Oh My God A Few Good Men 31

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10/11/2008 7:10:47 AM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
tryagaindj68 Evansville, IN age: 40	Thanks, Karl! Maybe if somebody can help build up the good guys' self-esteem, they'll cheer up and start asking the nice girls out again. We're lonely, ya know! Love the insight and kindness so many of the fine men here at DH share on a regular basis: wreckerman57 theshadow Ge0Ge0 thebestman noredneckhere rauner69 hairdog1 Keep in mind, some of the women here at DH are in recovery mode. They need patience, kindness, and reassurance that they will indeed be alright again.
10/11/2008 7:14:33 AM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
noredneckhere Sevierville, TN age: 48	Quote from tryagaindj68: Thanks, Karl! Maybe if somebody can help build up the good guys' self-esteem, they'll cheer up and start asking the nice girls out again. We're lonely, ya know! Love the insight and kindness so many of the fine men here at DH share on a regular basis: wreckerman57 theshadow Ge0Ge0 thebestman noredneckhere rauner69 hairdog1 Keep in mind, some of the women here at DH are in recovery mode. They need patience, kindness, and reassurance that they will indeed be alright again. Recovery? Kindness ?? Bah! Humbug!
10/11/2008 1:37:07 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
xrainx Kusel Germany age: 37	I am pretty new here but already noticed that there are a lot of very nice guys on this site.!!! But there are also some of the untamed species of males on here.We women need to teach those guys how to behave!
10/11/2008 1:41:08 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
sparks60 Marion, OH age: 60	Quote from jerrig: I think it goes beyond the "a few bad apples" theory to the fact that there are so many superficial women that run into good guys all of the time but the guys do not fit all of their silly little criteria for who they would allow to correspond with them. So they lump all of those men into the same category of not being "good" men, when in truth because of their silly standards they are simply just not "good" enough for them in their opinion. You nailed it I believe.
10/11/2008 2:58:46 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
nm_jewel Las Cruces, NM age: 56	Quote from johnnybadboy: MN_JEWEL Are you following me{LOL} Yes I'm stalking you Johnny!!!!
10/12/2008 7:20:23 AM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
sedonaphotofan Sedona, AZ age: 44 online now!	BJK123 Thanks for your post, when it's time you will know, all of the stuff I have seen from you has always been positive. Bigman76 I am not sure if I agree with you on this one totally. You are right some women go for the bad boy types a lot just want someone to treat them with respect. faith85 Remember the old saying once bitten twice shy. We all have to learn to let go, those people were in our past ad we definitely need to leave that stuff behind us. noredneckhere I have only been here for a few months myself I have no idea of what this place use to be like, I have heard from a few. You are right, once you clear out that negative space, good things will open up. jonnybadboy semper gumby (always flexible) to you also. I thought that I was pretty good at seeing the BS coming my way but I have had a couple get into my pos and rip me a good one. I am still learning the matters of the heart and growing from that. I was a dragon gunner so for us it was one shot only. Wish I could do that here, find one good woman that is. nm_jewel Thanks for the video, it just about says it all. You are right, we attract what we put out there. thebestman lilmissala You are welcome, I know that you all don't feel that way, although some days I do wonder. I guess that we need to live more in love and get rid of the crap out of our lives. kitise another want be good thread, I don't know, I just put it out there, I am trying to be part of the solution and not part of the problem. For me being good starts on the inside and transitions to the outside, for a long time I worried about what people though that but was a while ago. There are good people here on both sides so I don't agree with you on that one either. Yes women here have kids, If a woman or man is over 25 chances are they probably do have kids, if you don't like that then move on. If you don't like my threads you don't have to post in them, I am not sure why you are so bitter, but that is on you. christycarol The television and movies don't help either, men are always getting a bad wrap. As a kid my mum thought me to cook do laundry sew and a few other things. Later as I got older she said she though me that so I would never have to wait on someone to do it for me. oceanbreez60 Thank you for your post, a lot of insight there, I don't know about being in the boys club, I am probably not cool like that. I do hear what you are saying, thank you. tryagaindj68 I do understand, the old saying that you need to fill up your cup before you can over flow to someone else. xrainx unfortunately you can't teach anyone how to behave, that would be inflicting your will onto someone. At least for me I need to learn the lessons myself and work on me. When someone tries to make or teach someone to be how they want them to be, that is not good. Karl in Co.
