12/27/2008 1:55:38 PM |
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tenderhart82
Cleveland, OH
age: 27
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I read thisa in the mens forum and lets be honet do you agree or disagree?
Lets be serious here for just one moment. Can any guy seriously say, not to me, but to himself "what is it that would actually make me stay faithful for the rest of my life." Do you guys actually look down the road and ask yourself "will she change,mentally physically,emotionally.What about kids. what if I just get tired of being stand up and responsible 24/7 and just need to change the channels every once in awhile". The good ole days are gone and I think women are ready to hear the truth, that they want you to occassionally go out and dig in another ditch as long as you keep bringing the bacon home to them and the heart as well,but they want somnething in return, they want to be able to do the same. LOVE IS LOVE. Its not dead but changing. If it does not change and challenge the old borders, it will die. I BELIEVE LOVE IS CHANGE AND CHALLENGE. LOVE DIES IF PASSION DOES FIRST !!!FORGIVENESS ALSO GOES A LONG WAY ! i think women are ready.
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12/28/2008 10:34:30 AM |
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airesstar
Deer Trail, CO
age: 55
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I can only speak for myself, but I want a man that is faithful to me. I have been married to a man and involved with a few that were cheaters. Why do you hurts someone you love. Sex is not the most important part of a relationship, but trust and loyalty are. I would never again stay with or want to be in a relationship like that. Who needs that kind of pain?
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12/28/2008 1:54:50 PM |
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party_girl1952
Savannah, GA
age: 56
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I converse through IM with an OLD boyfriend occasionally.Just TODAY he wanted to get together for sex.I told him no.He said I must not like it like I used to. I told him it wasn't #1 on my list,I wanted someone to love and to love me. And even though I had convinced myself that I had loved him in the past and that I thought that if I loved him enough he would love me,That didn't happen.And I didn't feel like being used any more. I had confused love with lust and that I thought you lusted after the one you loved.He signed out with no response.
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12/29/2008 7:04:42 AM |
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alicekathleen
Sacramento, CA
age: 63
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I am not sure if I understand the question. Sure, I notice attractive men, or should say, men who are attractive to me,
as we all have different views on what is physically attractive. However, I am not going to act out by speaking to the
man, flirting, or more. Only 12 year olds cannot control their sexual impulses, adults can and do. That is called
maturity. I ask no more of my partner than I am willing to give myself, which is commitment to the relationship.
Sex outside the relationship would damage or destroy it. Why do that?
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1/4/2009 4:19:35 PM |
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foureverlove
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 43
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I agree with alice.. On both things, not sur of question and
I ask no more of my partner than I am willing to give myself, which is commitment to the relationship.
Sex outside the relationship would damage or destroy it. Why do that?
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1/4/2009 7:33:09 PM |
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funnysmiles
Perryville, MO
age: 44
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Commitment is commitment to me. I want the one that's not going to go down the road looking for something else. I just want what I use to have, a honest husband who never cheated on the 14 yrs we were married.
Makes guys really mad when I tell them I am not interested in just a sexual relationship I want someone by my side forever again. There's that "C" word and it sends them off running lol.
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1/4/2009 7:33:55 PM |
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fineandfoxie
Roseburg, OR
age: 56
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i agree with u and the idea of just sex to keep a relationship together is not right.Companionship support understanding balance equaity and respect for each other also is help more than just sex.
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1/6/2009 5:13:18 PM |
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jennyann68
Clarksville, AR
age: 65
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If my man plays He pays big time and I am gone,
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