10/12/2008 10:40:52 PM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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theshadow_
Beaver, UT
age: 38
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Actually for me, i don't want normal. I like a little excitment in my life. No, i don't mean drama. There is enough of that on here
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10/13/2008 12:16:31 AM |
Why is it so difficult to find someone Normal? |
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tarotdream
Ventura, CA
age: 53
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I think I am normal.
The trick is to get somebody else to say it.
no fetishes
I'm over my ex
I support and accept people as they are and don't feel the need to change them.
I don't need or even want someone rich and famous or drop dead gorgeous, just normal. look past my extra weight and see the beautiful person within rather than have a fat fetish
Any thoughts?
If you have NO fetishes you're abnormal, repressed or lying.
If you make a point of telling a group of near-strangers you're over your ex, you probably aren't.
Everybody wants to improve others for their own good.
If you don't want the exceptional people, that means you want the second raters.
Why NOT someone with a fat fetish? Don't neglect the other qualities, mind, but if he wants to worship, why not?
Sometimes we hesitate about others profiles. They aren't lying, but the don't quite ring true. Not "trying to appear better than they are" but inaccurate.
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10/13/2008 12:54:21 AM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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eader]Quote from katrinasq:
I think I am normal.
The trick is to get somebody else to say it. People that know me do
no fetishes
I'm over my ex
I support and accept people as they are and don't feel the need to change them.
I don't need or even want someone rich and famous or drop dead gorgeous, just normal. look past my extra weight and see the beautiful person within rather than have a fat fetish
Any thoughts?
If you have NO fetishes you're abnormal, repressed or lying. I'm just conservative, is that repressed or abnormal?
If you make a point of telling a group of near-strangers you're over your ex, you probably aren't. had 7 empty years while still married to get over him and over a year since the divorce
Everybody wants to improve others for their own good. who am I to decide someone needs to be improved? I can really only improve myself
If you don't want the exceptional people, that means you want the second raters. I want exceptional people inside, not Brad Pitt. Just trying to be realistic.
Why NOT someone with a fat fetish? Don't neglect the other qualities, mind, but if he wants to worship, why not? ewwwww, even I don't like my fat
Sometimes we hesitate about others profiles. They aren't lying, but the don't quite ring true. Not "trying to appear better than they are" but inaccurate.
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10/13/2008 12:57:55 AM |
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nickhenderson
Westby, WI
age: 27
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normal is a state of mind. there is no normal. what is normal for me is oviously not normal for you. your life sounds very boring. no office. but in reality normal is just not a real thing. try steping outside your box, or your comfort zone. that is when you get to meet amazing people. you want to meet someone try doing something new in your life.
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10/13/2008 1:02:12 AM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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No offense taken, Nick. My life is pretty boring, more out of necessity than anything else for the time being. I don't mind thinking out of the box or going out of my comfort zone as long as it is something I want to do. There are just so many "predators" out there that I would prefer to find someone stable.
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10/13/2008 10:57:37 AM |
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harleyman2006
Paxton, IL
age: 58
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I work in the town of Normal Illinois. I could send you their phone book. Seem to be quite a few normal people in it. Though some are quit abnormal normal people. Sorry I couldn't resist. 
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10/13/2008 10:59:14 AM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 49
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I told her I was normal but she told me not that normal the other kind
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10/13/2008 11:26:12 AM |
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frogluver142
Maryville, TN
age: 53
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Normal to one person is probably abnormal to another.Variety makes the world go round.I think we should just stay true to ourselves and if someone doesn't except us for who we are then we just keep going....I really don't know what would be considerd normal...Good Luck
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10/13/2008 11:28:38 AM |
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frogluver142
Maryville, TN
age: 53
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Why would you think that just because a person says they are stable....that they couldn't be a predator...?
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10/13/2008 11:30:07 AM |
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beanz991
Houston, TX
age: 41
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One persons idea of normal is not another's.
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10/13/2008 11:37:17 AM |
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mjd83
West Frankfort, IL
age: 25
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I guess first off how would you go about defining normal? If a person describes someone normal I have found that most people are disinterested in them just for that reason. Like saying someone is...okay. If that makes sense.
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10/13/2008 11:38:10 AM |
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steve_c420
Greenville, NC
age: 28
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I HAVE FOUND SOMEONE VERY NORMAL, ACTUALY SHE'S BETTER THAN THAT! you have to take your time and realy look. trial and eror. just try interacting with them way before you date them thats how you find what you want. and im sorry to say but meyb your definition of normal isnt someone elses. or you could be expecting way too much out of people. alsoyou should be willing to go to love not just wait for it to come to you. or youll be waiting 4ever!
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10/13/2008 11:38:58 AM |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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Why would you think that just because a person says they are stable....that they couldn't be a predator...?
Ted Bundy comes to mind. He used to work for the Wa. state governor.
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10/13/2008 11:41:47 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45
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Mathematically, "Normal" lies within +/- 3 Standard Deviations of the mean....that's a 99.7% envelope.
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10/13/2008 11:44:04 AM |
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carbonv
Salem, AR
age: 47
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Why would I want to meet someone "normal"??/ I like crazy people..Normal people are kind of weird, and scary   
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