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10/11/2008 1:50:59 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
metu Mansfield, TX age: 47	Quote from angelleyess: I dont know how to flirt You don't need to Angel, you're hot enough as it is.....
10/11/2008 2:09:59 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
oldeschoolcharm Monroe, WA age: 47 online now!	Quote from nickiename: I'd flirt right back. I think flirting is just a fun and natural way of communication for many people. It's not necessarily a come on, the definition of "flirt" I just read said "...for amusement, without serious intentions..." and that's just how I see it. I'll flirt with just about anyone... all in good fun! (emphasis mine) See, that's just it: if your intentions aren't serious, stop wasting my time. And if they are, you come off as a wh*re, or at least just plain silly.
10/11/2008 2:33:09 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
wreckerman57 Port Jervis, NY age: 50 online now!	can't see to good
10/11/2008 2:39:20 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
forumfun Seattle, WA age: 47 online now!	Quote from oldeschoolcharm: (emphasis mine) See, that's just it: if your intentions aren't serious, stop wasting my time. And if they are, you come off as a wh*re, or at least just plain silly. Where exactly is this charm? Do you keep it in a safe in your basement and just bring it out to amuse yourself while you fix yourself these wonderful meals that you describe?
10/11/2008 2:43:34 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
dianadidit1 Amarillo, TX age: 31	Can I flirt with you Forumfun?
10/11/2008 2:44:46 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
forumfun Seattle, WA age: 47 online now!	Flirt away, Diana.
10/11/2008 2:49:29 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
dianadidit1 Amarillo, TX age: 31	I feel all giddy and happy inside. So much to flirt about, so many things I can say or do....what to choose, what to choose. Hmmmm I can "guy" out and say......You're hot. I can "chick" out and......laugh at all your lame jokes. I canbe shy and...drop little tiny hidden hints in my posts. I can be blunt and say.....I WANT YOU. So much to choose from. I got it, I will do it like Diana does it......pun intended....I think you are amazing.
10/11/2008 2:49:44 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
oldeschoolcharm Monroe, WA age: 47 online now!	Quote from forumfun: Where exactly is this charm? Do you keep it in a safe in your basement and just bring it out to amuse yourself while you fix yourself these wonderful meals that you describe? I am chivalrous and old-fashioned. Until I know a person as a friend, there is no prospect of a romantic relationship in my book. I have no desire for a premature sexual relationship and and I view flirting as overly forward. I don't see a flirt as a lady, and certainly don't find crudeness charming. So, why should I treat a flirt with dignity when she reduces initial human interaction to a physical basis? I am not a rutting pig. Don't presume that I am. I suppose my idea of dating differs from most. To me it means spending pleasant times with a person of the appropriate (opposite in my case) gender, over meals, outdoor activities, seeing a movie, eventually involving kids, discussing various viewpoints, and eventually enduring bad times and enjoying good ones as a team. Only after several months of this might I be attracted to someone in a romantic sense. I've tried getting physical off the get go -- by the second or third date. Sorry, someone is still very much a stranger to me then, and I find it very cheapening to reduce someone, and be reduced myself, to a source of physical gratification. I'll give her what she wants but likely end the relationship as an error in judgment of character on my part shortly thereafter. [Edited 10/11/2008 2:50:19 PM]
10/11/2008 3:42:02 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
nm_jewel Las Cruces, NM age: 56 online now!	Quote from foxy_woman_49: I can flirt however I would have to say I will flirt with a man that I am interested in. Same here. I flirt outrageously with someone I'm attracted to.... Its not the same with someone your not. Basically if I'm attracted to them I usually try to find out how much flirting they can take before the frustration point!! LOL Or if I can make them lose their concentration!! I LOVE to divert their attention away from their work!
