10/10/2008 12:52:20 PM |
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amanda1908
Wyoming, PA
age: 19
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I know this is my descision but last friday i moved home with my family. I had put off moving home for so long i just ended up putting my physical and mental health at risk. Slowly i drifted into a derpression i cant get out of. It all happened when 6 months ago i moved in with my ex-boyfriend. Everything at first was great i didnt mind taking care of him and our 3 dogs and the house up until 2 months ago. I started to realize although yes i want to get married i dont want to do this. I dont want to cook breakfast lunch and dinner every day and then clean and do wash and go to work. It was all my resposibility. He just worked. He never wanted our relationship to work. Now after 22 stiches a broken heart and too many dishes i called it quits. But i still think of him. I dont know how to deal with heart ache.... what do i do????
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10/10/2008 12:56:02 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36
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Now after 22 stiches ?
Explain that.
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10/10/2008 12:57:20 PM |
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amanda1908
Wyoming, PA
age: 19
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We got into a fight last week about breaking up and he hit me with a baseball bat by accident
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10/10/2008 12:58:03 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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Find someone who doesn't use you as a punchbag. Your 19...LOOOONG way to go yet before you need to start worrying about marriage etc.
EDIT: and press charges...You got no brothers?...the guy would be rotting in a swamp somewhere if you were my sister etc.
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10/10/2008 12:58:43 PM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 33
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If you are on any anti-depressants get off of them and if your not dont get on them. You left so the only thing you can do is deal with it and move on
Um he hit you. NEVER LOOK BACK
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10/10/2008 12:59:24 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36
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Ok that's what I figured....
All that you need to understand is that you need to stay away from him and move on. If you ever start thinking about him and missing him, remember what he did to you and remember that next time you may end up dead. Get the hell away from him.
It's just that simple holy hell.
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10/10/2008 1:03:14 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36
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Also, if you are stupid enough to still care about him, a great way to forget about him is by filing assault charges and getting a restraining order... Don't be a dumb ass, I've seen battered women before and when they decide to stay, they get more of the same and in many cases don't survive for long. This "boyfriend" needs a bullet in his head and you need to get the hell away from him.
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10/10/2008 1:04:26 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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We got into a fight last week about breaking up and he hit me with a baseball bat by accident
How do you accidentally hit someone with a baseball bat?
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10/10/2008 1:05:09 PM |
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amanda1908
Wyoming, PA
age: 19
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well he lives 2 1/2 hours away but it just sucks not seeing the family we had (not kids but the puppies we raised he kept) I know im doing the right thing im not worried about that i just want to know how to not think of him
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10/10/2008 1:05:48 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
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post a couple pictures ....ya know ...after the e.r........put them around the house randomly.places you're sure to see them....like the fridge.that may not help the heartache but it sure the hell will keep you away from him.
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10/10/2008 1:06:23 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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well he lives 2 1/2 hours away but it just sucks not seeing the family we had (not kids but the puppies we raised he kept) I know im doing the right thing im not worried about that i just want to know how to not think of him
Just gotta give it time.
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10/10/2008 1:06:43 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
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We got into a fight last week about breaking up and he hit me with a baseball bat by accident
How do you accidentally hit someone with a baseball bat?
umm.ya.........inquiring minds
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10/10/2008 1:10:46 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
age: 36
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We got into a fight last week about breaking up and he hit me with a baseball bat by accident
Yeah the by accident part is BS...
Since it's so hard to forget about him, why not go in the bathroom and look in the mirror and count the 22 reasons why he's a c*ck... Then remember that he will ACCIDENTALLY do it again. Be glad you live that far away from him and if you're smart you will keep that distance.
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10/10/2008 1:13:13 PM |
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amanda1908
Wyoming, PA
age: 19
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I think the hardest out of all of this was my dog cause when we first moved in together i had no car and the nearest uni mart was 30 mins away. I lived in the middle of amish country so i got a puppy. I spent 24hrs a day with her for 5 months till i got a job... i just dont know how to just forget something i was so attached to
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10/10/2008 1:16:30 PM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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Get a few bulky male friends to drive down there with you on the weekend. Collect the dog and then 'introduce' your bulky friends to the ex.
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