| 10/1/2008 10:20:59 PM |
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vicki2008
Orlando, FL
age: 21
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I know this has been brought up but it really bothers me....
Y when some not all men find out that you have a child/children they run the other way?
IT just really confuses me. i guess its bc ive never had to deal with it and now that i am trying to date again after a 3 year relationship and having a child that it bothers me more....if you have any advise/input let me know!
[Edited 10/1/2008 10:24:17 PM]
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| 10/1/2008 10:26:01 PM |
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48pepper
Leggett, TX
age: 48
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u are young and look at where u life has got u in the way u do things. dont rush in to things take time and make sure u have the same respect and honesty u want to give. u have seemed t learn that if u play its cost that u didnt thik about till after the fact jmo as i dodnt know much about u just from ur post
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| 10/1/2008 10:26:02 PM |
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barbarajt
Rochester, NY
age: 38
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maybe some men think you are looking for a baby daddy, not saying you are, but you are young and i suppose you date guys in your age group... they are not ready to grow up yet at 21.
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| 10/1/2008 10:29:13 PM |
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vicki2008
Orlando, FL
age: 21
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im not looking for a baby daddy at all...her dad is kinda in the picture but not really...her dad is 26 and acts like hes 16...idk im just trying to figure some things out.
[Edited 10/1/2008 10:29:36 PM]
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| 10/1/2008 10:31:28 PM |
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steve_c420
Greenville, NC
age: 28 online now!
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their out there just give it time, i like kids and i know im not the only one, y dont you search through the guy profiles, and look for what you want. its not hard and theres alot of guys willing to date mothers.
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| 10/1/2008 10:33:39 PM |
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barbarajt
Rochester, NY
age: 38
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im not looking for a baby daddy at all...her dad is kinda in the picture but not really...her dad is 26 and acts like hes 16...idk im just trying to figure some things out.
i know hun, but in young mens eyes that scares them, you have to find a man whos a real man , mature, smart and accepting.isaid that because your only 21... men dont mature as fast as women
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| 10/1/2008 10:39:31 PM |
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48pepper
Leggett, TX
age: 48
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i know hun, but in young mens eyes that scares them, you have to find a man whos a real man , mature, smart and accepting.isaid that because your only 21... men dont mature as fast as women
muturety is not a matter of ur sex its on how u think about ur life and where u want a go and want out of it
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| 10/1/2008 10:45:08 PM |
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tarotdream
Ventura, CA
age: 53
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I was married and we had a child, he's around, visits the kid and pays child support.
Means you planned it and the marriage didn't work out but you picked a good man cause he's doing right by the kid.
We were living together and didn't use birth control and he moved out when I was 6 months pregnant, I don't know where Dad is and I'm paying for everything.
You had a kid before you got married with an irresponsible man. You're stupid enough not to use birth control. You picked a complete a**hole and can't find him which probably means you didn't look hard. Your life is haphazard and you're just a passenger. God knows what you'll do with me including "Oops! Pregnant again!".
It's about showing responsibility and good judgment.
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| 10/1/2008 10:51:10 PM |
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48pepper
Leggett, TX
age: 48
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It's about showing responsibility and good judgment. u got it mabe it will soak in that is what muturety is and how u build ur mturety level in life. think before u act
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