| 10/12/2008 7:35:20 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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destinyfate
Brainerd, MN
age: 40
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I think you sound normal, (meaning you are not odd at all), sweet, and like a very strong and independent woman! And instead of excepting the extra weight and wanting a man to also...make yourself work on it; I swear if you do...you will turn around as you are doing it - or when you are done - and the guys will all the sudden start to show up for you. Good luck
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| 10/12/2008 7:40:42 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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ladylookigfor
Kankakee, IL
age: 46
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| 10/12/2008 7:50:45 PM |
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gr8ful2b
Henderson, NV
age: 44 online now!
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<------- Normal
I agree, however, it appears as though most of the local women take one look at me and rather than taking the time to find out who I am or what makes me tick they consider me abnormal.
Additionally, you also have to take into consideration how people define normal in and of itself. There are some way out people that consider themselves normal. There are very many productive people who are honest, work hard, pay bills, remain monogomous and are kind to others yet when the lights go out they piss and shit on eachother or beat the hell out of one another and call it sex? From that vantage point someone who is socially the same but only partakes in missionary style vanilla sex is abnormal!
The quest is for a match of two absolute mirrored normals - most of us are still looking so you're not alone. I believe it to be possible, but a lot of frogs will be kissed.
[Edited 10/12/2008 7:57:02 PM]
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| 10/12/2008 7:54:52 PM |
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gr8ful2b
Henderson, NV
age: 44 online now!
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u have described an abnormal person. good luck
Do not listen to this man, the whole world is abnormal to him with the exception of himself... however, his picture should be up at every supermarket and coffee shop as well as singles haunts with the caption: "Don't Date This Man - Abnormal"
Once a douche, always a douche...
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| 10/12/2008 9:09:24 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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See, I don't need a mirror of myself, just some basic values, or what I thought were basic values. I do agree, maybe compatible is a better word than normal, there just seem to be so many freaks out there that normal was the word that came to mind. I guess I am the vanilla ice cream...
And thanks for defending my honor with mr. baggage, lol.
[Edited 10/12/2008 9:24:14 PM]
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| 10/12/2008 9:20:42 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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I think you sound normal, (meaning you are not odd at all), sweet, and like a very strong and independent woman! And instead of excepting the extra weight and wanting a man to also...make yourself work on it; I swear if you do...you will turn around as you are doing it - or when you are done - and the guys will all the sudden start to show up for you. Good luck
Thank you! I do work on the weight issue, and would love to have whatever guy I am with support me on losing it, work out together, etc. The point I was making there is that I don't want to be someone's fetish, and I also don't want guys to flock to me when I lose 80 pounds and therefore become finally "worthy" of their attention.
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| 10/12/2008 9:29:45 PM |
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spacebeany
Blacksburg, VA
age: 23
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Every person has their own "abnormal" traits according to science. If anyone reads psychology then they would know that every single person can fit into at least one "abnormal" field or catagory. With this being said no one person can be compleatly broken down, there is never going to be anyone just like you, no one has the exact upbringing as you do, nor the exat genes. We are unique from one another in many ways. So normal can only be defined by the person who is listing it. Physical characteristics can be scaled, but not mental as of yet.
With all this being said, no one wants to find someone who is just normal. We dream for that one person who can make us feel extrordinary in our every day lives and know you do the same for them. Some may find their exact fit, some find something close, some find something that was close and then it later became much less than was expected. This is why it is good to date
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| 10/12/2008 9:29:55 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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You might comsider changing "normal" to "compatible". Your version of normal is rather rural sounding, thus you get agreements from the ladies in Minnesita and Indians, both rural areas. A person from a hectic large metropolitan area may have a different thought about what "normal" is.
I've actually only been in Arkansas 2 years, originally from central NY, but maybe I am just really conservative. I thought I would fit right in here, lol.
I do know everyone has their little quirks and such, myself included, but I mean generally normal by polite society'e perception, I guess. Like I said before, no pedophiles, extreme sexual deviants, abusers, scammers, users, players, liars, that type of thing. I guess I am looking for the boy next door by suburban standards, lol.
I never thought I would agree with kitise, but I guess it is subjective.
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| 10/12/2008 9:35:10 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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biggjiminpasco
New Port Richey, FL
age: 46
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Because it's a secret society,we all live in the same town!!! I'd tell you who to talk to, but you have the wrong plumbing, sorry. Normal women live hear also, it's our little slice of Heaven.  
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| 10/12/2008 9:38:41 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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Awww Big Jim, you're no fun, can't we all come over to play? 
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| 10/12/2008 9:42:22 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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biggjiminpasco
New Port Richey, FL
age: 46
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I have a King sized bed, the more the merrier!!!!! 
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| 10/12/2008 9:48:33 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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forever4
Victoria
Australia
age: 47
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I would just like to say nobody in this world is normal Why because we all have a lot of stress in our lifes and are taken in by other problems that do affect our lifes
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| 10/12/2008 9:49:40 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
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kat..You asking for normal in a abnormal world 
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| 10/12/2008 10:26:10 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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yeah, what else is new? I guess even I am not normal by today's standards.
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| 10/12/2008 10:34:28 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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when you figure that out, let me know...
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