Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?

1/4/2009 4:32:03 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
jillers Saint Louis, MO 32, joined Nov. 2008	just a question does having sex first ever bloom into more than just a f**k buddy or is it doomed to be just that cause you let your sexual desire win over what your brain tells you to do Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/4/2009 4:35:41 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
bobbieforforums Poultney, VT 44, joined Sep. 2008	it doesnt necessarily doom anything.
1/4/2009 4:35:45 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
howardc42 Greeley, CO 49, joined Sep. 2008	It happened to me once.After having sex with this lady,we had something serious.But after the second time,I found out she was common law married to a man in a halfway house.Boy was I pissed!
1/4/2009 4:39:17 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
jillers Saint Louis, MO 32, joined Nov. 2008	wow there are some crazy people out there see the whole sex too soon hue always been told takes all the fun of the chase out of it for men and so they dont really pursue you anymore
1/4/2009 4:39:33 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
msbxxx Herefordshire United Kingdom 41, joined Oct. 2008	I think that you don't have sex with someone unless you feel that it is awsome to be in a relationship with him.honestly i haven'tried that as i am still looking for that lovely dream woman
1/4/2009 5:16:47 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
lnlass Laguna Niguel, CA 58, joined Aug. 2008	Yes you can. Just last night I told the guy am seeing that I could no longer be FWBs and we would either have to be come platonic friends or make this a mongamous relationship and see where it takes us re long haul. He agreed to enter into a relationship. I think it is the exception though, not the rule.
1/4/2009 5:47:29 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
cruise427 Los Angeles, CA 48, joined Sep. 2008	yes... you can
1/4/2009 5:54:47 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
bobta Costa Mesa, CA 62, joined Dec. 2008	I think that if there is a real connection, and understanding, then it could and should develop into more, trouble is that i think we over analize our relationships, instead of just enjoying them and letting them develop
1/4/2009 5:56:15 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
sammael Colorado Springs, CO 40, joined Jun. 2008	Yeah , you can have sex before the relationship starts . Many relationships start with sex from the getgo . There has to be sexual compatablity in any relationship that is/does involve sex . Otherwise your just friends (or family , for those who live in the south) .
1/4/2009 5:56:18 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
monaj40 Binghamton, NY 47, joined Sep. 2008	Anything Is Possible...If It Was Meant To Be It Will Be.
1/4/2009 5:56:39 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
genuinenick Apollo Beach, FL 36, joined Dec. 2008	you have a 50/50 shot babe!
1/4/2009 6:49:47 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
rrrick1 Sandy, UT 51, joined Jan. 2009	I could never have a relationship without having sex first. LOL. If there isn't a deep sexual attraction the relationship is doomed to be just a friendship. If after 2 dates, were not sexually involved I consider she isn't attracted to me enough to continue trying... and one more.
1/4/2009 7:06:16 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
barbaraajo Reston, VA 59, joined Jul. 2008	It does not work that way for me, I must have a relationship FIRST
1/4/2009 7:10:52 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
evileddy Ottawa, ON 43, joined Jan. 2008	If yer good at sex.. he will keep chasing you.
1/4/2009 7:21:20 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
anlee910 Greensboro, NC 28, joined Aug. 2008	YES you can! With men I don't beleive after you have sex with them "too early" that the man will ever want to upgrade the sex based relationship to anythin more than bein a f**k buddy. But with women I beleive you can sleep with a women early on and the relationship can still become more than simple being fuc buddies. I feel like I'mable to get an emotionl bond with women that never forms with men.
1/4/2009 7:31:43 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
freeflying1 Cincinnati, OH 54, joined Dec. 2008	::crazylove:IF IT'S MEANT TO BE?,IT'S MEANT TO BE!!!! {THAT SIMPLE}
1/4/2009 7:36:19 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
cajunmister Kinder, LA 65, joined May. 2007	I like the old stories from down here. Couples would jump the broom stick.(long ago) They could be together for years and have family before a traveling priest would show up to marry them.
1/4/2009 8:03:06 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
sw_ Gloucester, ON 35, joined Dec. 2008	Holy shit...all of my relationships started with sex. Seriously...the last time I had a date with somebody I hadn't already slept with...I was 15 I've even had sex w/ someone...liked them...and then gone on a few dates before sleeping with them again I really don't understand why anyone would think that sex first wouldn't bloom into something more
1/4/2009 8:25:43 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
heykoolaidman South Bend, IN 43, joined May. 2008	That’s just silly, Having sex before a relationship doesn’t doom anything if anything having sex and it being great most likely leads into something more you at least know that aspect of your relationship is compatible
1/4/2009 8:34:42 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
jajasun Denton, TX 49, joined Jul. 2008	Quote from jillers: wow there are some crazy people out there see the whole sex too soon hue always been told takes all the fun of the chase out of it for men and so they dont really pursue you anymore We don't all just do hit and runs ,alot of us are just looking for one woman and we want the sex to be great with her so it has to come first.
