| 10/25/2008 10:22:30 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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singlemother_86
Algona, IA
age: 22
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I am the type of girl who loves the feelings of being in a mans arms. I dont mean to toot my own horn but I do belive that I make a pretty damn good girlfriend. I never cheat, betray, or lie to my loved one. I wait on him and and foot and I buy him random gifts when I see something that he would like. Now I know thats not all a relationship is based around but I'm honestly starting to think that guys dont see me as girlfriend material. Im starting to wonder if it has anything to do with my looks or the fact that I have a kid. All of my past relationships have ended badly...with either assult or cheating. Now what is it about me that men find so repulsive? Please be kind!
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| 10/25/2008 10:25:48 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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wtf_ftw
Bedford, TX
age: 33 online now!
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you may be slightly more insane than the average chick...
or it could just be immaturity. don't worry, you'll grow out of it.
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| 10/25/2008 10:32:31 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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singlemother_86
Algona, IA
age: 22
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i am not insane or immature...but thanks anyway...
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| 10/25/2008 10:38:30 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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texas_okie
Laverne, OK
age: 42
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if i was only 20 years younger!
I would love sharing my life with you and your daughter!
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| 10/25/2008 10:42:39 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
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Don't pay attention to (wtf) he is not mature enough himself to get the point 
I am going to bring up a couple of thing that might help...or atleast I hope so:
- Guys love their own space.......
You might be the best girl around, and if you crowd them, they will resent you for it. The best advise I have ever heard was: "Give him time to miss you."
- Any man, any age, with any games or agendas, would be serious about a woman who can enhances his lives in the things which are imortant to him at the time.
Women who only think: "What is he gonna do for ME"..."How is he gonna make ME happy"...and these sorts of "Princess" thinking, will never be able to hold any guy's attentions for too long.
- Do not be needy...impatient...selfish...and demading.
All those good things that you want will happen...in its own time and place. Pressuring a guy for commitment, or the next level, will accomplish NOTHING, but pushing him away.
Afterall, isn't it better if he is the one doing the pushing?
Just have fun with your man...enjoy your time...enjoy every stage of your relationship...make the right choices, and it will happen when you least expect it.
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| 10/25/2008 10:45:04 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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All of my past relationships have ended badly...with either assult or cheating. Now what is it about me that men find so repulsive? Please be kind!
Assault and cheating ?????? Sounds like the problem lies in your choice of men.
Bad boy addict are we ?
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| 10/25/2008 10:47:19 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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singlemother_86
Algona, IA
age: 22
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Don't pay attention to (wtf) he is not mature enough himself to get the point
I am going to bring up a couple of thing that might help...or atleast I hope so:
- Guys love their own space.......
You might be the best girl around, and if you crowd them, they will resent you for it. The best advise I have ever heard was: "Give him time to miss you."
- Any man, any age, with any games or agendas, would be serious about a woman who can enhances his lives in the things which are imortant to him at the time.
Women who only think: "What is he gonna do for ME"..."How is he gonna make ME happy"...and these sorts of "Princess" thinking, will never be able to hold any guy's attentions for too long.
- Do not be needy...impatient...selfish...and demading.
All those good things that you want will happen...in its own time and place. Pressuring a guy for commitment, or the next level, will accomplish NOTHING, but pushing him away.
Afterall, isn't it better if he is the one doing the pushing?
Just have fun with your man...enjoy your time...enjoy every stage of your relationship...make the right choices, and it will happen when you least expect it.
hey thanks! Yea I will admit I am a bit needy lol and i do get jealous easy and I dont trust that well either..but i am trying to work on my issues lol
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| 10/25/2008 10:48:30 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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singlemother_86
Algona, IA
age: 22
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Assault and cheating ?????? Sounds like the problem lies in your choice of men.
Bad boy addict are we ?
well all the men i dated havent come off as "bad boys" they seem like real gentelmen til I deny sex cuz im sorry but sex isnt an every day thing for me...
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| 10/25/2008 10:53:33 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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thatoneguy05
Springfield, MO
age: 22
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well you sound like girlfriend material to me..to bad you didnt live closer!
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| 10/25/2008 10:54:38 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
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Well...girl...you better get that sex thing straighten out pretty quickly.
Men are sexual creatures, just like us...sex shouldn't be a bargaining tool in any relationship.
Next time, try having sex dang in the middle of a fight....LOLOL...see how fast everything gets resolved.
One last thing...if you ARE with the man who is your true match...the one...with all the right chemistry and everything...SEX WILL BE YOUR EVERYDAY THING...or maybe more like 3 times a day thing.
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| 10/25/2008 10:56:29 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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quebee08
Columbus, GA
age: 45
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omg-do some soul searching..also why don't you treat yourself to all those things you do for the men in your life..do not blame yourself for other people's bad behavior..oh and again-do some soul searching..gotta find out why you pick the one's that are bad for you..
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| 10/25/2008 10:57:16 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
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singlemother.. The past 3 years I havent had a man in my life(relationship) before that I always had a man. Its rather odd feeling at first but it's manageable. At your age I dont think you will be single for very long.
At my age its a whole different story
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| 10/25/2008 11:15:01 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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sw1981
Philadelphia, PA
age: 27
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I am the type of girl who loves the feelings of being in a mans arms. I dont mean to toot my own horn but I do belive that I make a pretty damn good girlfriend. I never cheat, betray, or lie to my loved one. I wait on him and and foot and I buy him random gifts when I see something that he would like. Now I know thats not all a relationship is based around but I'm honestly starting to think that guys dont see me as girlfriend material. Im starting to wonder if it has anything to do with my looks or the fact that I have a kid. All of my past relationships have ended badly...with either assult or cheating. Now what is it about me that men find so repulsive? Please be kind!
Stop being so stingy with sex. That promotes cheating. Not saying it;s ok for men to cheat but sex is like food. If they are hungry and you won't feed them, they will look for someone who might.
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| 10/25/2008 11:19:25 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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singlemother_86
Algona, IA
age: 22
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dont get me wrong...I LOVE sex but i like it to be special..if you have it everyday it kinda loses its meaning...but i guess if its with the one you love dearly then i guess it always means something...
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| 10/25/2008 11:22:34 AM |
I hate being single!! |
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texassweetness
Baytown, TX
age: 47
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You are very young, dear one. With poor choices in your past relationships, and you admit to being, well, jealous, needy, and not trusting. I would suggest taking a break from men, and work on those three problem areas. Once you have made yourself a better person for YOU, then you will, by default, became a better mate for a man.
Now PLEASE don't take this as an insult, for it certainly wasn't given to hurt. I wish you luck!
Callephina
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