| 10/12/2008 5:57:45 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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I'm sure this thread has been done at one time or another, but let me tell you where I am coming from.
I think I am normal. I get up, go to work, care for my kids and pets, do some school work, clean house, post in the forums, and go to sleep so I can do it all again tomorrow. I don't sleep around, no fetishes (sorry guys, I'm very conservative), I'm not a cling on, I'm over my ex, not angry, bitter, or negative, not a stalker, and not overly into anything. I'm honest, driven to succeed, self sufficient, and educated (but not full of myself because of that). I am self sufficient and a hard worker, do my own home improvement, landscaping, and yard work. I am a nice person, have a big heart, very considerate and respectful to others, and would do nearly anything for someone I cared about. I support and accept people as they are and don't feel the need to change them. I actually liked being married because I had a partner in life, someone to share my life with, someone who really knew what I was all about. I know what mistakes I have made in the past, I accept them, have learned from them, and have lots to bring to a relationship.
So why is it so difficult to find someone like that within a 200 mile radius? I don't need or even want someone rich and famous or drop dead gorgeous, just normal. Someone kind and considerate, pays his bills, cares for his family, is respectful to others, and who can look past my extra weight and see the beautiful person within rather than have a fat fetish. I know many normal people are not single, but there have to be some out there.
Maybe this should be my new profile bio....
Any thoughts?
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| 10/12/2008 6:03:59 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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u have described an abnormal person. good luck
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| 10/12/2008 6:04:29 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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You really think so?
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| 10/12/2008 6:07:59 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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soloact59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 49
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Normal people are people you just don't know very well. No matter how normal we think we are someone will disagree. We're all a little strange to someone. The trick is to find someone who can handle your quirks and you theirs.
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| 10/12/2008 6:08:13 PM |
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mike22304
Alexandria, VA
age: 62
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Put that in your profile. BTW, you sound very normal to me.
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| 10/12/2008 6:12:53 PM |
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mistymae34
Las Vegas, NV
age: 34 online now!
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Normal is a state of mind and preference that fall within our own views and boundries. I feel it is unfair, to say the least call someone abnormal. Because what you consider normal someone else may not. If it does not fit your personality or lifestyle, that does not mean you are normal and the other is not.
Part of the fun and interest in life is interacting with others that differ from our perception on life. At least that is my take on things. Good luck finding someone "normal", I am sure he is out there somewhere. I wish you the best.
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| 10/12/2008 6:14:28 PM |
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bren31mn
Rochester, MN
age: 40
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It either sounds completely normal to me, or I am abnormal as well as the majority of my friends! (I may be crazy but I'm not abnormal!) lol Just keep looking, When it happens, it'll be right! And yes, I would put that in your Profile.
Brenda
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| 10/12/2008 6:16:23 PM |
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tryagaindj68
Evansville, IN
age: 40
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So far, I've only met one person I consider to be quite normal, and he's boring. And married.
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| 10/12/2008 6:27:34 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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Thanks for all the input! You are all the best!
So I am not the only one that has had this problem? You hear so many stories about pedophiles, stalkers, abusers, and the like....then there are people with sexual needs that don't match mine at all, people who don't work, have any income coming in or even want to, scammers, people looking for whatever they can get from you, people that want to be taken care of, etc. Then there are just jerks that are negative, passive aggressive and want to play games... Even a little boring would be ok as long as he wanted to go and do something fun every so often. Makes it frustrating, as you all know.
[Edited 10/12/2008 6:30:51 PM]
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| 10/12/2008 7:05:09 PM |
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woodsdweller
Henry, VA
age: 51
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I am not now or ever will be "normal" so I can't help.
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| 10/12/2008 7:05:35 PM |
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kamathu
Kingman, AZ
age: 48 online now!
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You might comsider changing "normal" to "compatible". Your version of normal is rather rural sounding, thus you get agreements from the ladies in Minnesita and Indians, both rural areas. A person from a hectic large metropolitan area may have a different thought about what "normal" is.
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| 10/12/2008 7:16:07 PM |
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longrider956
Corbin, KY
age: 52
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normal?????? politicly or socially correct?????????
By what standards are you measuring normal?
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| 10/12/2008 7:19:48 PM |
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rexydon
Lenexa, KS
age: 23
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honestly ... there is no normal. every ones different.... the only normal thing is that we all are covered with skin... blah ok bad idea/thought/example. its hardto find someone that's close to being just like you. jmo
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| 10/12/2008 7:27:59 PM |
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rss0412
McHenry, IL
age: 46
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i don't think there is such a thing as a normal person. would make for a boring world, don't you think? 
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| 10/12/2008 7:31:15 PM |
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wreckerman57
Port Jervis, NY
age: 50
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Work,schoolwork,pets ,clean, cook,raising kids. Thats everyday life for a lot of us.
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