1/4/2009 8:43:02 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
kaktuz Freeburg, IL 31, joined Jan. 2009	Depends if it was good
1/4/2009 8:59:06 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
libby300 Barrington, NJ 49, joined Jan. 2009	guys want you that first night but more importantly they are testing who you are...if you gave into them, well, they question everything...you shouldn't always give into lust...especially if it's with someone who might be a keeper!!!
1/4/2009 9:15:39 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
irishlasey31 Berwyn, IL 38, joined Sep. 2008	Quote from evileddy: If yer good at sex.. he will keep chasing you. not necessarily for dating though just for sex
1/4/2009 9:52:36 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
barbaraajo Reston, VA 59, joined Jul. 2008	Quote from irishlasey31: not necessarily for dating though just for sex yeah, and who just wants that? Not me.....
1/4/2009 10:11:45 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
th6231 Point Pleasant Beach, NJ 68, joined Jul. 2007	Slow down and use punctuation---your sentences are too screwy to understand. No wonder you talk about sex before a relationship--its as fast as you write your words. SLOW DOWN and take a break. Sex first is an attention getter--BAIT as I like to call it. Then you want the dreamy interest in a relationship--which may not ever happen. IT IS SUPOOSED TO BE "RELATIONSHIP FIRST." Or at least get the guy's name ! ! !
1/4/2009 10:20:54 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
chrystal1dalya Thomasville, NC 30, joined Apr. 2008	I know that you can have a relationship after sex. The majority of guys that I've slept with were either already relationships or became one afterward. It depends on the person not the act.
1/4/2009 10:45:14 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
inheaveno8 Fort Bragg, NC 39, joined Nov. 2008	Quote from bobta: I think that if there is a real connection, and understanding, then it could and should develop into more, trouble is that i think we over analize our relationships, instead of just enjoying them and letting them develop i agree. it seems we all want to push and rush to the top. but lets face it somethigs are what they are one night stands/ f**k buddies. and will leave after awhile. but if you are connected then the cream will rise to the top
1/4/2009 11:04:02 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
wiilnotgiveup Fort Lauderdale, FL 30, joined Jul. 2008	sex to early Hmm , it could be worse you really like them ,start a relationship then find out they suck in bed. then dump them. atleast now you know you have something in common, that works... dont worry about what other people think ,act from your gut feelings..
1/5/2009 7:33:21 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
kantc Bullhead City, AZ 57, joined Dec. 2008	redundant question asked daily Sex can actually Help not hinder a relationship if you are doomed to be a fwb it has nothing to do with the sex
1/5/2009 8:30:05 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
andy14548 Beverly Hills, FL 44, joined Sep. 2008	I think you first have to ask yourself, why did you have sex with them in the first place? Did you need to do it thinking it would keep them? If you have sex on the first date then take it for that, somethings happen in the heat of the moment and should not be considered bad. If you two like each other enough, then you will form a relationship.
1/5/2009 8:45:21 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
seeep25 Providence, RI 49, joined Oct. 2008	its very hard to have a relationship after sex...how many times have you heard....Ive never done this before. but there that rare instance where its the fight person and the right time.
1/5/2009 9:17:01 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
ezguy4u Edwardsville, IL 69, joined Dec. 2008	My experience tells me yes you can have a relationship after you have had sex. My last two relationships lasted 3yrs and we had sex the first time we met. the women I dated that went by 8th grade rule where you didn't kiss until the 3rd date never seen the 2nd date. I also believe the man has to want a relationship and not just sex. So it's best to keep some men at bay until you know what they want.
