10/14/2008 5:57:57 PM |
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steve_c420
Greenville, NC
age: 28
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`And I am not talking about the Marines this time. There are a lot of good guys on this site, I am getting so tire of all of the freaking men bashers on here. One, two or ten guys hurt someone and we all have to here just how bad we are.
So for all of you that don't believe yes "There are a Few Good Guys here"
So my question why is there such a need to group and lump all of us into the misfit category. This is one time that i will say separation is cool.
Karl in Colorado
i dont think it matters if you tell them, dude they'r so bitter from the bad ones they cant help but think we're all the same, thanx for the thread, but id like these ladies to at least give us a chance, its not too hard to weed out the bad ones. they just need to see if the men want some a** or a relationship.
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10/17/2008 9:48:14 PM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
age: 44 online now!
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Good point steve thanks for your post
Karl in Sedona
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10/17/2008 9:55:15 PM |
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pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 49
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I don't bash in a group. It's not that I don't trust men, it's my judgement I don't trust. I love men. 
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10/17/2008 10:27:05 PM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
age: 44 online now!
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Welcome to my club, i have caught myself going where the hell is your brain. Sometime i just know but i always lead with my heart first and it does hurt.
Thanks for your post.
Karl
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10/18/2008 12:05:31 AM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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I have noticed that the tone of the threads and posts have been getting more and more negative, more gender bashing, more racism issues (real and imagined). It must be bad if it has upset you, lol. Karl, you always have positive wisdom in your posts, and I always enjoy them. You are one of the good men, for sure. I think we all can easily tell by who posts what in what threads who is positive, ready to move on and hopeful that they will find one of those "good people" that seem so hard to find locally for any of us. How's that for a confusing run on sentence?
I know that there are good men here, and I look forward to finding one for my very own maybe even in my area code.
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10/18/2008 12:09:45 AM |
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not_looking
Sacramento, CA
age: 49
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I don't bash. I believe it lowers you to their level.
JMO
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10/18/2008 12:10:16 AM |
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christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 40
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Very true OP....but I'd like to make a tiny correction.....There are some GOOD PEOPLE here on this site...BOTH MEN & WOMEN!
If "we" are going to put ourselves out here on a dating site, then we all SHOULD, at the very least, be able to distinguish that there are good people out there and that everyone is not like those before them!

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10/18/2008 1:35:21 AM |
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thewizard81
Dallas, TX
age: 27
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I don't sweet talk very well. Never learned how to do that. Ah hell, nobody ever reads my posts anyway.
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10/18/2008 1:38:58 AM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
age: 44 online now!
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Very true OP....but I'd like to make a tiny correction.....There are some GOOD PEOPLE here on this site...BOTH MEN & WOMEN!
If "we" are going to put ourselves out here on a dating site, then we all SHOULD, at the very least, be able to distinguish that there are good people out there and that everyone is not like those before them!

On the women side i knew that a long time ago, so no correction needed.
Karl in Sedona
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10/18/2008 12:34:32 PM |
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not_looking
Sacramento, CA
age: 49
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I don't sweet talk very well. Never learned how to do that. Ah hell, nobody ever reads my posts anyway. 
I read it.
I also agree there are a few good men and women on here.
[Edited 10/18/2008 12:56:00 PM]
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10/18/2008 12:39:37 PM |
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jellybean1976
Hyde Park, VT
age: 32
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I have only been on here a short time and have chatted with a few people. In what I have read in the forums, they can get pretty nasty. As far as I am concerned, who hasn't gotten hurt in their lifetime? If we hadn't, we wouldn't know the difference between what we want, what we won't accept, what we know we deserve, and how if really feels to love and/or be happy. I am hoping people are on with the hope to find someone who isn't like that. Isn't some sterotypical abuser of trust. I am optomistic, but realistic. Good luck everyone. Give each other some slack.
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10/18/2008 12:55:43 PM |
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dday555
Spring Valley, NY
age: 43
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^^^^^^^^^^^^
I'm with her line of thought.
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10/18/2008 1:01:46 PM |
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skraightupjim
Groveland, FL
age: 18
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Great Thread, I don't think many of you are stupid for lumping all men together like that, just need to realize that bad things do happen and always will, but there are still plenty of good options, and you should always try to find the good.
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10/18/2008 1:10:53 PM |
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deedee22801
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 36
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I don't bash men. I love men. Individuals that act like idiots I may bash but that could be a men or women.
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10/18/2008 1:11:35 PM |
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wreckerman57
Port Jervis, NY
age: 50
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Theres a lot of good people on here..I've been burned by women but I don't hold it against them.Just got to TRY and use better judgement.i still say treat people as you want to be treated.If the other person can't be like this,move on.
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