don't think he will have any problem in you asking him. The thing here is, you can ask alot of people what should i say. I think it should come from you...
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9/21/2008 4:10:53 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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andrew81
Joplin, MO
age: 27
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just ask if he wants to talk over coffee, something non confrontational!
This would work for me it takes the pressure off of the whole dating expectations! Make your self comfortable and do the same for him, nothing is more awkward that putting someone on the spot, after the date set something up that is a little more exciting and fun!
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9/21/2008 4:13:45 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38
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there is no problem with that. I think it would make a man feel good.
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9/21/2008 4:15:26 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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phil_n_ma
Feeding Hills, MA
age: 50
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as a matter of fact i'm not sending messages anymore........lol, they don't seem to answer back, so i'll let them start the conversation......lol
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9/21/2008 4:16:39 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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texas_okie
Englewood, KS
age: 42
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It's very ok.. in fact it's very very very ok.
Personally I would not think she just wants to bang.. or is easy.. unless of course her asking me out is throwing her soaked panties at my face and using her tongue to add her number to my black berry.
you just kill me!
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9/21/2008 4:27:03 PM |
Is it ok for a lady to ask a man out?? |
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cheynneblue
Indianapolis, IN
age: 38
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Sorry Phil not trying to ignore you....Just enjoying getting everyones input! It helps to have that fresh perspective of men and women who have been back in the "game" longer than myself!
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