1/5/2009 9:41:23 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
sw_ Gloucester, ON 35, joined Dec. 2008	Quote from irishlasey31: not necessarily for dating though just for sex Thats where you have to be good at more than just sex With sex comes post sex conversation...be it over breakfast or just a few witty comments as you're putting your bra back on If you're worth your weight in salt as a conversationalist and have any sense of good timing w/ the sarcasm then his ears will perk up. That post-coitus mini-convo as you look for your earring on his floor will become coffee or breakfast or even a date However if you are the type who wants him to do all the work and spark all the conversation...make the first phone call, etc...then yes...all you are is sex...cause you're not interesting enough
1/5/2009 10:23:48 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
simplyhim4u Brandon, FL 52, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from sw_: Thats where you have to be good at more than just sex With sex comes post sex conversation...be it over breakfast or just a few witty comments as you're putting your bra back on If you're worth your weight in salt as a conversationalist and have any sense of good timing w/ the sarcasm then his ears will perk up. That post-coitus mini-convo as you look for your earring on his floor will become coffee or breakfast or even a date However if you are the type who wants him to do all the work and spark all the conversation...make the first phone call, etc...then yes...all you are is sex...cause you're not interesting enough My God THis Lady Is right on target......... Give us a lil help and you will see a world of differance in our interest..... iLOVE witty banter and breakfast chat as long as i dont feel like i need to carry the Conv. Thank You for your insight....
1/5/2009 11:25:05 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
singlebeachdude Charlestown, RI 59, joined Dec. 2007	Quote from evileddy: If yer good at sex.. he will keep chasing you. Good point Evil! Worked for me once. Slept with a girl and ended up having an eight year relationship with her. We still are friends to this day! (27 years later!)
1/5/2009 12:07:14 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
mex2max Mt Baldy, CA 61, joined Oct. 2008	Quote from sw_: Thats where you have to be good at more than just sex With sex comes post sex conversation...be it over breakfast or just a few witty comments as you're putting your bra back on If you're worth your weight in salt as a conversationalist and have any sense of good timing w/ the sarcasm then his ears will perk up. That post-coitus mini-convo as you look for your earring on his floor will become coffee or breakfast or even a date However if you are the type who wants him to do all the work and spark all the conversation...make the first phone call, etc...then yes...all you are is sex...cause you're not interesting enough RIGHT ON SW_!!!! I know you were just quoted but it is worth repeating. That's quite a bit of insight from such a young lady. The first (and only) woman I totally loved was sex at first meeting and a marriage that lasted until her untimely death. If there is something to you, he will stay on. If not, you didn't have a realtionship anyway. He was just waiting til he got in your pants. [Edited 1/5/2009 12:08:52 PM ]
1/5/2009 12:21:22 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
rshay Barclay, MD 75, joined Aug. 2008	Sex in itself is good but with a real loving relationship it's much better and it means something other than just a physical act. When strong emotional feelings are involved sex is a wonderful thing!!!!!
1/5/2009 1:59:39 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
sw_ Gloucester, ON 35, joined Dec. 2008	Thank you simply & max It's pretty much how all my relationships have started. The post sex convo...and you look at the person and start thinking "Wow...interesting kinda person AND pretty good in bed...certainly worth some more face time"
1/5/2009 3:30:39 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
upt27 Washington, DC 35, joined Jun. 2008	I only had 3 serious relationships, I had sex with 2 of them before we were official and one after. The one that I had sex with after we were dating didn't last that long. So to answer your question I'd rather have sex first. You have to stick your toe in the water to test the temp before you jump in.
1/6/2009 2:17:47 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
gr8ful2b Henderson, NV 51, joined Jul. 2008	<--- THINKS SEX IS A GREAT ICE-BREAKER What better way to get to know one another then by fking when you first meet... at least you got all of the tension and subtext out of the way and you can concentrate on other more important things. In theory, all we think about in the beginning is seeing you naked in the first place, it would seem to be an optimum way to cut through the crap. Granted, that's all some men are after as they tend to misrepreset themselves to get into your panties - but women do the same thing too. Things you may have to keep in mind are that you shouldn't fk everytime you see each other or it will be all you have in common, and that can stunt the progress of the relationship or prevent it from happening period. As long as your adult enough and have enough self control to spend time out of bed and get to know one another while doing normal dating events, of course it stands a chance. It's not for everyone, however, I f**ked my first wife the first time I got her alone for more then 5 minutes, and had she not passed away when we were both in our 20's who knows if it would have lasted a lifetime? In my eyes it was going to last a lifetime back then.
1/6/2009 2:27:16 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
portuguese09 Coventry, RI 32, joined Jan. 2009	it make people want more either with a buddy or ur man for the first time after u do it u wnt to have more and more
1/6/2009 2:28:37 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
lakc Batam Indonesia 56, joined Sep. 2008	If you're both mature enough to handle it....YES!
1/6/2009 3:53:05 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
straightupnobs Rancho Cucamonga, CA 39, joined Jul. 2008	Let's try it & see. Call me at 555.221.2100
1/6/2009 4:40:54 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
bodogg33 Las Vegas, NV 40, joined Oct. 2008	Real sex, or anal sex, or oral sex? I am confused!
