| 10/6/2008 2:59:43 PM |
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wiggy6471
Keene, NH
age: 37
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Okay, is it me or does it just seem that everyone knows at least one nice guy that has gotten screwed or dumped ... because they were nice to them. I personally think about my friends and myself and I see so many times the ones that are complete asses seem to keep or get the girls. While the good guys seem to get dumped or cheated on. Women, state "I want a nice guy" ... but they get one and then what? 
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| 10/6/2008 6:35:17 PM |
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daisybee
Hudson, NH
age: 41
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Because the nice guys are attracted to the girls that can't appreciate them. 
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| 10/6/2008 6:47:13 PM |
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cornbreadx
Meredith, NH
age: 33
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that's so true daisy
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| 10/9/2008 12:12:34 PM |
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sunflower5710
Nashua, NH
age: 39
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It seems like guys are always looking for the complete perfect package and that does not exist. So if you take a chance on someone who may not be your ideal package you may be surprised at what you find
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| 10/9/2008 5:27:24 PM |
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cornbreadx
Meredith, NH
age: 33
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I don't think that is entirely true. However, settling isn't the answer either. I for one look for flaws so that I can be reminded about how unique everyone is. Though, there are some flaws or quirks that I can't tolerate... but that's my personality.
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| 10/13/2008 1:18:46 PM |
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kenjonez
Manchester, NH
age: 45
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I am feelin you my man, it seems that the jerks have all the luck. while us decent guys get screwed!
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| 10/13/2008 1:51:31 PM |
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snappie1
Portsmouth, NH
age: 58
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One man's "flaws" are another's uniqueness? Just what "flaws" are you referring to? Each of us has our own personality and if you call that having flaws then you are missing the whole person. That is what makes us unique and not all alike...thank goodness. It means we each have the ability to be who we are and if others don't care for that self uniqueness then it's just their choice. Not one of us is perfect in any way. Who makes these rules?? lolol...
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| 10/18/2008 7:55:45 AM |
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daisybee
Hudson, NH
age: 41
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Thank you 'cornbread'
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| 10/19/2008 2:30:33 PM |
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katy50
Fremont, NH
age: 58
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Snappi I agree, we are all different. We just have to find someone who likes our differences. Getting dumped sucks thats for sure. For any reason.
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| 10/21/2008 3:26:07 PM |
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djunique
West Lebanon, NH
age: 29
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yeah it does  especially when youll do anything in the world for them and love them no matter what they do or how they act sometimes,but they just dont love you back or dont know how to address the issues that bothered them or cared enough to fix them
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| 10/21/2008 3:39:06 PM |
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sarah10183
Portsmouth, NH
age: 25
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Its true alot of women want and get nice guys then see they like the bad boy type. But it's not only guys that get hurt!! I can say I have dated or been in a relationship where its been all about the guy or just sex, cheating, and using me. I am a very nice out going person and I always finish last. I guess some people get hurt more then others, but we will always come out on top, being the strongest. I wish the best for ya guys that "finish last" and maybe for once you should play the woman (cuz there are some nasty b*tches out there) 
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| 10/22/2008 7:53:39 AM |
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djunique
West Lebanon, NH
age: 29
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wow i didnt expect that one lol. problem with that is if you end up playing her she could have been the one you really wanted to be with and you could lose her. its a risk you might not want to take if your a guy like me looking for someone serious or wanting to settle down. if your just out there for sex then go for it,play her like a drum.
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| 10/27/2008 3:22:51 PM |
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montana59mc
Rochester, NH
age: 49
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Man wiggy, i'm with you on this one, i'm a so called "BIKER" and when i rode harley's it was awful, seemed like every girl i dated wanted me to take them to seedy biker bars and other dives, or they thought i was ..........well not sure, some sort of bad boy i guess. True i've been riding since i was a kid, and yes i have friends in some outlaw M/C's but my goal in my love life has ben to meet a friend and fall in love and be with that person the rest of my life, i'm told i'm very romantic, and kinda have a nice old fashion class, whatever lady i have been with i have never forgoten their birthday, or picked a football game over something important to them, and i have NEVER EVER cheated, yet i'm 49 and find myself single again because 2 very long term relationships could not say the same, and both now wish they had stayed with me, but once a cheater always a cheater, i won't go back.
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| 10/27/2008 8:58:56 PM |
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bigman76
Suncook, NH
age: 23 online now!
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Nice guys finish last because instead of doing something about it, we sit around and b*tch about our bad luck...im in the same boat so im not attacking you
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| 12/24/2008 3:57:39 PM |
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brian1022
Merrimack, NH
age: 26
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I want to know too, if anybody finds a real answer I want to know. I always treat my women with respect, don't cheat, abuse, or act like a d*ck...but yet every woman I end up with treats me like crap (I don't take it either, I walk).
If women always want a good man, why do they treat them like shit when they find one?
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