10/12/2008 7:48:45 AM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
usakindatheart Overton, TX age: 48	Quote from oceanbreez60: At my age 60 and being single for 32 years I have met alot of men. Society has called any complaint or voicing of what happens in a relationship that was bad "Bashing: no matter which gender. I have met some men who disapointed me when we broke up and some were not the nice guys i thought they were so if i would say something they did it is about them. Karl maybe you and other men in the "boy club" all take it personally. It would not be meant that way. I told my boss years ago about my ex and he was trying to defend him, and he didn't even know him. My boss was defending him by his personal standards and how he would react. Maybe some of you guys are doing that. Stop taking negative comments so personal. We ladies are aware there are really good men out there we jsut have to weed out the bad ones. Same with females. You may meet one who has hurt you but it doesn't mean all ladies you meet would do that. Just weed them out. that is so odd. same thing. when i said me and x was through, my friends and people i work with or socialize with, were making excuses for him, as if i should over look it... people judge your relationship, by the standards of there own... so very true. karl, alot of women here are kind, and caring... some have beautiful souls, and why they have not been taken yet, i do not know. perhaps there kindness screams long term, and most men here on dh, is looking just for that hook up...most but not all... so i will not generalize. kit... i pray that what ever damage is in your soul about women and children, one day you will heal. perhaps you could just "drop it"? and find something else that bothers you about women? every one here knows your views now, you do NOT have to explain it, even one more time... and i agree kit, Karl does come off on most of his posts as a non basher, but this is cyber world, and no one really knows anyone....or the truth... but, kit... all we can do is hope... that the words of many many posts, of the person that may catch our attention, is being truthful... and if all conditions are right... be able to contact them... and take it from there... hope kit, that is what most of us here are looking for... someone to love us for who we are... usa
10/12/2008 8:51:50 AM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
sedonaphotofan Sedona, AZ age: 44 online now!	Weather it be the real world or the cyber world, I am exactly the same. There are a few here I have actually talk to and a few that e-mail back and forth. I do understand the taking sides after a break up, guys band together and women do also. I hope some day we will all be able to get pass the hurt and move into a better understanding of who we are. Karl in CO. One hour left here.
10/12/2008 9:17:31 AM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
mike22304 Alexandria, VA age: 62	Thanks Karl.
10/14/2008 1:28:01 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
sedonaphotofan Sedona, AZ age: 44 online now!	Anytime, Karl
10/14/2008 1:35:11 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
brokeninnocence Washington, DC age: 27	To tell you the truth i think most men are good. There simple. How they treat you is only what you allow or how you treat them. Alot of "bad" guys in my opinion is just like everyone else...a women messed there head up. Women have alot of control over men but some use it to manipulate and hurt them because they have issues of their own and then wonder why men are the way they are. Men are very influenced my women(they seem more willing to learn then you think, u just have to make them feel good..its humane)....so how you are matters. Kind of like that for every action there is a reaction. In fact in my exsperiance it is women who seem to have the hiddens motives and sly ways, and they are also the ones from what i know who cheat more. Sure there are men that are plain Dic** but then again thats people in general.
10/14/2008 3:39:28 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
zoidmagnite Niles, MI age: 39	I think some people confuse forums with blogs. I don't think forums were intended to entertain every whim that crosses the mind. That's what a diary, or a journal (blog) is for. And when a person has cumulated their whims into a question, then they should consider posting it to a forum. There are some good threads that get buried under whim threads. "There are no good men", "there are no good women", at least not in the sense that these threads often try to establish them. Fantasies would be a more accurate approximation. We are flawed human beings, but we have the capacity to love, to remove loneliness through companionship and to find happiness in doing so. It's the process that bewilders us sometimes. We all have been, or will be, caught up in the "me" thinking at some point in time during our lives and some just happen to be in that phase when they come to the forums. I've been there, so I can't really fault them, or play forum cop. One way to control it is to keep posting to the good threads and let the whim threads fall to the bottom. JMHO
10/14/2008 3:51:55 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
brokeninnocence Washington, DC age: 27	yeah pratice what you preach because that had nothing to do with the thread. All you said was a bunch of you trying to be smart.... Stick to the subject...it talking about good men. If you don't like it why take the time to respond? Don't be a snob!
10/14/2008 4:37:15 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
brokeninnocence Washington, DC age: 27	What i ment to say when three kids(nephews) are not acting up around me diverting my attention was... yeah pratice what you preach! completely almost contradicting yourself. All in all there are good people and there are bad. Men and women. We can just be positive or negative. The thread is about good men or not. Its not about your judgement on how people write. Lets not be negative and try to sound smarter....again thumbs up guys there are women that know your good. We are not all haters.
10/14/2008 5:31:08 PM	Oh My God A Few Good Men
aphrodite434 Richmond, VA age: 48	I know I haven't been on here long, but in all honesty, I haven't came across one man who was not nice to me, and the first one I meant in person is very dear to me.. So I guess it is all in how you approach a person. And if your looking for fault your going to find it, even if it is not there. We all need to have more respect for each other, and when our paths cross someone who is not what we would like them to be, then walk away. There is no reason to put one another down for being who they are, we all are human with fault.

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