1/6/2009 4:44:00 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
sw_ Gloucester, ON 35, joined Dec. 2008	Quote from bodogg33: Real sex, or anal sex, or oral sex? I am confused! Anal sex before a relationship WILL doom the chances. If you give him anal then he really doesn't have to work for anything and will move on to the next one Keep him waiting gals
1/7/2009 11:11:10 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
hotterat44 Portland, OR 52, joined Jun. 2008	No I found my soulmate that way. The sex was so electrifying! It just gets more electrifying and the relationship has reached a serious point. It worked for me.
1/7/2009 11:34:12 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
duane88 West Jordan, UT 43, joined Dec. 2008	when a man gets what he wants he'll either go back for more or he got what he wanted
1/8/2009 12:43:28 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
nckcntn32 Canton, OH 39, joined Oct. 2008	Quote from sw_: Anal sex before a relationship WILL doom the chances. If you give him anal then he really doesn't have to work for anything and will move on to the next one Keep him waiting gals I don't know...a woman that's into anal sounds like a keeper to me. Not many women (in my personal experience at least) are not into anal. In some weird way I feel that sometimes having sex right away somehow makes you feel more comfortable with each other. It can def lead to a relationship.
1/8/2009 1:25:54 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
boots31 Pine Grove, PA 38, joined Jan. 2009	No!!!! Me and my ex can't get along because of sex.
1/10/2009 2:28:16 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
alive_n_kickin Boise, ID 60, joined Sep. 2008	depends on how shallow he is to begin with. Sometimes if you just get it out of the way first, then you can concentrate on more real conversations. If that's all he's looking for, it doesn't matter if u give it up now or 2-3 dates down the road. So just do what feels right for you. Follow your gut. JMO
1/10/2009 3:10:35 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
noellll Palm Bay, FL 36, joined Jan. 2009	i think you can realy have a long term with some even if it started off as just sex love plays game you never know when its going to bit you in the ass
1/11/2009 10:17:49 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
john9907 Sergeant Bluff, IA 40, joined Dec. 2008	I belive you can still have a relationship. It all depends on the two people. Obviously there was an attraction there to start the sex. So why not see what else is there. What's it gonna hurt?
1/11/2009 10:33:33 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
kissofpassion Madison, NJ 64, joined Feb. 2008	Quote from th6231: Slow down and use punctuation---your sentences are too screwy to understand. No wonder you talk about sex before a relationship--its as fast as you write your words. SLOW DOWN and take a break. Sex first is an attention getter--BAIT as I like to call it. Then you want the dreamy interest in a relationship--which may not ever happen. IT IS SUPOOSED TO BE "RELATIONSHIP FIRST." Or at least get the guy's name ! ! ! WELL SAID!!!!!
1/11/2009 10:44:50 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
kissofpassion Madison, NJ 64, joined Feb. 2008	Quote from rshay: Sex in itself is good but with a real loving relationship it's much better and it means something other than just a physical act. When strong emotional feelings are involved sex is a wonderful thing!!!!! Thank you for such insightful comment! It is the best of them ALL. Sex on the first date is just copulation, emotionless act...... One can never predict if it will work out in the future ( depends on 2 people involved and what their intentions are), most likely not, many men prefer a woman that is hard to get....
1/12/2009 12:17:05 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
katelyn88 Racine, WI 27, joined Jan. 2009	it can happen. its happened to me before. [become a relationship]
1/12/2009 5:37:12 AM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
sassylassy1960 Hickory, NC 55, joined Aug. 2008	just not with you bever.
1/12/2009 1:36:32 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
andytk San Diego, CA 31, joined Apr. 2008	if you are sexual in a relationship before you have let the relationship develop there are going to be problems. there must be a bond that is strong before you have sex, or the relationship will be engulfed by the sex. If it is good sex, then the relationship will be about how to make the sex better and more exciting, if the sex is bad, then both of you will become frustrated at one another because communication will break down and you will just feel awkward around each other. good sex to early equals a relationship that is dependant on sexual excitment. bad sex to early breaks down communication and brings feelings of being awkward.
1/12/2009 2:37:33 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
redjulie65 Beloit, WI 50, joined Apr. 2008	i think you can
1/12/2009 5:41:43 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
silly0holly Bowling Green, KY 28, joined Jan. 2009	YES
1/12/2009 5:45:24 PM	Can you have a relationship after you have already had sex?
mt01 Queensland Australia 37, joined Apr. 2008	of course u can

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