| 9/21/2008 7:43:00 PM |
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luvisyou08
Pleasantville, NJ
age: 26 online now!
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Ok,here's my dilema.ive been through a hard 08.My ex left me high and dry with bills,babies,and a broken heart/not to mention a puzzled look on my face.He totaly violated my trust and did what i call a 360. Anyway, i met a seemingly great guy on here and i really like talking with him on the phone.actually i luv it!He calls me and we laugh and talk. Ive checked out his profile and it speaks of only meeting friends.my question is do i go by his actions ,because hes showing genuine interest,or do i go by the profile?Should i assume he is now looking for more or just enjoy the friendship?/I think its too soon to tell.and anyway my heart is still healing,but he is helping it mend.Maybe i should just live it out and stop worrying about the whole thing.
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| 9/21/2008 7:48:44 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
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both!
enjoy the friendship and if anything comes of it,only time will tell.
he may have 'friends' if he isnt interested in casually dating.
the best and longest lasting relationships start out as friends.go with it and don't read too much into anything else.
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| 9/21/2008 7:48:49 PM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 86
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I have to ask, does he post in the forums?
Will he see your post, and wonder about his public
attention, that your post will reveal?
If I were to find a relationship on DH..I would
not tell the DH gallery at this point in the
fragile beginning...
To each his own...good luck!
Happiness is waiting, I hope for you...
Winesong
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| 9/21/2008 7:49:03 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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he wants to give u another bay,
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| 9/21/2008 7:51:14 PM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60 online now!
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Did he propose, ask for exclusivity or put a ring on your finger? If you answered "no", then he is a free spirit and you are 2500 steps ahead of him. Slow down or you will scare the poor man to death! I once had a friend who said "he doesn't know it yet, but he is going to marry me" after she had one date with a guy. Needless to say, that was her only date with every guy!
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| 9/21/2008 7:56:52 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61
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You have too much to carry into a new relationship---Sure--you are fun and nice to talk to---but he has to be ready to understand that YOU come with a child and the shambles from your last relationship. YOU are a package deal----he cannot just have you. You just are not available as a single unit. He can be fun--he can be a nice occasional lunch or dinner date--but unless he wants everything in your life--he needs to be made aware of it. Life changes when you take it to the level of having a child--extra bills and responsibilities--hard demands on your time. Relax--you are one of millions in this condition. It is best to accept what you have--prioritize your life--and enjoy your child--enjoy each day. Hope you find a man who will step up and embrace your life--but until then--take care of yourself and your child. It does not have to be bad--from this day on--YOU can make it better--one day at a time.
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| 9/21/2008 11:22:04 PM |
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sunfreak
Harwich, MA
age: 37
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your going to have to meet him and go from there
and run a criminal check. intelius.com
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| 9/21/2008 11:38:51 PM |
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shegotit
Houston, TX
age: 25
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I met someone on this site too....I have been in the same position as you  ...married, divorced,a single mother,he became a deadbeat dad, the works. Needless to say I started over, and after a year and a half I still doubt what men say. Thats natural after you have been hurt, but keep in mind he is not your EX......if he shows signs of shady behavior, break out fast. Other than that let it play out....until you allow yourself to be vulnerable enough to trust another man after your EX.....you can not really say you are ready to date again  . What is a relationship without trust? So what..... he maybe a liar or he maybe your soulmate  .....either way no one can ever hurt you as bad as your EX  ..... because lets be truthful....life lessons only make you stonger . Good luck 
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| 9/22/2008 1:40:31 AM |
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froggienm1
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
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my best advice is to take your time. If you are just short out of a bad relationship like you mentioned, then take time to heal up from that break up instead of jumping back into another one.
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| 9/22/2008 6:40:25 AM |
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mossearthstone
Monroe, MI
age: 44
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At this point in my life I thought I knew it all and would be to
wise to be taken again, I was so wrong, no matter how old you are
or how much you think you know, there is someone that will pull the
wool over your eye's and leave you hanging.
One can never be to sure.
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| 9/22/2008 6:42:44 AM |
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sheera00
Crestline, KS
age: 24
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I just sent my brother to jail for stealing one of my cars and on top of it my boyfriend of 7yrs with a 1.5 break father of my kids took off last night cause I called the cops on my bro/ which is his drinking buddy.so I know what you mean
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| 9/22/2008 6:52:19 AM |
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mossearthstone
Monroe, MI
age: 44
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I just sent my brother to jail for stealing one of my cars and on top of it my boyfriend of 7yrs with a 1.5 break father of my kids took off last night cause I called the cops on my bro/ which is his drinking buddy.so I know what you mean
Dear luv,
There is a song around 1968 by percy sledge called [ Son get to know her]
I'ts about a mother warning her son about jumping into a relationship to soon.
Hope it help's, good luck.
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| 9/22/2008 8:14:39 AM |
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luvisyou08
Pleasantville, NJ
age: 26 online now!
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thank you so much for your thoughtful and inspiring words.i will definitely just let it play out.
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| 9/24/2008 7:54:18 PM |
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sw1981
Philadelphia, PA
age: 27
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Ok,here's my dilema.ive been through a hard 08.My ex left me high and dry with bills,babies,and a broken heart/not to mention a puzzled look on my face.He totaly violated my trust and did what i call a 360. Anyway, i met a seemingly great guy on here and i really like talking with him on the phone.actually i luv it!He calls me and we laugh and talk. Ive checked out his profile and it speaks of only meeting friends.my question is do i go by his actions ,because hes showing genuine interest,or do i go by the profile?Should i assume he is now looking for more or just enjoy the friendship?/I think its too soon to tell.and anyway my heart is still healing,but he is helping it mend.Maybe i should just live it out and stop worrying about the whole thing.
Just that damn fast you've met someone? You've been here less than 30 days and already you've got someone's interest? You females are on the gravy train when it comes to meeting new people.
How superficial are you?
[Edited 9/24/2008 7:54:57 PM]
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| 9/24/2008 8:15:15 PM |
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goddess4no1
Belleville, NJ
age: 41 online now!
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yes...he will love you and leave you!!
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