10/11/2008 11:54:26 AM |
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drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 33
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OK look, you can't just dive in. You have to warm her up first. Flirt and be playful with her. If you're all serious and nervous all the time, you'll never do it. And if you do do it, it will be awkward. The best way to make a woman feel comfortable around you is to make her laugh. Do that. Make her really want you to kiss her. In fact, I'd maybe even flat out tell her the next time you talk to her on the phone or something that you really want to kiss her. Be direct and don't be put-off if she plays hard to get. That shows confidence and that you know what you want! If she staunchly resists you, that means she's not that attracted to you and you should probably move on.
Flirt, flirt, flirt! Women love flirting and teasing! You have to learn how to do that. Good luck!
[Edited 10/11/2008 12:04:56 PM]
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10/11/2008 11:55:54 AM |
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gabriel_1
East Moline, IL
age: 30
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stop being shy and nervous. she seems to be diggin you and your diggin here. there is no women alive that would make me nervous or shy. i used to be shy and nervous then i decided im not dealing with those two weeknesses anymore. she is probably shy too or just as nervous and someone has to hike the damn ball for the game to progress.
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10/11/2008 11:59:55 AM |
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babydoll4sure
Bronx, NY
age: 52
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DON'T change sweety, you sound like the perfect guy .. not to many around like you 
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10/11/2008 12:02:05 PM |
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sunflowr
Sacramento, CA
age: 41
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Please, Please what are you waiting for.. that is probably what she is thinking. your good.
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10/11/2008 12:25:25 PM |
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matt112285
Punta Gorda, FL
age: 23 online now!
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Please, Please what are you waiting for.. that is probably what she is thinking. your good.
Thanks, about time someone sees me for what I am
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10/11/2008 12:33:17 PM |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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But what if "what you are" isn't what makes most women feel attracted?
Some people would advise you to wait for the person who will accept you like you are. I'm not that patient! I'd rather work on improving myself and broaden my choices.

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10/11/2008 3:38:01 PM |
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matt112285
Punta Gorda, FL
age: 23 online now!
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Yea I am not in a huge rush, but I dont want to mess something good up because I am shy.
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10/11/2008 4:06:59 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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Wow dude. Don't be surprised if she places you in the "friend zone".
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10/11/2008 4:33:44 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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awwwwwwww... havent you learned how to score a goal by avoiding an offside trap??
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10/11/2008 4:36:34 PM |
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mag_eleven
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
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no kisses yet...
bust a move kid...
dont be shy... GO FOR IT!!! mikey
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10/11/2008 4:39:03 PM |
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theodorebear
Hopkinsville, KY
age: 41 online now!
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OMG dude, you're obviously not thinking. 3rd date and no kiss? She thinks you're gay for sure , just kidding....
Honestly, call her up and ask for a 4th date. As soon as you meet, and I mean IMMEDIATELY, hug her profoundly and bust her one. This will give you the rest of the evening to fog up the windows in your car.
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10/11/2008 5:27:26 PM |
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cindym7878
Chelsea, MI
age: 46
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You need to get over it and kiss her....you aren't going to mess anything up!! She obviously is interested if she went out with you three times already. You are messing up if you DON'T kiss her!!!! 
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10/11/2008 5:33:49 PM |
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tazz963
Lindale, GA
age: 45
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hey Guy you better get over that shyness and kiss that girl already ! before someone else does JMO
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10/11/2008 5:53:09 PM |
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judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 51
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Jezz JUST KISS HER, Alright??? 
KISS HER, KISS HER, KISS HER!!! 
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10/11/2008 7:45:08 PM |
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zoidmagnite
Niles, MI
age: 39
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^^^^What she said up there.^^^^^
'xcept make sure that you tell you think she's really special, and that she smells nice, and look into her eyes and smile.
This is why I think men should still learn how to drive stick shift cars.
The world just isn't automatic.... JMHO
I prefer passionate kisses right from the start. Though every girl I ever kissed was one I was "going single with." ---I'm stuck in the 80s!
***Looks for his Back to the Future DVDs***
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