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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
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`And I am not talking about the Marines this time. There are a lot of good guys on this site, I am getting so tire of all of the freaking men bashers on here. One, two or ten guys hurt someone and we all have to here just how bad we are.
So for all of you that don't believe yes "There are a Few Good Guys here"
So my question why is there such a need to group and lump all of us into the misfit category. This is one time that i will say separation is cool.
Karl in Colorado
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| 10/10/2008 7:45:46 PM |
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znorth
Rockford, MI
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Thanks for this thread... I agree with you. It's getting ridiculous.
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| 10/10/2008 7:46:57 PM |
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g_d77
Watertown, NY
age: 31
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The world is run by stereotypes. What can you do?  If it weren't the case, military guys wouldn't be stereotyped as cheaters, deploying for 15 months at a time, and "having a different woman at every port."
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| 10/10/2008 7:47:13 PM |
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sassi_nepa
Factoryville, PA
age: 37
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It really does only take a few bad apples to spoil the whole bunch. PLEASE notice that I did not post in the male-bashing thread, but am posting here 
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| 10/10/2008 7:48:49 PM |
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washingtonbound
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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Im one that knows there are still some great guys on this site...for the ones that lump everyone all in one..I think they have been blinded so much by a few things that have gone wrong in there lives they forget to see past it and look for the good...
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| 10/10/2008 7:53:53 PM |
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tazz963
Lindale, GA
age: 45
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Hi Karl, i like all of my guy friends i don't count anybody out till they prove they need be ! i too have had the bad but i don't dwell on it cant put everyone in the same category we are all different and most of the people i talk to here are great and just my opinion but i think you are one of the best along with several of the other guys i see here on the forums
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| 10/10/2008 8:04:58 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 40
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Karl, there are many good guys on here, and you are one of them. Don't take the men bashing threads to heart, just like we don't take the women bashing threads to heart. There are a lot of bitter angry people here, and you have to remember in most cases, they weren't born that way, life experience made them that way. Just be glad that you either haven't had to deal with what they have dealt with, or that if you have, you have the ability to overcome it. I seriously would not want to be stuck in an existence where I couldn't see the good in people regardless of their gender.
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| 10/10/2008 8:19:56 PM |
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38
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With all this gender bashing going on here I can see why a lot of people are frustrated with reading threads that already have been posted and they go on an on "why this or Why that. If a person doesn't get along with the one person they meet they should not categorize everyone (men and woman) it goes both ways. I have met a few people here and there that were not of any interest, but I just moved on so not all men or woman are bad apples. And when you post in a thread you should expect to be bashed or not because everyone has there own opinions on topics they may agree or they may not.
Don't Worry Be Happy
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| 10/10/2008 8:24:16 PM |
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jerrig
Huntley, MT
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I think it goes beyond the "a few bad apples" theory to the fact that there are so many superficial women that run into good guys all of the time but the guys do not fit all of their silly little criteria for who they would allow to correspond with them. So they lump all of those men into the same category of not being "good" men, when in truth because of their silly standards they are simply just not "good" enough for them in their opinion.
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| 10/10/2008 10:12:32 PM |
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waw1961
Cave Junction, OR
age: 47
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I try to make it a point not to bash anyone. There are some people who are just bad in general male and female. I actually get tired of meeting a guy and hearing all about how his ex took everything and did him wrong. my last boyfriend did that and I should have taken that as a sign he was not done being hurt and angry.
Both sides do it all the time. Its I guess how male and females bound within their own circles. If you have nothing else to talk about Hey why not just go about bashing the opposite just to start a conversation. I know that sounds crazy but I have seen it happen just like that.  
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| 10/10/2008 11:39:40 PM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
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ZNorth Anytime my brother
g_d77 Stereotypes do suck, I had 5 deployments to asia. I told my ex I need to take some cash out a little more than normal, her girlfriends told her that i was out looking for hookers. In Truth I found the esprit factory in Malasia and bough my kids her and her family presents. The sad thing was she was out clubbin tried to pick up one of the Marines that I trained. He looked at her and said you look like Staff Sergeant's M wife, she said so, he said mam he is the one that thought me self defense and I don't want to die lol. I would not have killed him, just thanked him.
Sassi in retrospect you might be right, some people may cause others to have a really bad out look on all of us, too bad for them.
Washingtonbound My favorite new yorker next to my mom, sister, brother, school mates, just kidding. Like I have said to you in the past, you are wise beyond your years.
Tazz my gerorian sista, thank you, you are very kind, you are very special yourself, i know that you help me through a weird spot a while back. Thanks for all that you do.
Kassy, you are so right, stucki nt he past is still stuck in the past, time to move on. Speaking of he past are you brushing up on your wave riding. lol
Sharolas, As usual very down to earth, by the way that is my favorite Jimmy Cliff Song.
Jerrrig I should have made this for both sexes, I hope that some day we can have more meaningful stuff to write about that Men or women are asses what do you think.
WAW, i hear you on that, I always try and catch myself so i am not guilty of that also. Again we just need to let go of the past. I love to say Hi my name is karl not Mike bill john carl or anyone else that has mess you over.
Karl in CO, 1 day and a wake up lol
PS The carl with the C is the evil carl lol
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| 10/11/2008 12:01:46 AM |
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carbonv
Salem, AR
age: 47
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I think most on here know how I feel about bashing threads by now  So let me just say 
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| 10/11/2008 12:07:07 AM |
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rexydon
Lenexa, KS
age: 23
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I could go into a loooooong explanation but the short story is the human psychology. Its natural like a learning behavior. You have 6 apples in front of you and you have never eaten an apple before. You bite into the first three and all three are extremely sour and nasty are you really going to bite into the fourth? Might not be the best explanation but that is how the mind works.
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| 10/11/2008 12:07:53 AM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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I have generalized in the heat of the moment even though those weren't my true feelings. I just wasnt careful with what I typed. And sweet Cableguy and I talked about it and I learned to be more careful in my words. There are several wonderful men on here. I have talked to many and have very educated and fun conversations 
Oh yeah I have have even found good in some of the most evil men on here
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| 10/11/2008 12:09:34 AM |
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divorceddadof2
Vernal, UT
age: 38
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good thread Karl. There are good men out here! I pride myself in being a good man!
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