10/11/2008 3:51:23 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
nm_jewel Las Cruces, NM age: 56 online now!	I've tried getting physical off the get go -- by the second or third date. Sorry, someone is still very much a stranger to me then, and I find it very cheapening to reduce someone, and be reduced myself, to a source of physical gratification. I'll give her what she wants but likely end the relationship as an error in judgment of character on my part shortly thereafter. OMG... This statement just chilled me to the bone. It really did! After the third date.. and she wanted sex... You would lower yourself to "give her what she wants" but then end the relationship??? As an error in character judgement??? After three dates you should have some idea of the "heart" of this woman. And your saying that knowing she had a tender loving heart.. but she wanted physical... you would just dump her?? Lord... I don't want to hurt your feelings.. but stay as far away from me as possible....... PLEASE!!
10/11/2008 3:57:34 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
soloact59 Albuquerque, NM age: 49	I flirt because I enjoy talking to the ladies. Sometimes it's just innocent conversation and sometimes I hope it leads to something. For me it just depends on the situation. But that's just me. [Edited 10/11/2008 3:57:51 PM]
10/11/2008 3:59:19 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
theodorebear Hopkinsville, KY age: 41 online now!	Quote from nm_jewel: OMG... This statement just chilled me to the bone. It really did! After the third date.. and she wanted sex... You would lower yourself to "give her what she wants" but then end the relationship??? As an error in character judgement??? After three dates you should have some idea of the "heart" of this woman. And your saying that knowing she had a tender loving heart.. but she wanted physical... you would just dump her?? Lord... I don't want to hurt your feelings.. but stay as far away from me as possible....... PLEASE!! I would have to agree with nm_jewel on this one. The post she replied this too was the obvious rantings of a demented intellect. Oh, I am sure there are people that want to "save themself" for marriage. But honestly? I do what it takes to insure the happiness of the ones I care about. I would be willing to bet that a major portion of couples in the entire world do not know that when you decide to become the significant other of another human being, you don't just sit there like a rock and the relationship maintain itself. When you enter into a relationship, you become a friend, lover, fighter, doctor, farmer, pychiatrist and anything else it takes to make it work. I've heard women (from my point of view as a man) say, "Ain't NO man gonna control ME!" and with that, use it for an excuse to dispense with common courtesy. As for my response to the OP, flirting is normal, even between married folks. It's a healthy bantering that stabilizes one's view of their inner self. It's the STUPID ones that think a flirt says "I want you all over me".
10/11/2008 4:05:31 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
nickiename Las Cruces, NM age: 37	Quote from oldeschoolcharm: (emphasis mine) See, that's just it: if your intentions aren't serious, stop wasting my time. And if they are, you come off as a wh*re, or at least just plain silly. I'm not the one who defined the word. It means what it means... I actually find it a somewhat difficult to believe that anyone flirts with you. Sounds like you're possibly just a teency-weency bit bitter there.
10/11/2008 4:09:47 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
judit0606 Big Stone Gap, VA age: 51	Quote from forumfun: Where exactly is this charm? Do you keep it in a safe in your basement and just bring it out to amuse yourself while you fix yourself these wonderful meals that you describe? Amen, forumfun! Jezz, some people, uh? Needs to take a chill pill and ENJOY LIFE and the many people TO enjoy life with. AND, NO, Mr Charm!!! I AM NOT a whre for flirting. I was married for 29 years before my hubby passed and I NEVER once even thought about cheating. Can YOU say the same? I think you are way too uptight and are, definately, NOT a charming man. AND, this impression has, absolutely, NOTHING to do with your old fashion values. NO, it has to do with your posts and your constant referances about women being whres! I, also, have old fashion values. BUT, give me and everyone else on here a break, why don't you? You're NOT being fair or honest with us OR yourself. NO, you are being one of those 'holier than thou' types who is sooo very judgmental!!! Well, you have to be the one to throw the first stone, don't you? Yeah, it's a shame, really it is! Well, I've got news for you 'charmin'...there was only ONE without sin, and HE is NOT you!!! Try and be a little nicer cause you are showing what's IN your heart by what comes OUT of your mouth. Yep, that's TRUE! JMO...PEACE
10/11/2008 4:10:25 PM	Just because you flirt. . .
katrinasq Mena, AR age: 39	I generally only flirt with someone I am interested in, and yes, I flirted with my husband when I was married. My ex is the only one I have ever flirted with in a purely sexual way, at least so far.

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