| 10/8/2007 6:46:52 AM |
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onlyforyou44
Helena, MT
age: 62
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On these sites you have to be careful putting your heart out there to far. There are so many on these sites just for intertainment and are not serious. You can fall for someone online after emailing them for awhile but when you meet them face to face reality sets in and you find out they are not the person you thought they were When you meet someone in a grocery store you don't allways get what you think, it takes time to develop a relationship even if you see them everyday Just don't put your heart out far enough to get stomped on and eventully you will find that one person ment for you. Don't take this shit too serious or you will get your heart broken . Good luck in your hunt and have some fun on the way. 
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| 10/8/2007 6:56:10 AM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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Ya know you're right...I took it too seriously and it was my own fault...SMACK tight in the face
AND for the record people...I did NOT say EVERYONE is like that I said "people" are like that.
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| 10/8/2007 6:57:11 AM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 34
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erotic.. i completely understand where ur comming from hun, TRUST ME!!!!! i know what ur talking about iv been there and know how hard it is to let ur gaurd down only to be crushed and they wonder why we dont trust, its not easy to do online. just keep ur head up and u know im here if u need to talk,just remember that everyone is not like that. thats what i did, i mean i had to but now im very very careful and take more time in getting to know someone before i let myself fall for someone.live and learn sweetheart!!!!! stay strong and dont let it get ya!!! kissssessssssssssssss "angel"
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| 10/8/2007 9:07:16 AM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 52
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All we can do those of us that have been crushed by those online liers is to keep going there has to be someone out there that is who they say they are. Don't give up and like you said you just got out of a bad marriage give yourself some time. You still need to heal from that and whatever this person did to you. We are here for you as a family.
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| 10/8/2007 12:15:59 PM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46
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I've said this before & I truly believe it.......NO ONE can break your heart. Only you have the power to do that. Only you can control your emotions & feelings. If someone's trying to play you that's their bad......if you allow yourself to be played, it's yours.
I too, believe in "face time".......but I also think that cyber & phone time can be a building block. Just quit with the desparation & the belief that someone is going to be perfect for you. No one is perfect but if both are willing to try EVERY SINGLE DAY to be a better person, then I think you've got a pretty decent shot at it. JMO
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| 10/8/2007 12:36:29 PM |
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memerick
Edmond, OK
age: 27
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Man sorry to hear that. the way i look at it its better to meet ppl off the net for dating simply because we see a picture in a box and a profile full of good stuff and very little bad stuff. but we really don't know the person and are not physically involved with them and i don't mean sex but as in body language and gestures and expressions that helps us get a feel for a person it just not that easy on the net. but it is always great to meet new friends
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| 10/8/2007 3:31:34 PM |
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rlbitinpa
Ephrata, PA
age: 58
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It is said that the difference between man and dogs, is that if you bring a starving dog inside, feed him, give him water, a place to sleep, and a little love, that kindness will be given back s thousand fold, unfortunately not so with to many humans.
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| 10/8/2007 4:42:58 PM |
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dsjbill
Millville, NJ
age: 36
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Mem you are sooo right.... I don't believe that we should not put ourselves out there though I feel that if I don't put myself out there and take the chance I might just miss out on the best relationship of my life.  Noone can take from me the right to be madly, completely, truthfully, utterly, whole heartly in love again. I do not regret any and/or all the women I have had the pleasure of meeting and/or coming in contact with because I never know my soulmate could be just one simple click away...... 
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| 10/8/2007 4:50:42 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Amen copter! But.. we all want the same things.. and even though we see the red flags ahead of meeting, alot of us just ride on the hope. I have def learned alot from meetings and will use them for future meetings. The biggest lesson.. for me.. is to listen to my instincts.. and if they say there is something not quite right.. than don't follow through on the meeting.. even if it is a last minute decision.
Meeting THE one from the net is quite a challenge. It is not impossible. I think that there are just as many challenges in meeting someone from your own hometown as it is on the net. They are different challenges and risks.. but they are there
Bill.. that is exactly how I feel.. well said
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| 10/8/2007 5:55:35 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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There are players online as well as where I live and they play their games well. 
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| 10/8/2007 6:49:43 PM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?
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| 10/8/2007 6:57:41 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Listen to what your heart tell you. You have to live with whatever decisions you make in your life. We are there for you 
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| 10/8/2007 7:03:16 PM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46
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You're forgiven, Erotic. We all make mistakes! (Saying this in a joking but compassionate way)
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| 10/9/2007 5:56:21 AM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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[Edited 10/9/2007 7:22:34 AM]
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| 10/9/2007 6:40:52 AM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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You never truly know if it was meant to be until you let that person in to some degree. We have all been there at one time or another.
I agree that people can be cruel but karma can be a b*tch and what comes around goes around.
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