10/12/2007 2:38:50 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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One of the things that people here frequently comment on is how photos are sometimes misleading, or missing altogether. And it's understandable that someone's physical appearance certainly is important to a person seeking to establish a relationship; more important to some, not as much to others. What if the design of DHU was in such a way that you could not see a posted photo until you had exchanged email, etc. with a person for .... say a month? Would you choose not to use the system at all? And if you stayed, and had established a very enjoyable rhapport with someone through this type of interaction, if you finally passed the "trial" period and then saw what they looked like, would you back away/cool off/slow down/etc. if the person didn't meet your expectations (even if you had really enjoyed the interaction the two of you had)? Do you believe the fact that we have the ability to see photos of others creates the potential for 'pursuing' someone who might be the worst match ever, and passing by someone who could be the best thing that ever happened to us?
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10/12/2007 2:43:45 PM |
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kirota2
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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This is a very good post. For me I would not be on a site that didn't post pics. I don't want to waste anyones time. I think you can be emotionally attracted to someone without seeing them. I am emotionally invested in some of my friends, but to pic someone that I could spend the rest of my life with there has to be that physical attraction. I don't have sex that isn't based on physical attraction and mental attraction. Without one it doens't matter if you don't have the other. It is just the same as I wouldn't want to be with someone that had every hair standing on end when I saw him if he was like talking to a rock. JMO
Kirota
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10/12/2007 2:45:41 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38 online now!
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arent you girls glad you can see my pic ?  
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10/12/2007 2:46:42 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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soul..it's pics like yours that keeps us women coming back for more 
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10/12/2007 2:48:42 PM |
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happy4evr
Picayune, MS
age: 46
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I couldn't have said it better kirota and won't even try to add to it.
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10/12/2007 2:50:16 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38 online now!
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Yes, yes and yes!
I am guilty as charged , as many other guys here i have this flaw and i am very "Visual"
Now if that makes me shallow then i guess that is what i am , but i try also to be honest and tell it like it is , so hopefuly that will bring balance to my flawed personality , lol.
A picture is important because physical attraction is important(To ME) , if that is not an issue to someone else then he/she may be a better person then me , but i am willing to live with it

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10/12/2007 2:51:25 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38 online now!
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when it comes to troy i wish there was no pics on dh  
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10/12/2007 2:52:41 PM |
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kentuckygent
Askvoll
Norway
age: 28
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not me i can learn to have fun in any situation maybe it would be better with out pics blu would you be here blu if there was no pics?
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10/12/2007 2:53:20 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38 online now!
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10/12/2007 2:54:06 PM |
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kirota2
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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thanks happy. I'm glad someone could understand what I was trying to say.
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10/12/2007 2:54:20 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Pictures give us a sense of whom we are talking to. It's just the first step of many in starting to get to know someone tho...I just hate being judged by what i look like before they really know me...jmo
xoxoPeaches.
btw, my pc is running really slow..sorry for the delayed responses.
[Edited 10/12/2007 2:55:48 PM]
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10/12/2007 2:55:57 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Ky.. I was on the net before there was a way to put pics on such sites lol. I don't think that I would now that I have grown accustomed to be able to view pics. I am also very visual.
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10/12/2007 2:59:14 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38 online now!
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you three girls above me is the reason why i love pics on dh !!!! got any naked ones?   
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10/12/2007 3:00:12 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33 online now!
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@ Soul!
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10/12/2007 3:00:18 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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sure soul.. but you first lol
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