| 3/4/2007 12:03:08 PM |
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mistreatedman
Columbus Grove, OH
age: 34
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my ex of 10yrs of marriage had came out told me after 10yrs she was just with me because of kids no else matterd and then madelove to guy she is with now within 10 feet of where i was and tried to tell me she didn't do it so why is it so hard for woman to be honest with a man about sex.
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| 3/4/2007 12:28:09 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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IM always open and honest about sex..its the only way to be.
If your not your missing out on a lot.
[Edited 3/4/2007 12:28:39 PM]
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| 3/4/2007 1:02:32 PM |
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trojan536
Birmingham, AL
age: 57
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Mistreated,
You're not the only one, And it may not mean that she did'nt love. My sister told me that she loved her husband, but went to sleep crying every night. They were just not compatible sexually. They remained together until they were both dead, He never knew the truth. Im sure that you're not alone, And you would think that if the lines of communication are open, this issue could be resolved, but, obviously it's not that simple. Dont condem women, they lie more times than not because they DO love us, and dont want to see us hurt. Dont harbor ill feelings for her, ten years she tried to do the right thing, how long will you try ?
Trojan
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| 3/4/2007 1:33:35 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 81
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I am confused. Was she not being honest with you about what she wanted from you? or was she not being honest that she was with another?
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| 3/4/2007 1:35:14 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 81
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Trojan,
Your sister's story is so sad.
SL
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| 3/4/2007 2:30:06 PM |
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trojan536
Birmingham, AL
age: 57
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I really dont think that mistreated case is as rare as it may seem. Im sure we all know of marriages that are seemingly happy, family first and caring; Yet sexually there is the lack of total satisfaction. Some women rarely have satisying orgasms with their husband or mate, that dosent mean that they dont love and respect them. People cheat for millions of reasons, I just think that sexual incompatibility is one of those reasons. How would you feel if your mate told you that you're everything in this world that he ever wanted,you're charming, funny, great to be around, good fishing buddy, everything, but sexually he was left wanting. (could you handle it ?) Some men cant get past the foreplay before rockets fly, some women take very lengthy foreplay, see the problem, somebody is in a pickle here, or visa versa. Sometimes you just cant put a round peg in a square hole. Not all sex is great sex; I heard a woman ask another woman this question: Would you rather have a good man and half ass sex, or, would you rather have a half ass man and good sex ? Some have one, some have the other, But rarely does one woman get both.
This is a bad one !!!
Trojan
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| 3/4/2007 2:43:42 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 81
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Well, that is likely true, saddly enough and I have been with one of each. Which would I choose now? Honestly? the one who treated me better, not the better one in bed. The one who treated me better would (in my small mind) be more open to trying to make the sexual issues better. I would be more open to him, too, because communication would be good.
Sex is much more than "Sweating to the Orgasms" and sometimes. it seems to me, that making love is lost in the mechanics of it all.
SL
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| 3/4/2007 3:57:55 PM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 55
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Maybe she doesn't have a clue about what she really needs. Kind of hard to talk about something you've never experienced.... JMO
If you have never watched sex movies you never know what the possiblities are either. Open minds make for a better relationship period. Experimentation is also helpful if you are stuck in a rut... no pun intended. Both parties have to be open to communication and willing to change.
[Edited 3/4/2007 5:04:29 PM]
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| 3/4/2007 4:56:39 PM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 81
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Good point copter, you can't know what you want, if you don't know what it is.
SL
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| 3/5/2007 2:24:08 AM |
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ol_hillbilly
Lowry City, MO
age: 47
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Oft times I've thought, It'd be better to still be a virgin than to be a born again virgin.
Seems like it'd be easier to not miss what ya never had than to miss what you have had.
Perhaps the frustration is the same?
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| 3/5/2007 2:33:57 AM |
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sebzalive
Pamplin, VA
age: 81
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I love to start my mornings with the wisdom of Hill.
SL
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| 3/5/2007 2:40:49 AM |
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ol_hillbilly
Lowry City, MO
age: 47
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Thanks Hon 
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| 3/8/2007 10:43:48 AM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61 online now!
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I think if you love someone and know what you are doing you can make the sex good for tthem and yourself. No, I dont mean by being a contortionist.
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| 3/8/2007 2:11:02 PM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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Many ppl on here love your wit and weird/funky/cool wisdom Hill. LOL
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| 3/12/2007 10:42:08 AM |
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mistreatedman
Columbus Grove, OH
age: 34
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hi she was being not honest about wanting to be with me she played me like a flute for years and then she wasn't honest with me when i asked her about him when i knew it was him i had to basically force it out of her and now i'm crying inside she sleeped with him 10 feet from me and now i have to deal with that
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