sweetestman718
Jackson, MS
age: 29
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I think the main problem is that we have all been rejected so often taht we are afraid to open up and speak to those who are interested; that we are afraid to speak for fear of being mistreated as has happened in past relationships; for fear of the hurt that has caused so much grief; for fear that the person we meet on here is not who they say they are.
I can vouch only for myself that i am not a perfect man and that i will make mistakes. I do my best to be a good man but sometimes i fail. i have learned that i have nothing to hide and have nothing in my past to be ashamed of because everything i have done has only made me who i am today. sure, i am not the best looking guy at the bar/club, but that doesnt mean i am unapproachable. i dont go to church because out of the 15-20 i have been to i have always been cast as an outsider that doesnt belong therefore meeting women at church is not an option for me anymore. i am too shy to speak to those women at the bar/club or anywhere else i go so this is my only option.
in all this i say that this site should be where we open our hearts and our mouths (fingers, lol) and dont hide anything that should be relevant without divulging personal information. i would love to meet someone one here.
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sassylou2
Kenner, LA
age: 64
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i agree with sportysonja. i was a paying member on some of the sites and i would send out a message to talk with someone and they would very seldom send answer any of my messages. after a bit you sort of give up. i even put in some of my profiles that i let my hair grow out and that did not make a difference. all the answers that i did get from the guys was really nasty. i am not on here for cyber sex, or cyber phone sex on the the phone. when i did chat with anyone that is all they wanted. i even had one guy that i was talking to tell me to check out his picture that he had sent to me and when i did it was just a picture of himself showing how big he was. i told him that my grandson that was 1 year old could put him to shame and clicked him off. so now if someone starts talking about sex i just tell him goodby. so if if you pay you still get nasty men and i am sure that if you are a guy you get the same from the women. so i guess it does not matter if you are a paying member or non paying.
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randdedo
Philadelphia, MS
age: 19
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hay babies i 50 year old can han with the best of u
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bigdaddyjimmy
Horn Lake, MS
age: 54
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I beg to differ, I have made some friends on the internet. We do see each other and do things together. We help each other if needed. Why don't you have your picture on your profile? We have a dance and get together each month, either in Memphis are Jackson, TN. Last month we had 154 people come to the dance in Memphis. Look in Tennessee Chat for Valentine Dance. There is alot of good people out there that are like me and just want to get out and have fun.
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missj7483
Flowood, MS
age: 31
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I think you should just hang in there. I do agree that most women won't give you the time of day without a pic, but don't worry about it. The ones that count won't matter. I'm sure I'll get some ugly responses, but so the F**K what! You'd be surprised how much a "not cute" person can turn beautiful to you once you've gotten to know them. Good luck!
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wittygirl12345
Madison, MS
age: 35
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This message is for sportysonja: A'men to that sister LOL! This message comes from a woman who is seeking male companionship also. I agreed with your statement about women having a hard time on these sites too.
[Edited 1/30/2009 2:12:08 AM PST]
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wittygirl12345
Madison, MS
age: 35
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This message is to sassylou. I had agreed with sportysonja also. Y'all are so right.
That's how I feel too. I am a straight woman, but I can't help but laugh at y'all's comments. They are so true, but funny at the same time.
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