12/27/2008 6:53:46 PM |
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needanswers39
Pelham, AL
age: 39
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Where do you draw the line. If you truely love someone how many chances do you give them. Ok I am going to get some fire here so this is what I did. I left for a whole week from my girlfriend (without a note etc). She took me back and she refused to tell me she loved me. She constantly reminded me of what a terrible thing I had done by leaveing the first time. I left again or rather she told me to leave when I threatened to leave again. Then she writes me an email telling me she loved me more than anyone she had ever met but that was it no more chances. I am confused she even said I was her soulmate. I regret leaveing the first time and even after a month am still hurting. It was my fault. I just thought "soulmates" could weather anything(within reason).
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12/27/2008 7:00:59 PM |
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hannbalshottie
Hannibal, MO
age: 53
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Sounds like your "weathering anything out", suddenly hit an ice burg...
Face it...you screwed up, and she is not a happy camper.
Hope you have a lifejacket......
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12/27/2008 7:03:12 PM |
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sea_maiden
Mesa, AZ
age: 56
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Great answer Hannibell.......Sea
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12/27/2008 7:11:19 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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Well you chose to walk so now you suffer the consequences of that action...And honestly you are making a big mistake thinking soulmates or whatever should be able and willing to weather anything...Thats a no no because in the first place you showed an extreme lack of respect for your partners feelings...I have been on the recieving end of being walked out on and the disappearing act followed by hi im back...My reply is to get the hell out and stay out...Its a form of abuse maybe you can learn from it and while youre at it ask yourself how you would feel if same thing was done to you???? You had your chances yet chose to re offend .Its no ones fault but your own... So live and learn from it and move on.
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12/27/2008 7:26:16 PM |
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sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
age: 42
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I just thought "soulmates" could weather anything(within reason). Trust me, you're not her soulmate. If you were, we wouldn't be having this conversation
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12/27/2008 7:27:39 PM |
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hotnstinky
Crockett, CA
age: 38
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Wow , sounds like she really loves you to keep puttin up with that. I did that for a while putting up with someone that would get mad and leave.But their comes a day when she will get tired and find someone new. If you truely love her you better stop because if she finds someone you will be history forever. My x regreted what he did , but after so many , enough was enough and he was history. So if you love her you better stop before its to late...
Mitsi
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12/27/2008 7:28:27 PM |
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mag_eleven
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
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suckage..
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12/27/2008 7:28:55 PM |
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loulousav
Eunice, LA
age: 37
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You can love someone but still have to let them go..What's the saying "sometimes love just ain't enough".
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12/27/2008 7:34:51 PM |
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cinthianna
Goshen, IN
age: 29
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You can love someone but still have to let them go..What's the saying "sometimes love just ain't enough".
That was a Damn good song.
OP-either go back begging for forgiveness with your tail ducktaped to your leg, and be the man you are supposed to be if she is willing to forigve you one more time...
Whatever happens,...write this one in the book of life,..we all make our mistakes and wrong judgement calls and none of them are worth a damn if we don't remember them in the future...
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12/27/2008 8:23:34 PM |
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1missnancy
Clearlake, CA
age: 46
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Dude, you screwed up there... "hope you've got an air bag".
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12/27/2008 9:16:08 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 52
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Just because you love someone does not mean it was meant to be.....
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12/28/2008 3:30:49 AM |
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lilmissala1957
Hartselle, AL
age: 51
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working things out doesn't mean leaving. You may have to walk out to cool off but leaving someone breaks a trust that just doesn't seem to be easy to ever gain back if they ever gain it back at all. If you truly love someone you stay and work on the problem together. One can't fix it it takes 2.
I would say you definitely messed up. If a guy leaves me instead of facing up to the problem he is out for good. I don't give second chances. Been there,done that,got the t-shirt and ain't a going there no more!
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12/28/2008 3:38:32 AM |
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seakats
Palm City, FL
age: 46
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I have learned over the years that walking is a very bad thing. Talking is good.
you have just had to learn a very hard lesson. Trust comes in all sizes and shapes.
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12/28/2008 3:38:59 AM |
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newlife4me2
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 43
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You left her once, without a single word, she took you back, and then you had the balls to 'threaten' her with it a second time? Were it me you'd be out on your a** too.
That isn't in any way, shape, or form a mature, adult way to handle conflict, any conflict, let alone conflict within a personal relationship. I don't blame her one bit for refusing to play grammar school games.
As others have said, you two were not soul mates. Soul mates would never stoop to such childish behavior in order to hurt their lover or make a point. Sure, there are things done and said in the heat of anger that do hurt the ones we love, but what you did sounds like a premeditated act to inflict as much emotional pain as possible.......and that is the total opposite of love imo.
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