9/24/2007 1:57:21 PM |
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annetts
Norfolk, VA
age: 39
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I have a problem comparing all men to my late husband, I don't do this aloud. But in my head I am thinking it around every man I meet, not just dates, every man.
[Edited 9/24/2007 1:59:42 PM]
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9/24/2007 2:01:02 PM |
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waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 33
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well u didnt wink me back so im guessin i didnt measure up! he mustve been a heck of a guy
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9/24/2007 2:02:03 PM |
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annetts
Norfolk, VA
age: 39
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huh walt? when did you wink at me?
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9/24/2007 2:02:32 PM |
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1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 53
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the two of you must have had something very special and i think it is only somewhat natural to compare other men to him. someday you will find someone maybe just as special and the comparing will be over. good luck
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9/24/2007 2:02:37 PM |
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waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 33
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2 days ago and i got nothin! u owe me a wink!
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9/24/2007 2:03:12 PM |
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waltagain
Duncan, OK
age: 33
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oh yeah i had a keg next to me then
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9/24/2007 2:03:12 PM |
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mrcooper20
Wind Ridge, PA
age: 29
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I can understand a little cause you have kids but you need to let go and move on. You may miss out on some great guys who are interested in you!
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9/24/2007 2:04:15 PM |
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annetts
Norfolk, VA
age: 39
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Well walt write out an I.O.U. and send away.
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9/24/2007 2:06:36 PM |
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nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
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I think that is natural. We all do that to some extent.
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9/24/2007 2:16:35 PM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 34 online now!
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NOPRET I AGREE WITH YOU HUN . WHEN WE MEET AND FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ITS FOR A REASON I MEAN THERE ARE THINGS THAT ATTRACT US AND DRAW US CLOSE TO THEM AND ITS NOT EASY TO FORGET THOSE SPEACIAL QUALITIES.NEVER FORGET BUT HOLD IT CLOSE TO UR HEART AND MOVE ON GIVE SOMEONE ELSE A CHANCE TO LOVE YOU AND ADD EVEN MORE TO UR LIFE IT JUST TAKES TIME.  
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9/24/2007 2:33:54 PM |
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scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 53
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annetts,,women and men do it,,it's only natural...don't let it bother you to much..

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9/24/2007 2:36:08 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Angel please stop yelling again...LOL caps are bad manners.
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9/24/2007 2:38:09 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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It is human nature I think. But.. at some point, you have to let that go and come to grips that all men are different as all women are. No one wants to be in the shadows of a ghost. I had to come to that point myself with my fiance' after he was killed. Once I forced myself to face the fact that no one could take jimmie's place in my heart.. the healing began and found myself enjoy the men for who they were within themselves.
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9/24/2007 2:49:49 PM |
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txusmc81
Jacksonville, NC
age: 26
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Annett if he was a good man then compare on... if you think he was a model for what your relationships in the future should be.... compare compare compare, I see nothing wrong with holding people to standards that are possible to make.
If I was the next man in your life and you even compared me to my face. I would try to fix whatever it was I was doing wrong. No man can replace your late husband, but they can sure as hell try to live up to what his wishes were for his kids, and you.
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9/24/2007 2:53:34 PM |
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harborman
Vallejo, CA
age: 40
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I guess that would certainly leave me out! I mean in appearance!
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