12/13/2008 9:46:20 AM |
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amanda_jeanette
Pigeon Forge, TN
age: 23
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First, I hate to stereotype but I just have to ask. Why do men who are overweight, semi-attractive to unattractive, and vary in age think they all can get the single, hot women who have no kids? I mean I try to not base an opinion off of looks but some men amaze me. Some of my closest friends are men. Some of them are good looking, some of them are not. They both have the same mindset. Maybe this is not a good question to ask but I would like some honest answers. Men seem to overlook the decent women who would treat them like they wanted to be treated but pass them on for a younger version who does not even know what she wants out of life. Men and women's opinions are equally appreciated.
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12/13/2008 10:00:53 AM |
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fishenguy
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 49
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Women do it too. And in both cases....often times they can do better.
The only answer is that a lot of people don't really know what they want....or need.
[Edited 12/13/2008 10:02:59 AM]
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12/13/2008 10:03:58 AM |
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easygoin68
Crawford, NE
age: 40
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I try to keep things simple and logical. I think I can do better because, by birth women are 52% of the population. More women than men. I'm not about the younger,slimmer woman with no kids. I look at the issues, and drama in their life. And I won't repeat the mistakes that I've made when younger!
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12/13/2008 10:09:55 AM |
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dottore1
Cocoa, FL
age: 52 online now!
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This is less a question of men or Women, but like most of this sort of post, about basic human nature -- it boils down to a combination of aspiration and ego.
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12/13/2008 11:04:09 AM |
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amanda_jeanette
Pigeon Forge, TN
age: 23
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I try to keep things simple and logical. I think I can do better because, by birth women are 52% of the population. More women than men. I'm not about the younger,slimmer woman with no kids. I look at the issues, and drama in their life. And I won't repeat the mistakes that I've made when younger!
That is understandable.
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12/13/2008 11:04:27 AM |
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santababy
Libby, MT
age: 61
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First, I hate to stereotype but I just have to ask. Why do men who are overweight, semi-attractive to unattractive, and vary in age think they all can get the single, hot women who have no kids? I mean I try to not base an opinion off of looks but some men amaze me. Some of my closest friends are men. Some of them are good looking, some of them are not. They both have the same mindset. Maybe this is not a good question to ask but I would like some honest answers. Men seem to overlook the decent women who would treat them like they wanted to be treated but pass them on for a younger version who does not even know what she wants out of life. Men and women's opinions are equally appreciated.
I guess you are into eugenics. Do you think that only good looking guys should mate with a good looking girl like you? It seems that women are looking ONLY for good looking guys. Guy's, of course like good looking hot babes. Some girls like HOT babes too. Think how the world would look if everybody only mated with ugly people. Remember that a person can always lose weight, but ugly is forever. I myself will pick a smart, kind, sweet person with a good attitude over a beauty queen everyday. I think that is true with most wise men too. I rarely ever even read the really good looking women's profiles, you know the ones that start "I just want a nice guy who likes to have fun."
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12/13/2008 11:11:36 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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I know what you mean girl. I mean looks should not matter. But it seems the dudes who are not so attractive seem to be not so attractive on the inside too. They have the mentality that they are deserving. They deserve the best because they have the all mighty
They dont seem to realize we are not dependent on the penis anymore so they need to get off their high throne there and realize there is competition and their main competitor is a piece of plastic
They no longer hold the throne, the vibrator does
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12/13/2008 11:14:26 AM |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 51
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A vibrator...will not leave you for another vibrator. You know where your vibrator has been. It will not leave the toilet seat up, and it will not get up an leave in the middle of the night for fear of cuddling.
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12/13/2008 11:14:59 AM |
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stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
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Looks matter to me...and if it doesn't look better than my toy, why bother?
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12/13/2008 11:15:17 AM |
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amanda_jeanette
Pigeon Forge, TN
age: 23
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I guess you are into eugenics. Do you think that only good looking guys should mate with a good looking girl like you? It seems that women are looking ONLY for good looking guys. Guy's, of course like good looking hot babes. Some girls like HOT babes too. Think how the world would look if everybody only mated with ugly people. Remember that a person can always lose weight, but ugly is forever. I myself will pick a smart, kind, sweet person with a good attitude over a beauty queen everyday. I think that is true with most wise men too. I rarely ever even read the really good looking women's profiles, you know the ones that start "I just want a nice guy who likes to have fun."
I agree. I would definitely prefer personality over looks. I just have never understood. The reason I finally decided to post was because I met and started talking to a guy a couple of weeks ago. I thought there might have been a connection until he tells me he has met someone new. Mind you the man is in his late 30's. Well, the girl is probably a size 2, eighteen years old, and has no children. I see her once a week because she works at my bank. She has a personality of a toad and I constantly see her flirting and playfully hitting the guy in the cubicle next to her. The guy in this situation had told me he admired me because I was mature and knew what I wanted in life. However, here he is with the younger girl who obviously is not mature and does not know what she wants in life. I am not the first person this has happened to. I am just puzzled....
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12/13/2008 11:16:37 AM |
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lnlass
Laguna Niguel, CA
age: 51
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He is thinking with that other head, no mystery here. You can do much better, girlfriend!
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12/13/2008 11:18:39 AM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 54
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I know what you mean girl. I mean looks should not matter. But it seems the dudes who are not so attractive seem to be not so attractive on the inside too. They have the mentality that they are deserving. They deserve the best because they have the all mighty
They dont seem to realize we are not dependent on the penis anymore so they need to get off their high throne there and realize there is competition and their main competitor is a piece of plastic
They no longer hold the throne, the vibrator does
When they invent a vibrator that brings flowers, will watch a chick flick with you, and holds your hair back while you puke, I'll start worrying...
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12/13/2008 11:19:43 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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Oh its out already, its calle the real man in a box
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12/13/2008 11:23:08 AM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 54
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Oh its out already, its calle the real man in a box
Keep the "real man," I'll take the box...
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12/13/2008 11:23:55 AM |
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amanda_jeanette
Pigeon Forge, TN
age: 23
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I know what you mean girl. I mean looks should not matter. But it seems the dudes who are not so attractive seem to be not so attractive on the inside too. They have the mentality that they are deserving. They deserve the best because they have the all mighty
They dont seem to realize we are not dependent on the penis anymore so they need to get off their high throne there and realize there is competition and their main competitor is a piece of plastic
They no longer hold the throne, the vibrator does
Very good point
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